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by sky
Sat May 16, 2020 8:34 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: Needing advice
Replies: 15
Views: 2364

Needing advice

Hey everyone I am thinking about getting an IUD to stop my periods. I’ve been having an incredible amount of issues over getting my periods. I had stopped pretending and killing myself hiding the fact that a do feel like a man a lot and I always have. I feel like one and it’s hard to feel like one w...
by sky
Mon May 11, 2020 8:25 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: any asexuals that have advice? :)
Replies: 28
Views: 4207

Re: any asexuals that have advice? :)

Hey horriblegoose. I don’t know what to call you just let me know if that’s not okay. I’m so happy you’re back. I was worried about you. I hope you’re doing okay. I appreciate you so much and I really want you to be okay and happy and safe. Thank you for all that. I don’t really know how to say this...
by sky
Mon May 11, 2020 8:12 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Covid anxiety
Replies: 11
Views: 1768

Re: Covid anxiety

That’s just short term. This is never going to go away. Covid is never gonna stop. So why would I quit a job that’s decent just to have to find a job again like 2 weeks because I don’t have money. I did tell my manager that I can’t handle working the department I was scheduled because everything hap...
by sky
Sat May 09, 2020 7:26 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Covid anxiety
Replies: 11
Views: 1768

Re: Covid anxiety

Hey everyone, I found out the times aren’t gonna work for me so I’m not gonna be able to go. I don’t want to do therapy of any sort. I am not letting anyone else in. I do think disability is something that I’m going to have to get on. I went to the hospital last night (I know it’s risky I wore a mas...
by sky
Fri May 01, 2020 12:40 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Covid anxiety
Replies: 11
Views: 1768

Re: Covid anxiety

I’ve decided I’m not going.
by sky
Thu Apr 30, 2020 6:32 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Covid anxiety
Replies: 11
Views: 1768

Re: Covid anxiety

Thank you for fixing it :) I don’t know who to talk to. The person who called me today is just the finance person, not a therapist. I feel like this is mean but I don’t mean this in a rude way. I don’t think I need this. Its 3 times a week. Yes, I need help but I don’t need it that often. I feel Ike...
by sky
Thu Apr 30, 2020 11:57 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Covid anxiety
Replies: 11
Views: 1768

Re: Covid anxiety

I just realized there’s a typo in the title I’m pissed lol. Anyways, I actually can afford it, they have a payment plan and I can swing that. But I have to commit to 8 weeks and I don’t know the times and such and I don’t think I can work around it with work. And yes I’m making excuses because I don...
by sky
Thu Apr 30, 2020 10:45 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Covid anxiety
Replies: 11
Views: 1768

Covid anxiety

Okay hello again. You all know I’m working through this. I work at a grocery store with a bunch of departments, today two people (they are bf and gf and live together) called out because they have symptoms of coronavirus. I freaked out because like we’re always so close to each other back there we h...
by sky
Mon Apr 13, 2020 8:36 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Venting for advice
Replies: 3
Views: 700

Re: Venting for advice

I’ll admit I’m confused with this exploration and she knows that and I talked to her today and I told her she doesn’t support me and she kinda get upset and I explained what I meant and she just said she’s confused because she doesn’t understand what I want because I don’t understand it either. She ...
by sky
Sun Apr 12, 2020 9:05 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Venting for advice
Replies: 3
Views: 700

Venting for advice

Hey everyone, I hope you’re doing well :) Okay so I’m not exactly sure why I’m writing this and for what reason, I just know this is a safe place with wise people and I just, need to talk about this because maybe you can help. If not, completely understandable! So, I have this coworker who I’m in lo...
by sky
Sat Apr 11, 2020 10:49 am
Forum: Gender
Topic: Binding
Replies: 8
Views: 3232

Re: Binding

Okay well that’s a lie. Thank you very much optimistic. I was trying hard to be someone I’m not. I am not gonna get into explaining everything because I don’t need to explain myself but I get me and I’m not a woman or a man. I’m me and I’m gonna dress androgynous and also femme because I like both! ...
by sky
Wed Apr 08, 2020 5:30 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: Binding
Replies: 8
Views: 3232

Re: Binding

Okay. I’m a straight woman. Got all that decided.

Thanks everyone :)
by sky
Wed Apr 08, 2020 1:37 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Kink fail :(
Replies: 7
Views: 789

Re: Kink fail :(

Also, top/bottom is just one of the things. I have a lot of others that I just don’t speak of. That’s just the one I said
by sky
Tue Apr 07, 2020 6:04 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: Binding
Replies: 8
Views: 3232

Re: Binding

It hurts me because I just am not comfortable with myself in any way. Yesterday I was told that I’m not a man and I need to be the best female I can be. I don’t know how to be female well, I’ve never felt fully female. How do even act femme? I don’t know. I just feel displaced I guess
by sky
Tue Apr 07, 2020 6:00 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Kink fail :(
Replies: 7
Views: 789

Re: Kink fail :(

Thank you so much Mo :) Another question I have that stemmed from something that you said, my kinks aren’t sexual. It’s things that I guess could get someone aroused but It’s not things I want in sex, do all kinks have to be sexual? Does that make sense? Also, yes it is causing me distress, I think ...
by sky
Tue Apr 07, 2020 12:09 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: Binding
Replies: 8
Views: 3232

Re: Binding

Hey! Thank you :) That’s all lovely information. I will take all of that into consideration. I want it for work and that’s how long I work for. I don’t think im gonna get one. I’m a girl and that’s just the sad facts. I think I’m just giving up on the whole gender exploration because all it does is ...
by sky
Mon Apr 06, 2020 8:29 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: Binding
Replies: 8
Views: 3232

Binding

Has anyone here binded with a real binder? I’ve done it twice and it wasn’t with a binder and I ended up causing a lot of pain to myself. Sometimes I think about tying them down with bandages but that not safe either and it’ll hurt me too. So, anyone have any good recommendations on what brands? I a...
by sky
Mon Apr 06, 2020 4:56 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Kink fail :(
Replies: 7
Views: 789

Re: Kink fail :(

This might be stupid but, when my body is aroused does that mean I want it? Does that make sense? Thank you for all that. As far as the groups, I sometimes don’t feel ace and as far as the other one, kinks are weird and I don’t want to be in a place that makes me comfortable with them and makes me w...
by sky
Mon Apr 06, 2020 3:33 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Kink fail :(
Replies: 7
Views: 789

Kink fail :(

Okay you guys can completely ignore this, I don’t mind. But I really just need to talk to someone who is like knowledgeable and won’t judge me. I hope this is okay to talk about here. So, this might be long and I thought I was over It but I’m not and ugh. Okay so I don’t know why I did this, but las...
by sky
Sat Apr 04, 2020 3:24 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Social construct?
Replies: 3
Views: 500

Re: Social construct?

I thought so!! A couple years ago I had to get a vaginal ultrasound and it hurt a lot and it made me bleed more then I was before and someone I told about the situation proceeded to laugh at me and said my cherry got popped I was and still am like?????? That’s not even a real thing. Idk it just kind...
by sky
Fri Apr 03, 2020 7:21 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Social construct?
Replies: 3
Views: 500

Social construct?

Okay this might be a silly question but is virginity a social construct? I did some research and they all say nothing about you changes but I always was under the assumption it did change you somehow? But at the same time nothing happens right?
by sky
Thu Apr 02, 2020 7:11 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: confused about this
Replies: 45
Views: 3423

Re: confused about this

I’m trying my best :) and Thank you! <3
by sky
Thu Apr 02, 2020 1:01 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: confused about this
Replies: 45
Views: 3423

Re: confused about this

I’m okay. Work is draining me of everything I have but thankfully they set some safety things up which makes me feel a little better about my team and I’s health. Also they started giving us $2 more an hour last week which is pretty cool too. I have a lot of health issues and my body is just not han...
by sky
Sat Mar 28, 2020 11:21 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: confused about this
Replies: 45
Views: 3423

Re: confused about this

Yay so I was scheduled to work a mandatory 40 hours this week, weeks go from (sunday-saturday) at my job. I was freakkkiiinngggg out mentally because 5 days a week in this, 8 hour days just sends me in a spiral. I worked like 50 2 weeks ago and I wasn’t okay at all. I probably seem shitty because I ...
by sky
Sat Mar 28, 2020 8:38 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: confused about this
Replies: 45
Views: 3423

Re: confused about this

I got pretty drunk and slept well. I dreamt of the situation yesterday all night long. I’m still heartbroken. I don’t know why I fell in love with her but I did. I’m still struggling as to how I’m going to be okay without her. She was the person I leaned on to keep me strong. And yeah I did have a d...

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