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by transfemandgay
Wed Jul 28, 2021 7:50 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Well, it's happening.
Replies: 6
Views: 178

Re: Well, it's happening.

My dad didn’t leave the house at all the one day I was planning on leaving. I had to turn away my friends.

I am… absolutely furious I went through all this mental preparation for fucking nothing.
by transfemandgay
Tue Jul 27, 2021 4:14 am
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Well, it's happening.
Replies: 6
Views: 178

Re: Well, it's happening.

Well, it’s fucking happening tomorrow. Now that I think about it, I’m less terrified of the fallout with my family and the financial uncertainty. Because, I know I will be happier. I know that eventually I’ll get through it and I *will* be happier. It’s still terrifying as fuck, but I know I can get...
by transfemandgay
Wed Jul 21, 2021 2:27 am
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Well, it's happening.
Replies: 6
Views: 178

Well, it's happening.

I'm finally going to do it. I'm going to put my own happiness first. I'm going to make my own decisions and stand by them. I'm going to fucking move out next week. Oh... oh jesus... I'm going to fucking move out next week... I've known this was going to happen for years, I've been planning this for ...
by transfemandgay
Wed Jul 21, 2021 1:37 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: What's your favorite outfit?
Replies: 23
Views: 13901

Re: What's your favorite outfit?

Skirts. I will always love skirts. Short skirts, long skirts, pleated skirts, ruffled skirts, pencil skirts, loose skirts, literally all of them. Either they make me feel sexy or cute, but either way, I fucking love skirts. Being closeted and wearing jeans all my life really tampered my skirt experi...
by transfemandgay
Sun May 02, 2021 3:11 am
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Misshapen penis after masturbating???
Replies: 2
Views: 2193

Re: Misshapen penis after masturbating???

Well now the entire thing's a uniform size but still swollen. Apparently, there's a thing called "penile friction oedema" where fluid builds up in tissue and causes it to swell. The main causes are penile fracture (nope), STI (haven't had sex in over a year and with only one partner), or t...
by transfemandgay
Sun May 02, 2021 12:06 am
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Misshapen penis after masturbating???
Replies: 2
Views: 2193

Misshapen penis after masturbating???

I was masturbating and I had no pain or discomfort. I was using water based lube that I've used before and was pretty fine. When I got in the shower and started going flaccid the skin might've been sore but that's about it. Then, while showering, I noticed my penis bulges farther than usual at my ci...
by transfemandgay
Mon Mar 01, 2021 9:15 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: I feel robbed of my life
Replies: 1
Views: 2827

I feel robbed of my life

I originally posted this on Reddit, and I'm too lazy to reformat it. So here it is copy and pasted. I just need a space to get this out. I'm (F 18) a high school senior whose been in distance learning due to COVID since March of last year. It's been rough, and my work ethic has been completely destr...
by transfemandgay
Thu Dec 31, 2020 12:28 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Orgasms and HRT
Replies: 2
Views: 1316

Re: Orgasms and HRT

I’m circumcised so I’m not as sensitive as other people with penises (I think?). As long as I’ve been masturbating, most of the pleasure has come from nearing or when I was cumming. The rest really didn’t feel like much, but I have been trying to change that. Lube helps a lot, but I can’t buy any. T...
by transfemandgay
Thu Dec 31, 2020 5:36 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Orgasms and HRT
Replies: 2
Views: 1316

Orgasms and HRT

(Forgive me if I use dick/cock/pussy a lot, saying “penis” and “vagina” is a little weird to me) I’m a no-op trans girl who wants to go on HRT. I’ve talked about this before on previous threads, but I’m a little worried about HRT because of what it’ll do to my sex drive, dick, orgasms, and all relat...
by transfemandgay
Mon Jul 27, 2020 7:24 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 2869

Re: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

Honestly, I might stick with trans girl and just keep saying I’m a femboy and dressing as one when I feel like it. The word genderfluid just... seems to describe a different situation from mine. Who knows maybe I’ll change my mind later. On that note, how am I gonna make a decision on how to transit...
by transfemandgay
Sun Jul 26, 2020 11:52 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 2869

Re: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

Being a femboy and being a trans woman conflict in my head because for three years I haven’t felt like a boy at all. Before I identified as a trans woman, I used the labels non-binary and genderfluid because I was so confused about how I could be a girl but enjoy having the genitals I was born with....
by transfemandgay
Sat Jul 25, 2020 6:14 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 2869

Re: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

Aaaaaaagh. Whenever I look at femboy porn, I feel boyish. Whenever I look at trans girl porn, I feel like a girl. Oh god?!
by transfemandgay
Sat Jul 25, 2020 11:27 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 2869

Re: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

I feel like that’s only part of the answer, though, since my presentation often lines up with and determines my gender. There’s this feeling I get when I look at femboy porn that’s subtle but really hard to ignore. It’s this feeling that it’s more than wanting to be in that position, or wearing that...
by transfemandgay
Fri Jul 24, 2020 6:03 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 2869

Re: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

Well yeah? A trans girl in a princess dress is just as hot if a femboy wore it. A trans girl hooters is just as hot as a femboy hooters. Etc. etc. The only thing I’d want to point out though is that when I think of a trans woman in a sexual context, I only think of a woman with a dick because that’s...
by transfemandgay
Fri Jul 24, 2020 4:10 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 2869

Re: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

Um, so I'm stumped. I don't know how to answer that question? I don't know what feeling like a gender means. I guess if I explained how I felt like I knew I'm a girl? I found porn really early. Everytime I watched it, I felt like I wanted to be the girl in that position. I felt really frustrated tha...
by transfemandgay
Fri Jul 24, 2020 1:17 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 2869

Re: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

I can't really think of an answer to the first question other than I feel horny . Like, maybe I want the outfit or something. There was this one drawing I saw and it was this femboy in a princess dress with a royal servant attending to his chastity cage. For all intents and purposes, you could not t...
by transfemandgay
Fri Jul 24, 2020 1:03 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 2869

Re: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

To add, I don't even think that statement about me being a girl unless I'm horny enough to be a boy is even true. It feels more like I can only be a femboy when I'm horny because I only imagine myself as a femboy in sexual situations. And, since my gender is related to how I feel about sex, I can't ...
by transfemandgay
Thu Jul 23, 2020 2:55 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 2869

Re: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

I’ll do my best to articular how I feel. I’m having trouble understanding what these feelings are exactly. Like in the early stages it started with me fantasizing about having sex with a fem person with a penis. So a trans girl or a femboy. Then it slowly divulged into oh shit what if I was the femb...
by transfemandgay
Thu Jul 23, 2020 1:27 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 2869

Re: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

I think a part of me is kinda resistant to exploring other identities as doing so would open new complications to me. But I should probably allow myself to explore non-binary genders anyway. That really helped. Hell, even if I still identify as trans girl, that doesn’t stop me from presenting as a f...
by transfemandgay
Thu Jul 23, 2020 11:41 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 2869

Re: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

I certainly understand how figuring this stuff out can take years and it’s not too important to understand the whole but the parts. I feel like I made this post wanting someone to tell me what I am and how I should feel. Navigating these contradictory feelings is really difficult for me.
by transfemandgay
Thu Jul 23, 2020 2:54 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 2869

My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

I've identified as a trans woman for 4 years now. I've felt content with my identity ever since 9th grade. When I later realized I liked having a penis as a girl more than the idea of having a vagina, I thought I was done with the whole gender thing. For the most part, I solved my bottom dysphoria. ...
by transfemandgay
Mon Jul 06, 2020 3:29 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Gf and I have a disconnect with sex
Replies: 5
Views: 1044

Re: Gf and I have a disconnect with sex

I don’t think putting sex off entirely is the way to go? I love my gf and we have talked about it and agreed to be in an open relationship to satisfy our sexual needs. I still want to have sex with them but I don’t know where to even start talking about it. Like where do you begin?
by transfemandgay
Mon Jul 06, 2020 12:07 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Gf and I have a disconnect with sex
Replies: 5
Views: 1044

Re: Gf and I have a disconnect with sex

I’ve pointed this out to them before with almost the exact same wording. We have different views on sex and that it makes me worried. I have it for pleasure, them for intimacy. And I’ve explained that when I cant return the pleasure they give me I feel bad cause, to me, why else would you be having ...
by transfemandgay
Mon Jul 06, 2020 2:44 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Gf and I have a disconnect with sex
Replies: 5
Views: 1044

Gf and I have a disconnect with sex

My gf and I have different views on sex because our experiences with it have been wildly different, and somehow quarantine when we're not having it is making that disconnect either worse or more apparent. I have sex for pleasure; my gf has sex for intimacy with me, even if it isn't that much pleasur...
by transfemandgay
Mon Jun 15, 2020 11:15 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: What if I die due to trans refusal of care?
Replies: 1
Views: 4345

What if I die due to trans refusal of care?

What the title says. Didn't help that I was starting to question my gender again when this came out but whatever. I'm a trans woman of color so my average lifespan is like 30. I'll probably be murdered before I die due to refusal of care, but even then they're one in the same, aren't they? Sure, Cal...

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