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by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 22, 2019 6:27 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: obsession over possible ghoster ex?
Replies: 13
Views: 7919

Re: obsession over possible ghoster ex?

(uh, so what's the current status of that?)
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 15, 2019 8:58 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: impact of circumcision
Replies: 1
Views: 3222

impact of circumcision

this is a very personal subject that probably doesn't have a "right" answer but how much is really "lost" in male circumcision? like I understand there are nerve endings there which can make it more sensitive in certain ways, but just how much does this really effect anything at ...
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 15, 2019 8:53 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Bodies Linklove
Replies: 2
Views: 4063

Re: Bodies Linklove

the "guy's guide to Body image" link is deprecated, I think I've found the current updated version of it

https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/male-bodyimage.html
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 15, 2019 8:40 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: What are...
Replies: 11
Views: 7536

Re: What are...

(idk if it's appropriate to add to this old of a thread) 1) this site 2) youtube 3) Tumblr, although increasingly less so with the recent purge they had with their draconian changes in community guidelines 4) this one is weirdly, like super weirdly specific, but mimir.net, a website dedicated to in-...
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 15, 2019 8:14 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: YAY!
Replies: 20
Views: 18951

Re: YAY!

I don't know if this thread is even remotely still active, but I think it's pretty awesome that I've gotten three college acceptances in the past week
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 15, 2019 8:09 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: ball shaving?
Replies: 1
Views: 3325

ball shaving?

this is probably a very simply and easily answered question, but I wanted to ask here because I trust y'all more than reddit or mens health, but is it even remotely safe and/or viable to shave the scrotum without causing serious damage? if so what's the best way or at least the best way to minimize ...
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 15, 2019 8:05 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: apologizing
Replies: 2
Views: 2536

Re: apologizing

Something I'd say I look for in an apology is, depending on the circumstances, acknowledgement of what the person did or didn't do as opposed to the effect of the action. Unless the action itself could be good in a different context, saying things like "I'm sorry that offended you" seem mo...
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 15, 2019 8:02 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: apologizing
Replies: 2
Views: 2536

Re: apologizing

as an admitted over-apologizer myself, I've found myself guilty of apologizing and then turning the apology into a sort of narrative itself, going into far too much detail to the point where the original sentiment is lost, or describing things in a way that can sometimes unintentionally end up being...
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 15, 2019 7:49 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Good love songs?
Replies: 22
Views: 18206

Re: Good love songs?

Just The Two of us is another
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 15, 2019 7:48 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How Do You Choose a Partner
Replies: 5
Views: 6571

Re: How Do You Choose a Partner

a lot of this info is probably mangled in some way or another because none of these relationships except the last ever were in person so it's all kind of a blur (does this count as thread bumping/necromancy btw? if so is that sort of thing allowed here? I don't remember)
by bikinksterboy
Fri Jan 04, 2019 2:22 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: obsession over possible ghoster ex?
Replies: 13
Views: 7919

Re: obsession over possible ghoster ex?

yeah, I still use that email
by bikinksterboy
Thu Jan 03, 2019 6:13 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: obsession over possible ghoster ex?
Replies: 13
Views: 7919

Re: obsession over possible ghoster ex?

(I think that I might be in a place now to at least try out the whole volunteer thing btw)
by bikinksterboy
Wed Jan 02, 2019 6:16 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Good love songs?
Replies: 22
Views: 18206

Re: Good love songs?

bikinksterboy wrote: "Take On Me" of course, but keep in mind that one may be
I just now realized that I never finished this sentence. I don't know what I was even going to say.
by bikinksterboy
Wed Dec 19, 2018 12:05 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How Do You Choose a Partner
Replies: 5
Views: 6571

Re: How Do You Choose a Partner

I 6- Following this I met someone through the circle of friends that had formed around me and the former partner who had rushed me into things, and with them it was more of a situation where we started doing sexual and intimate things but hadn't really thought about the nature of our relationship u...
by bikinksterboy
Wed Nov 28, 2018 3:33 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: obsession over possible ghoster ex?
Replies: 13
Views: 7919

Re: obsession over possible ghoster ex?

(yeah, that email is still active, and right now I don't know but we can talk more over email or PM)
by bikinksterboy
Tue Nov 27, 2018 5:57 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: obsession over possible ghoster ex?
Replies: 13
Views: 7919

Re: obsession over possible ghoster ex?

I think it's mainly because of how committed I am to my current relationship, things being the way they were that we never really broke up, I'm sort of afraid that some of those feelings will come back
by bikinksterboy
Tue Nov 27, 2018 5:47 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: obsession over possible ghoster ex?
Replies: 13
Views: 7919

obsession over possible ghoster ex?

Today, I sent a message to the number one of my exes (whom I technically never actually broke up with, we just had a long-distance relationship and lost contact with each other, and her number was dead for the longest time) gave me, and I got a response from a totally different person! For a long ti...
by bikinksterboy
Mon Nov 26, 2018 4:10 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Two truths and a lie
Replies: 40
Views: 21777

Re: Two truths and a lie

solalreclipse94 I'm doubting the one about Panic! At The Disco
-I’ve been a fan of The All-American Rejects since I was 9ish
-I extremely dislike the genre of high fantasy
-One of my cats is named after a prince, and the rest of his family is likewise named after the British royal family
by bikinksterboy
Fri Nov 16, 2018 3:22 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Condom review
Replies: 1
Views: 3504

Condom review

tomorrow I'm meeting up with my long-distance partner for his birthday, and as of right now it's likely that we'll have sex. before I go running off for that, could I get a quick rundown of condom procedure?
by bikinksterboy
Wed Nov 07, 2018 1:40 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: What needs to be present for you to feel comfortable being intimate with someone?
Replies: 3
Views: 4399

Re: What needs to be present for you to feel comfortable being intimate with someone?

Likewise how people behave around others/honesty is a huge factor in intimacy for me, but in terms of energy levels I sometimes like when another person has a little higher energy investment as I do, because that can make me rise to that same level of engagement. Generally though being on the same p...
by bikinksterboy
Wed Nov 07, 2018 1:29 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How Do You Choose a Partner
Replies: 5
Views: 6571

Re: How Do You Choose a Partner

I think I'm in semi-agreement with Hollytiger about the ideas people have about what they'd like in partners becoming blurry in practice and when emotions are high. When I've intentionally sought out partners I've mostly found myself making more active choices early on, but relationships that didn't...
by bikinksterboy
Fri Oct 19, 2018 4:40 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Who are you comfortable talking about sex with?
Replies: 8
Views: 7100

Re: Who are you comfortable talking about sex with?

I'd say I'm comfortable talking about sex as a real possibility in the context of myself only really around my partner and a close friend of ours, but sex in general, porn, sexuality are topics for most people I'm close with. My parents I feel I could talk about sex, like I feel they'd be understand...
by bikinksterboy
Sun Oct 07, 2018 7:57 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Getting Kinky
Replies: 2
Views: 3220

Re: Getting Kinky

The BDSMTest is not the end all be all of kink, and it can subjectively be more or less useful for different people; it's more of a general indicator of what a person is probably into. If he's willing to take the test, I'm sure he's open at least to the idea of some kinky things, just try not to ove...
by bikinksterboy
Fri Sep 21, 2018 1:26 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: What's the sex ed curriculum where you're from?
Replies: 2
Views: 3495

Re: What's the sex ed curriculum where you're from?

having gone to a private school in one of the most liberal states in the US,my education was probably not the norm. There was a designated sex ed teacher, and no standard curriculum. We were taught about almost all types of sex (BDSM etc were briefly mentioned but not focused on), the ways sex is de...
by bikinksterboy
Sun Sep 02, 2018 11:36 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Is humping at age three the same as masturbation?
Replies: 3
Views: 5815

Re: Is humping at age three the same as masturbation?

statistically I don't know how common or uncommon this sort of behavior is at an early age but in my experience there's a lot of anecdotal evidence that it is more "normal". and if it isn't does that matter? one of the things I keep seeing staff say here is that there's no such thing as no...

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