I feel like I really messed up and I don’t know what to think. I don’t know what to do. I was with my boyfriend and we were hanging out and talking, and it was wonderful. I thought that I wanted more... I couldn’t orgasm all week and I thought that I really wanted him in a sexual way. So I convinced...

Thanks, that’s also really helpful to know!

Okay, thanks for the advice!

Thanks for all the advice! I'll bring this up with my boyfriend when I see him next week. Actually I did have another question. Is there a simple conversation starter I can use? Like, an easy way to start talking about it? I don't really know how to bring it up.

What you said about the causes of sex drives make sense - thanks for clarifying! It’s interesting to learn that stress affects that. I think I’ve found that when I’m stressed out I like to have more intimacy, and it’s helpful to know that I’m not the only one who functions like that. :) As far as ho...

Hi, So I was just wondering what causes my sex drive to be relatively high all the time. Like, I masturbate almost every day, and when I’m with my boyfriend I am almost always turned on. He’s totally cool with that and is eager to do sexual stuff most of the time (I initiate a bit more than he does ...

Okay, thank you that all makes sense.

Okay, yeah I definitely won’t do anything that I hate. I’m curious though about going deeper because I liked when he was deeper for a few seconds, but then my throat decided to gag. I’ve talked to my boyfriend about BDSM a little bit but I might talk to him about it more in the future so we know wha...

So I did it! I gave him a blowjob and I actually liked it a lot. We didn’t do any deepthroating. I’m curious about it for another but I hate choking... I think it would be hot to have his dick further back in my mouth though. Any tips on how I can get used to having it further back??? Also, I felt r...

Thank you for the loads of advice! Super helpful for me. I’ll ask him what he likes (though it is his first time as well so we’ll both be experimenting). I like the suggestion of asking him to let me know when he’s close to an orgasm.

Thanks for the article as well!

So we talked and we’re planning on having oral sex soon! I’m excited. A little nervous too because I haven’t done this before. I know everyone’s preferences are different and stuff but are there general techniques that most guys like? I’ve read some articles and stuff on that... Also (I’m sure I’ll ...

Thanks for the reply. My boyfriend and I did talk about the stuff we did the day after. We both really liked it, we just needed a little time to process since it’s new. But I think we’re ready to try again. We’re both pretty horny people, lol.we have talked pretty openly about sex/sexual stuff befor...

So I’m experimenting with more sexual things with my boyfriend. We’ve had some time to process the handjobs we gave each other and I’m feeling ambitious to try something new. I liked touching his penis but not the act of giving a handjob. I always like using my mouth for I intimate stuff though so I...

Well, now that I've thought about it, I think my emotional state isn't really about the sexual stuff. I am actually eagerly anticipating having more manual sex; a lot of my weird feelings are 'first time jitters' I think... not sure if that's a term people use, lol. I talked to my boyfriend about it...

Like I mentioned in a previous topic, I was feeling kinda "off" and needy lately. I think a lot of it has to do with struggles with gender identity and thinking about my (awful) past relationship with my ex. So my current boyfriend and I did the whole fingering/handjob thing last night and...

Okay, thank you!

So my boyfriend and I tried some new stuff. He fingered me and I gave him a hand job. It was actually all a good experience, which made me happy. The fingering felt good at first, then it was uncomfortable and I told him to stop, which he did right away. But after a few minutes I was ready to try ag...

Yes, we’re really excited because we’ll be able to be in my house - lots of warmth, blankets, and rooms there! ;) I think both he and I are looking forward to trying out more fingering/touching each other, as well as just cuddling and hanging out. The cold really turns me off, if that’s an expressio...

Okay, yes that makes sense. Thanks for the advice!

Update: So he and I were out tonight, and he asked if I wanted to try the whole fingering thing. It was exciting when he unzipped my jacket and touched my thighs and stuff. He (with my consent, of course) tried the whole rubbing my vagina through my underwear. Thing is, we were outside and it was r...

I think a lot of it is because we haven’t seen each other in a while. And I feel like we do have really good communication, which is something that I’m really grateful for. When I feel needy, a lot of it is just me craving his company, but most is the physical contact. Not even sexual - I just want ...

Hi, this is a long reply: I've talked to my boyfriend about my feelings this week, today actually. I was upset about how my ex-boyfriend treated me in the past (my ex was manipulative, and he made me feel like I couldn't share my feelings - luckily I feel like my current boyfriend and I have really ...

I feel like I've been really needy in my current relationship, especially this week. I've been having this disconnect from reality, and been feeling upset about my ex and stuff, so I haven't had the best mindset this past week. I feel like I'm constantly asking my boyfriend out, wanting to make out ...

Update: So he and I were out tonight, and he asked if I wanted to try the whole fingering thing. It was exciting when he unzipped my jacket and touched my thighs and stuff. He (with my consent, of course) tried the whole rubbing my vagina through my underwear. Thing is, we were outside and it was re...

Thank you for the reply. It’s relieving to know that my feelings about being more sexual are normal. I’ll talk to my boyfriend about my needs too. I still feel upset and I just want to be with him right now - even if it’s just holding hands. I guess it’s hard for me to feel like I need someone, even...