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by Sabine
Wed Aug 26, 2020 8:38 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to keep my expectations reasonable about my crushes and love
Replies: 5
Views: 1286

Re: How to keep my expectations reasonable about my crushes and love

Thank you so much! I am kind of hesitant to go out to socialize in Austria though because I know I will go back to the US and then maybe break it off. It’s kinda stressful to set it up and then break it off, especially with me just being unlucky. Plus, this girl may come back onto the app, but since...
by Sabine
Wed Aug 26, 2020 7:48 am
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: My mental health my collapse during COVID-19
Replies: 3
Views: 3155

Re: My mental health my collapse during COVID-19

Well, I feel that I am not trying hard enough because I also have to put in effort to use the strategies in place and thats kinda my bad that I feel sometimes. Its really whats going on in my head is that I cannot stop my OCD thoughts easily and some people can be so annoyed with how it comes out, e...
by Sabine
Tue Aug 25, 2020 1:51 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: I feel like sometimes I will never be attractive for a girl
Replies: 4
Views: 1490

I feel like sometimes I will never be attractive for a girl

Now, I am not Lizzo overweight, but I am indeed overweight. I’m also not Ashley Graham overweight. Thats why I feel so unattractive, I am not in the category of obese that I can be plus size attractive nor I am in the category of healthy skinny or slim thic. I feel so uncomfortable with it most in r...
by Sabine
Tue Aug 25, 2020 1:19 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: My mental health my collapse during COVID-19
Replies: 3
Views: 3155

My mental health my collapse during COVID-19

So, a lot has happened. I am in Austria, have been because the pandemic got so bad in the US that I had to go to where my American family lives. Months later, my roomate moved out and so did I without saying goodbye to my house! We are currently in that process. I’m starting school as well and I had...
by Sabine
Tue Aug 25, 2020 12:10 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to keep my expectations reasonable about my crushes and love
Replies: 5
Views: 1286

Re: How to keep my expectations reasonable about my crushes and love

I have been trying to take it much slower. Sometimes though, its hard because I can get excited of a new relationship, yet stressed because of loosing that person and also because I admit, I want to talk to someone other than my parents, sister and my therapist during COVID-19. It’s going to be more...
by Sabine
Mon Aug 24, 2020 1:28 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to keep my expectations reasonable about my crushes and love
Replies: 5
Views: 1286

How to keep my expectations reasonable about my crushes and love

I would love some advice about two crushes and my expectations for those, but also how to have hope. I met one crush on the that I am on app and matched and befriended her. I was talking to her five days ago and we really hit it off. We talked about pets and travel and quarantine stuff and she seeme...
by Sabine
Fri Aug 07, 2020 10:35 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: My crushes insta is no longer to be found ... So what to I do now
Replies: 3
Views: 797

Re: My crushes insta is no longer to be found ... So what to I do now

Do you think she will come back on social media based on past interactions. I have gotten over that. But, also I have contacted that mutual friend, (which is a super bad idea I thought and I am super anxious that she is going to block me and unfollow me too, I am trembling so much). It makes super s...
by Sabine
Fri Aug 07, 2020 2:24 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: My crushes insta is no longer to be found ... So what to I do now
Replies: 3
Views: 797

My crushes insta is no longer to be found ... So what to I do now

Well, my crushes insta is not found. I feel I scared I scared her off even though I did not send her a message. I looked on my personal one, her Insta is not found too. I’m so scared, I don’t know what to do, I cried so much. I’m sad. Well, I do want to consul the friend she has been vibing (I think...
by Sabine
Thu Aug 06, 2020 11:02 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How can I tell if she likes me?
Replies: 8
Views: 998

Re: How can I tell if she likes me?

One of my therapists and I mainly talked about my therapy and what Corna has been like for me life wise btw.
by Sabine
Thu Aug 06, 2020 10:55 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How can I tell if she likes me?
Replies: 8
Views: 998

Re: How can I tell if she likes me?

Well, I feel like I am worried and I want to ask her, but I don’t want to intrude on her. She already is so busy and I don’t want to further stress her. I’m sure she likes me because the way she flirts like that comment “um and not me” and the comment her DMS offering her place to say when I wanted ...
by Sabine
Thu Aug 06, 2020 9:42 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How can I tell if she likes me?
Replies: 8
Views: 998

Re: How can I tell if she likes me?

Thats what I mainly want to know, so I can evaluate the situation. I really want to evaluate it as close as I can so that I know how to act appropriately and not worry about it so much.
by Sabine
Thu Aug 06, 2020 9:35 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How can I tell if she likes me?
Replies: 8
Views: 998

Re: How can I tell if she likes me?

Oh we talked about other stuff. But I mainly am distracting, but thats not enough.

But I want to address whether she likes me or not first probably.
by Sabine
Wed Aug 05, 2020 1:59 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How can I tell if she likes me?
Replies: 8
Views: 998

Re: How can I tell if she likes me?

I didn’t mean to repeat the same sentence sorry! I mean’t to say she asked me questions often. :)
by Sabine
Wed Aug 05, 2020 12:43 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How can I tell if she likes me?
Replies: 8
Views: 998

How can I tell if she likes me?

I met this girl at a Speed Dating event sponsored by a dating site I don’t go onto (this holding on that matchmaking event). And she was very friendly and very warm. She followed my instagram and I followed hers. She lives in Colorado and I am still debating about whether I can be in a relationship ...
by Sabine
Wed Jul 22, 2020 3:36 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: What does a future new relationship look like during COVID-19?
Replies: 6
Views: 1472

Re: What does a future new relationship look like during COVID-19?

Thanks so much. Any good websites to help me to watch movies or play games with friends? Also with addresses that may be a good thing. This was a friend that was close with me and that I knew for years. She didn’t bother me after that. Should have checked in with her. Should have interacted with mor...
by Sabine
Sun Jul 19, 2020 7:58 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: What does a future new relationship look like during COVID-19?
Replies: 6
Views: 1472

Re: What does a future new relationship look like during COVID-19?

Its been a hit or miss I have not done a phone call in a long time. Sometimes, I text with them and I don’t know how to play video games or watch movie long distance. I don’t know their addresses, but I want to send them letters. I don’t know whats up. I want to make an effort, but everytime I do, I...
by Sabine
Sat Jul 18, 2020 2:58 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: What does a future new relationship look like during COVID-19?
Replies: 6
Views: 1472

Re: What does a future new relationship look like during COVID-19?

Also I have this other crush on this girl on my dating app, everything I want in a woman, long luscious (blonde dyed) hair, feminine, 22. I hope she at least accepts my friend request because she at least has a lot of friends on there!
by Sabine
Sat Jul 18, 2020 2:35 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: What does a future new relationship look like during COVID-19?
Replies: 6
Views: 1472

What does a future new relationship look like during COVID-19?

So, I want to have a relationship so bad and I know what I want. But, the situation looks more bleak for me. I may have to stay in Austria for a little longer, maybe even for the rest of the year. Perhaps, I will have to have a long distance relationship or a relationship close to my country (in Eur...
by Sabine
Sun Jul 05, 2020 3:17 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to alleviate anxiety about and not mess up about a future relationship
Replies: 8
Views: 1750

Re: How to alleviate anxiety about and not mess up about a future relationship

Thanks so much! So how do I fix that unhelpful coping mechanism, especially obsessing about topics where it becomes a spiral over and over? Their place is so far away! I’m in Austria and they are in it too. I’m also a little concern that I have to emotional distance once I get back, but you know wha...
by Sabine
Sun Jul 05, 2020 3:02 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?
Replies: 33
Views: 4000

Re: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?

How can I remember that it won’t last forever? Also, how can I keep those factors in mind yet still talk about/enforce the plan (to expand to other apps?) to my parents? How can I keep that in mind while still holding out hope for new interactions and talking to this girl I want to chat with? How ca...
by Sabine
Sat Jul 04, 2020 9:34 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?
Replies: 33
Views: 4000

Re: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?

We are going to discuss some techniques in the future meeting. Yes Jessie Paege is close to her gf in this case, but I am far away from people I want to date. I want to be close to them in that long distance way so we can date later, but I can’t seem to get close. I also seem to not get close quickl...
by Sabine
Sat Jul 04, 2020 8:15 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?
Replies: 33
Views: 4000

Re: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?

Also, I wouldn’t be so upset except that My friend and her girlfriend and I am rescheduling our plans in Austria. The COVID rate is going up and her girlfriend’s sister got COVID! I’m sad because I cannot seem (in my mind) to maintain well meaningful friendships. I really want to maintain some, espe...
by Sabine
Sat Jul 04, 2020 3:10 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to alleviate anxiety about and not mess up about a future relationship
Replies: 8
Views: 1750

Re: How to alleviate anxiety about and not mess up about a future relationship

Also, what is making me a little more anxious is that my friend and her girlfriend and I am rescheduling our plans in Austria. The COVID rate is going up and her girlfriend’s sister got COVID! I’m sad because I cannot seem (in my mind) to maintain well meaningful friendships (as well as any interact...
by Sabine
Sat Jul 04, 2020 2:44 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to alleviate anxiety about and not mess up about a future relationship
Replies: 8
Views: 1750

Re: How to alleviate anxiety about and not mess up about a future relationship

I have turned off notifications and tried to not check the app frequently. I am trying to focus on something else and if I do go on the apps, communicate with other people on there! I will try and do that for the next few weeks! I have a lot more activities to do such as play Mario Odessey, read, ma...
by Sabine
Sat Jul 04, 2020 1:48 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?
Replies: 33
Views: 4000

Re: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?

Yes, we have been talking about it and I want to talk about it more and how to maintain it. Yes, I will but sometimes they are busy with their summer classes. I also want to be respectful too, not to overwhelm them. You make a great point and I am kinda focused on this girl, but also other options t...

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