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by transfemandgay
Mon Jul 27, 2020 7:24 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 1383

Re: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

Honestly, I might stick with trans girl and just keep saying I’m a femboy and dressing as one when I feel like it. The word genderfluid just... seems to describe a different situation from mine. Who knows maybe I’ll change my mind later. On that note, how am I gonna make a decision on how to transit...
by transfemandgay
Sun Jul 26, 2020 11:52 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 1383

Re: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

Being a femboy and being a trans woman conflict in my head because for three years I haven’t felt like a boy at all. Before I identified as a trans woman, I used the labels non-binary and genderfluid because I was so confused about how I could be a girl but enjoy having the genitals I was born with....
by transfemandgay
Sat Jul 25, 2020 6:14 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 1383

Re: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

Aaaaaaagh. Whenever I look at femboy porn, I feel boyish. Whenever I look at trans girl porn, I feel like a girl. Oh god?!
by transfemandgay
Sat Jul 25, 2020 11:27 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 1383

Re: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

I feel like that’s only part of the answer, though, since my presentation often lines up with and determines my gender. There’s this feeling I get when I look at femboy porn that’s subtle but really hard to ignore. It’s this feeling that it’s more than wanting to be in that position, or wearing that...
by transfemandgay
Fri Jul 24, 2020 6:03 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 1383

Re: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

Well yeah? A trans girl in a princess dress is just as hot if a femboy wore it. A trans girl hooters is just as hot as a femboy hooters. Etc. etc. The only thing I’d want to point out though is that when I think of a trans woman in a sexual context, I only think of a woman with a dick because that’s...
by transfemandgay
Fri Jul 24, 2020 4:10 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 1383

Re: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

Um, so I'm stumped. I don't know how to answer that question? I don't know what feeling like a gender means. I guess if I explained how I felt like I knew I'm a girl? I found porn really early. Everytime I watched it, I felt like I wanted to be the girl in that position. I felt really frustrated tha...
by transfemandgay
Fri Jul 24, 2020 1:17 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 1383

Re: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

I can't really think of an answer to the first question other than I feel horny . Like, maybe I want the outfit or something. There was this one drawing I saw and it was this femboy in a princess dress with a royal servant attending to his chastity cage. For all intents and purposes, you could not t...
by transfemandgay
Fri Jul 24, 2020 1:03 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 1383

Re: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

To add, I don't even think that statement about me being a girl unless I'm horny enough to be a boy is even true. It feels more like I can only be a femboy when I'm horny because I only imagine myself as a femboy in sexual situations. And, since my gender is related to how I feel about sex, I can't ...
by transfemandgay
Thu Jul 23, 2020 2:55 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 1383

Re: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

I’ll do my best to articular how I feel. I’m having trouble understanding what these feelings are exactly. Like in the early stages it started with me fantasizing about having sex with a fem person with a penis. So a trans girl or a femboy. Then it slowly divulged into oh shit what if I was the femb...
by transfemandgay
Thu Jul 23, 2020 1:27 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 1383

Re: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

I think a part of me is kinda resistant to exploring other identities as doing so would open new complications to me. But I should probably allow myself to explore non-binary genders anyway. That really helped. Hell, even if I still identify as trans girl, that doesn’t stop me from presenting as a f...
by transfemandgay
Thu Jul 23, 2020 11:41 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 1383

Re: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

I certainly understand how figuring this stuff out can take years and it’s not too important to understand the whole but the parts. I feel like I made this post wanting someone to tell me what I am and how I should feel. Navigating these contradictory feelings is really difficult for me.
by transfemandgay
Thu Jul 23, 2020 2:54 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly
Replies: 22
Views: 1383

My feelings about my gender is changing rapidly

I've identified as a trans woman for 4 years now. I've felt content with my identity ever since 9th grade. When I later realized I liked having a penis as a girl more than the idea of having a vagina, I thought I was done with the whole gender thing. For the most part, I solved my bottom dysphoria. ...
by transfemandgay
Mon Jul 06, 2020 3:29 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Gf and I have a disconnect with sex
Replies: 5
Views: 456

Re: Gf and I have a disconnect with sex

I don’t think putting sex off entirely is the way to go? I love my gf and we have talked about it and agreed to be in an open relationship to satisfy our sexual needs. I still want to have sex with them but I don’t know where to even start talking about it. Like where do you begin?
by transfemandgay
Mon Jul 06, 2020 12:07 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Gf and I have a disconnect with sex
Replies: 5
Views: 456

Re: Gf and I have a disconnect with sex

I’ve pointed this out to them before with almost the exact same wording. We have different views on sex and that it makes me worried. I have it for pleasure, them for intimacy. And I’ve explained that when I cant return the pleasure they give me I feel bad cause, to me, why else would you be having ...
by transfemandgay
Mon Jul 06, 2020 2:44 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Gf and I have a disconnect with sex
Replies: 5
Views: 456

Gf and I have a disconnect with sex

My gf and I have different views on sex because our experiences with it have been wildly different, and somehow quarantine when we're not having it is making that disconnect either worse or more apparent. I have sex for pleasure; my gf has sex for intimacy with me, even if it isn't that much pleasur...
by transfemandgay
Mon Jun 15, 2020 11:15 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: What if I die due to trans refusal of care?
Replies: 1
Views: 722

What if I die due to trans refusal of care?

What the title says. Didn't help that I was starting to question my gender again when this came out but whatever. I'm a trans woman of color so my average lifespan is like 30. I'll probably be murdered before I die due to refusal of care, but even then they're one in the same, aren't they? Sure, Cal...
by transfemandgay
Wed May 13, 2020 2:55 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Injuries?
Replies: 3
Views: 533

Re: Injuries?

Are there some ways to do it without hurting me? The only reason I'm this scared of it happening is because 1) all the videos and stories and 2) the first time we tried cowgirl they lowered onto me wrong and it hurt a little bit (I didn't let them go any further). However, we've done cowgirl before,...
by transfemandgay
Wed May 13, 2020 3:19 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Injuries?
Replies: 3
Views: 533

Injuries?

You know that thing where like if you do something absolutely wrong while having penetrative sex with a penis the stiff spongy tissue will... snap... in half and it'll be extremly painful and you need surgery to fix it? Yeah every time I have sex with my girlfriend I am absolutely terrified of that ...
by transfemandgay
Mon Apr 20, 2020 11:45 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: this is gonna sound dumb
Replies: 3
Views: 520

Re: this is gonna sound dumb

I mean the collection I had was several several months old and full of things I like that are pretty hard to find. A lot of them were trans girls or drawn trans girls from accounts I didn’t bother write down. Some were videos with no source. I was in the middle of moving it to an external or online ...
by transfemandgay
Sun Apr 19, 2020 1:29 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: this is gonna sound dumb
Replies: 3
Views: 520

this is gonna sound dumb

This is gonna sound really really really stupid but bare with me. I had a folder on my laptop that was 13.3 whole gigabytes of porn. Like okay whatever standard for a teenager I'm sure. I've been doing this for a while so I created no backups and any backup I did have was either stored online or on ...
by transfemandgay
Fri Mar 20, 2020 9:54 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: I don't have body dysphoria
Replies: 16
Views: 2076

Re: I don't have body dysphoria

There's nothing perverted or disgusting at all about experiencing dysphoria. It's okay to be envious of cis presenting girls for being able to live the life you wish you had. I hope one day your circumstances change too and that you're able to be who you really are without having to hide it.
by transfemandgay
Fri Mar 20, 2020 9:33 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: I don't have body dysphoria
Replies: 16
Views: 2076

Re: I don't have body dysphoria

So from my understanding social dysphoria is less about who you are and more how you present. So for example, I experience body dysphoria because my flat chest doesn't match the chest that matches my gender (A-B cups). However, I experience social dysphoria because, due to my circumstances, I have t...
by transfemandgay
Fri Mar 20, 2020 8:59 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: I don't have body dysphoria
Replies: 16
Views: 2076

Re: I don't have body dysphoria

Hi there, CaptainWildRose! As like the others said, you don't need any amount of dysphoria to be trans. The only person that can say if you're trans is yourself. From personal experience being trans mtf, I can tell you that not only does the amount and severity of dysphoria vary by person, but can a...
by transfemandgay
Tue Mar 03, 2020 2:18 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Abusive sexual relationship
Replies: 1
Views: 827

Abusive sexual relationship

I’ve been in a lot of abusive relationships. 4 I’ve dated, one of which was sexual. 1 was a friends-with-benefits situation. And I’ve had a buuuuuunch of toxic friendships. I know it’s normal to miss your abusers and stuff like that, but this is different. I keep thinking about the person I was frie...
by transfemandgay
Mon Mar 02, 2020 4:27 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Cock rings
Replies: 14
Views: 1501

Re: Cock rings

Well I want to use the metal rings cause I think they look cool. But like I am several years away from transitioning and starting HRT, so it’s not a problem now. If, after having experience, it is unsafe then like I won’t do it. I don’t know how HRT, viagra, and cock rings affect me individually or ...

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