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by bikinksterboy
Tue Feb 11, 2020 8:01 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: don't want to hurt the foreskin
Replies: 5
Views: 3026

don't want to hurt the foreskin

When I have sex with my girlfriend, whenever I jerk her off I can tend to go a little too fast and rough and cause pain to her foreskin. I do my best to take her cues and I've been trying to slow down and be more gentle, but in general, what can I do to avoid this? I want to be able to pleasure her ...
by bikinksterboy
Tue Feb 11, 2020 7:20 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: bullet vibe battery &
Replies: 2
Views: 1885

Re: bullet vibe battery &

*title should be "bullet vibe battery & advice"
by bikinksterboy
Tue Feb 11, 2020 7:15 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: bullet vibe battery &
Replies: 2
Views: 1885

bullet vibe battery &

what is typical battery etiquette for small cheap "bullet" vibrators? the kind that use the little AG-13 batteries. I found one source saying to regularly replace them but I figured I'd ask here just in case. Also, a secondary question. Could I cause any damage or pain to my balls by using...
by bikinksterboy
Thu Jan 16, 2020 7:25 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How do you like to receive love/affection?
Replies: 13
Views: 7049

Re: How do you like to receive love/affection?

also, casual "feeling up" that doesn't necessarily lead to sex is another show of affection in our relationship (Consensual, of course, but usually non verbal consent works well enough)
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 14, 2020 2:08 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Boundaries
Replies: 8
Views: 6430

Re: Boundaries

one recent time I can recall is gently saying no thank you on me and my girlfriend's anniversary when she wanted a round two after we did It earlier that afternoon
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 14, 2020 1:54 am
Forum: Bodies
Topic: What's something you like about your body?
Replies: 6
Views: 3457

Re: What's something you like about your body?

I love my thighs. both powerful and T H I C C
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 14, 2020 1:39 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How do you like to receive love/affection?
Replies: 13
Views: 7049

Re: How do you like to receive love/affection?

I like a lot of the typical things, but one thing I particularly appreciate is little love notes that my girlfriend leaves me. they're so cute and just tiny little outpourings of love and it warms my heart
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 14, 2020 1:29 am
Forum: Pregnancy and Parenting
Topic: What would you need in order to feel comfortable talking to your parents or guardians about sex?
Replies: 6
Views: 18100

Re: What would you need in order to feel comfortable talking to your parents or guardians about sex?

I don't think I'd ever be able to talk completely openly about sex with my parents because they're significantly older than me, and much older than most parents of people my age.
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 14, 2020 1:11 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: ANNIVERSARY!
Replies: 18
Views: 13051

Re: ANNIVERSARY!

3 years now and still going strong!!
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 14, 2020 12:59 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: If You're Celebrating Pride, How are You Celebrating It?
Replies: 5
Views: 4533

Re: If You're Celebrating Pride, How are You Celebrating It?

I did go on my own and it was great!!! I just got some bi pride D20 pins to slap on to my backpack and I have that big one that says "oh my god everyone is so hot" in bi pride colors on my messenger bag. Also got a little rainbow flag but that has since deteriorated.
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 14, 2020 12:55 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: What is one thing you learned about sex & yourself this year?
Replies: 18
Views: 14460

Re: What is one thing you learned about sex & yourself this year?

something I've learned about myself is that my anus can't stretch as far as I thought it could! it was a painful lesson but I won't soon forget it!
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 14, 2020 12:50 am
Forum: Gender
Topic: How has your gender expression evolved?
Replies: 17
Views: 18046

Re: How has your gender expression evolved?

I think I've become much more comfortable inhabiting traditionally feminine roles in general, and I think I've settled into some of those as a nice little niche. Oh girlfriend, bridal-carry me off into the sunset~!
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 14, 2020 12:43 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: YAY!
Replies: 20
Views: 19412

Re: YAY!

just had my 3-year anniversary with my girlfriend and it was great! I think it was some of the best sex we've had too cuz we didn't rush and there was no discomfort or awkwardness
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 14, 2020 12:29 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: anal "training"?
Replies: 1
Views: 1155

anal "training"?

a while ago, I bought myself a butt plug, and when I tried it, lubed up and relaxed, it went in fine until a certain point where it couldn't go further (it was a very wide bulb in the middle) and I felt a sharp pain and bled. I tried several times varying my technique slightly, always to the same re...
by bikinksterboy
Mon Jan 13, 2020 8:41 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Two truths and a lie
Replies: 40
Views: 22194

Re: Two truths and a lie

it's the fantasy one. sorry for the extremely, like ridiculously late reply. I'm a fantasy nerd. I'm addicted to Tolkien and Robert E Howard and tear through any good fantasy stuff I can get my hands on
by bikinksterboy
Thu Jun 06, 2019 9:03 pm
Forum: Site Help & Service
Topic: unable to make a topic in Relationships?
Replies: 3
Views: 14625

Re: unable to make a topic in Relationships?

nevermind, it's working now!
by bikinksterboy
Thu Jun 06, 2019 3:22 pm
Forum: Site Help & Service
Topic: unable to make a topic in Relationships?
Replies: 3
Views: 14625

unable to make a topic in Relationships?

as the title says, it seems as though I can't make a new topic in the relationships forum. Why? To my knowledge, my account isn't restricted in any way, and I've been fairly active.what's going on?
by bikinksterboy
Wed Jun 05, 2019 8:02 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: YAY!
Replies: 20
Views: 19412

Re: YAY!

I'm going to be graduating from high school next week and have been accepted into the honors program at the college I'm going to!
by bikinksterboy
Mon Jun 03, 2019 8:17 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: If You're Celebrating Pride, How are You Celebrating It?
Replies: 5
Views: 4533

Re: If You're Celebrating Pride, How are You Celebrating It?

I happen to live in a big city that has the biggest pride celebration, being that it's the place where it all started 50 years ago at Stonewall, but I'm not big on crowds and I still have some anxiety about it. My partner likely won't be able to go with me, which is a downer. But if I can I'll absol...
by bikinksterboy
Wed Apr 17, 2019 2:46 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Boundaries
Replies: 8
Views: 6430

Re: Boundaries

the way I described it was slightly less declarative, because it can be hard to make definitive statements about feelings for me, but I tried to both keep it open while still making it clear what I felt: "this is getting a little intense. we're bordering on some boundaries here. Specifically 'X...
by bikinksterboy
Wed Apr 17, 2019 2:38 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Boundaries
Replies: 8
Views: 6430

Re: Boundaries

the last time I remember recently communicating, or more accurately reaffirming a boundary was in a role-play I did recently (since my partner and I are long distance and we can't really meet up any time soon, we often do sexual rp in text). it got very kinky, and my partner, in the dominant role, g...
by bikinksterboy
Sat Mar 09, 2019 9:59 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Writing and/or drawing erotic stories/ pictures: A convenient way for some to enjoy sexy things and the sort.
Replies: 9
Views: 6026

Re: Writing and/or drawing erotic stories/ pictures: A convenient way for some to enjoy sexy things and the sort.

this is only tangentially related and may violate the illegal-activity-posting rules due to my age, but another area of this that I really like is taking sexy pictures of myself and keeping them in secure places to just admire and revel in it, almost always deleted shortly afterward. Anyone else do ...
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 29, 2019 3:42 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: Your partner's politics
Replies: 5
Views: 7152

Re: Your partner's politics

My partner and I generally share a lot of the same political views but we just come at it from different perspectives. Ethics are ultimately more important to me than the specifics of political belief, and my current partner very much agrees with me on moral and ethical matters. If you have a politi...
by bikinksterboy
Wed Jan 23, 2019 5:59 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: obsession over possible ghoster ex?
Replies: 13
Views: 7959

Re: obsession over possible ghoster ex?

ah, I just found it; I didn't see it before. thanks!