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by 90Hello09
Sun Mar 29, 2020 8:21 am
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Question about the glans of my penis
Replies: 1
Views: 580

Question about the glans of my penis

So my(M18) glans is almost always at least half exposed. Consequently, when I wear underwear it can sometimes hurt when it touches the fabric, because the skin on the glans is really sensitive. Can this cause a loss or decrease of sensitivity on the glans? I have always been really paranoid about pe...
by 90Hello09
Mon Feb 17, 2020 9:12 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Is pleasure during male orgasms even a thing?
Replies: 20
Views: 2349

Re: Is pleasure during male orgasms even a thing?

It was like feeling no real pleasure. Everything I felt before just went away. I still felt the touch, but it wasn’t desirable.
Yes, I have good access to address my mental health problems.
by 90Hello09
Mon Feb 17, 2020 5:55 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Is pleasure during male orgasms even a thing?
Replies: 20
Views: 2349

Re: Is pleasure during male orgasms even a thing?

Another thing to try would be to set aside a time where you can really relax and get in touch with your body without putting pressure on yourself to orgasm or otherwise achieving a specific result from masturbating. Instead, you can focus on what things feel good to your brain and body and explore ...
by 90Hello09
Mon Feb 17, 2020 5:50 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Is pleasure during male orgasms even a thing?
Replies: 20
Views: 2349

Re: Is pleasure during male orgasms even a thing?

The tricky thing about depression or other things that lead to a lot of negative self-talk is that they often don't happen during 100% of our lives. We have days where nothing feels wrong, days when everything feels awful, and lots of days in-between. Just because it's not a constant stream of bad ...
by 90Hello09
Fri Feb 14, 2020 10:07 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Is pleasure during male orgasms even a thing?
Replies: 20
Views: 2349

Re: Is pleasure during male orgasms even a thing?

I mostly think that way, because no one ever expressed stuff like feeling towards me (probably also my fault) and because I just don’t get the pleasure out of mastrubation, and anything sexual in general, the I am expecting. I sometimes think that maybe it is meant to be this way. That anything sexu...
by 90Hello09
Thu Feb 13, 2020 11:57 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Is pleasure during male orgasms even a thing?
Replies: 20
Views: 2349

Re: Is pleasure during male orgasms even a thing?

I grew up in a family that isn’t really strict and stuff like that, but we still never really talked much about sex etc., and not one time about mastrubation. However, my dad once saw that I watched porn when I was around 14, which ended in an absolute drama. I still cringe about it today, and sex w...
by 90Hello09
Wed Feb 12, 2020 8:43 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Is pleasure during male orgasms even a thing?
Replies: 20
Views: 2349

Re: Is pleasure during male orgasms even a thing?

To be honest, I thought about going back to therapy because of my negative thoughts, but I don’t know if I can really do it, because I parents have to pay for it and it is a big thing for me to tell them, since I feel very vulnerable talking about it. Speaking of negative thoughts, I noticed somethi...
by 90Hello09
Tue Feb 11, 2020 1:22 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Is pleasure during male orgasms even a thing?
Replies: 20
Views: 2349

Re: Is pleasure during male orgasms even a thing?

I went to therapy some years ago, and it really helped me. But I don’t remember any mechanisms.
by 90Hello09
Mon Feb 10, 2020 3:50 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Is pleasure during male orgasms even a thing?
Replies: 20
Views: 2349

Re: Is pleasure during male orgasms even a thing?

Yes, any advice is appreciated. I feel pretty positive about my body, because I do a lot of fitness. However, I struggle with what other people might think about me, when they see me, and how my face looks, because I don’t really have a jawline and stuff like that, even though I am pretty lean. This...
by 90Hello09
Mon Feb 10, 2020 5:12 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Is pleasure during male orgasms even a thing?
Replies: 20
Views: 2349

Re: Is pleasure during male orgasms even a thing?

First of all, thanks for the advice. It happens every time I mastrubate. I always wondered if it really has something to do with my mental state, but it always sounded weird, that what I think really influences what happens within my body. I am wondering if the PTSD I had a couple of years ago and b...
by 90Hello09
Sun Feb 09, 2020 10:56 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Is pleasure during male orgasms even a thing?
Replies: 20
Views: 2349

Is pleasure during male orgasms even a thing?

I was just wondering, because when I(M18) mastrubate, I feel almost nothing when I ejaculate. The whole journey to ejaculation feels good, but I always thought an orgasm is sort of the peak of sexual pleasure. However, for me, it is not. Before I ejaculate there is this kind of build up you would ex...
by 90Hello09
Sat Jan 18, 2020 8:53 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Is little to no pleasure normal?
Replies: 3
Views: 829

Is little to no pleasure normal?

So I (M18) never had any sexual encounter with a person before. However, I do mastrubate but only experience little to sometimes no pleasure. It’s like just touching any other part of your body and orgasms also don’t feel as good as I‘d like them to feel. This really stresses me out a little bit, si...

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