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by sky
Thu Nov 18, 2021 8:08 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

I almost quit therapy tonight. She asked if it’s because we’re getting too close to the truth LOL I was like there’s no need to attack me hahahah. It’s just a lot harder then I thought. All the boundaries and rules for myself and having someone who actually cares for me it’s all hard. She genuinely ...
by sky
Tue Nov 16, 2021 1:57 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

I read that and realize how dumb I sound. If anyone is gonna like me then they are gonna have to like me enough to use a condom. Thank you.

Heather you are a fantastic writer
by sky
Mon Nov 15, 2021 4:00 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

I just talked with mo in the chat and they (sorry I don’t know your pronouns mo so I’m just gonna use they them to be safe I don’t wanna completely misgender you) said that SIX MONTHS using condoms that’s a long time. I don’t wanna see this person again probably unless the sex is good and we wanna k...
by sky
Mon Nov 15, 2021 3:25 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

I love her!!! She’s so great! She makes me laugh so hard even when I’m at my wits end. I have a question. So I’m going to start birth control again because my periods are bad and because I don’t wanna use a condom with a guy if I ever do go that route. How do I like ensure he’s std free without aski...
by sky
Mon Nov 15, 2021 3:16 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

This might sound terrible but I feel like as long as I identify as *liking men* I feel okay. That sounds so stupid to say out loud. If that even makes sense. She yelled at me and said no car dates with tinder men because I was asked on a car date to “drive around and listen to music” pretty sure it ...
by sky
Mon Nov 15, 2021 3:01 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

Hey heather. I haven’t been ignoring you. Everything just went to shit. My mental health is so bad right now I took a leave from work and am getting my meds adjusted again. I almost admitted myself on Sunday. I talked to my therapist about a lot of this stuff and she reminded me that a lot of people...
by sky
Mon Nov 08, 2021 4:50 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

I don’t know what to say. Thank you? I do want to be with him I guess. I don’t know. I’m lonely and I want to be touched. That’s all I want. I want non sexual intimacy. Well I wanna make out but that’s not really overly sexual. I don’t know. I think he’s ghosting me anyways so I don’t think it matte...
by sky
Sun Nov 07, 2021 1:06 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

I have a date with a guy I’ve been taking too on Wednesday and he’s super sweet and all about consent and he’s planning a date for us and I’m nervous but excited because I do like him without forcing myself. He’s taken things really slow. He’s been great. No one is supporting me on it. Everyone’s ma...
by sky
Sat Nov 06, 2021 12:09 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

Sex had always been taboo for me growing up. Talking about it is really hard for me. I’ll try to though.
by sky
Sat Nov 06, 2021 5:04 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

Because I don’t know what I’m doing. If I am not good and can’t give them what they need then they will be mad at me and abuse me
by sky
Fri Nov 05, 2021 5:54 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

It’s just hard for me to have all of this coming up because I always had to hide my feelings because they didn’t matter when i was a kid and now I’m older and can feel my emotions and I’m not sure how to feel them or speak about them, it’s incredibly hard. Also, what did you mean when you said I don...
by sky
Fri Nov 05, 2021 1:58 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

I’ll take therapy one week at a time money wise. I want to get better so I’m going to try. I have to give myself a chance
by sky
Fri Nov 05, 2021 11:56 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

Are you mad at me? I promise it’s okay feelings I won’t actually do it. I’ll admit myself before I ever do that. I’ll be okay I just don’t want you mad at me or upset with me :(
by sky
Fri Nov 05, 2021 11:32 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

I’m sorry I’m being negative, I promise I’m not trying to be. I think I just got triggered from thinking about things. She brought a lot to my attention and it’s just hard to swallow I guess.
by sky
Fri Nov 05, 2021 7:18 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

Thank you for being so supportive!!!!

If I’m being honest I’m feeling very I think triggered today? I feel so sad and I also don’t think I can afford it. I don’t know if I want to keep going. I’m shutting down and I feel awful today as the day passes
by sky
Fri Nov 05, 2021 5:18 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

I shouldn’t have been doing it because I know it’s self harm. I know that I don’t like men yet I continue to let them use me. I’m not the smartest but I’ve been trying. It’s been hard, really hard. I didn’t think you needed consent for sexting well I always ask others for consent when im actually sp...
by sky
Thu Nov 04, 2021 3:07 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

I knew I shouldn’t have been doing it in the first place. I didn’t want to do it. I just wanted to feel wanted and I thought that I wanted to meet a guy to have sex with but I don’t wanna have sex and I don’t wanna be with a guy at all. That girl saying stay straight really fucked with me. I don’t k...
by sky
Thu Nov 04, 2021 1:56 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

Yeah. I told him I wasn’t gonna have sex with him and he proceeded to tell me all these things and tell me everything he’d do to me and what he wants me to do to him and to sneak him in my house and let everyone hear us. It was all weird I hated it. I just pretend to like it so that I could feel wan...
by sky
Thu Nov 04, 2021 8:43 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

I have a question. Is it a red flag for a guy you barely know to say he wants to like I don’t know how to say it without being gross because it makes me uncomfortable, that he loves my innocence and wants to bust in me. It creeped me out and I blocked him the next morning. I say it as a red flag… di...
by sky
Wed Nov 03, 2021 2:40 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

I don’t really know what to say to that. I read it and understand you fully. Thanks for hearing me. I just don’t know what to say. I hope I’ll be able to sleep tonight lol I haven’t slept through the night fully in like almost a month who knows why. I can update you if I like her if you’d like. If y...
by sky
Wed Nov 03, 2021 11:39 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

I’m gonna be honest and tell you that I want to try. I hope you can see how hard I’m already trying but I genuinely don’t have another intake process in me. It’s so triggering and exhausting. If this one doesn’t work I honestly don’t think I can do it again. Makes me feel like I’m giving up on mysel...
by sky
Wed Nov 03, 2021 11:02 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

I will be honest with her. Thank you so much. I really appreciate you. I really hope I like her. If I don’t get along with her I honestly will just shut down but I’m going to try my best not too and try and find someone else. It’s just hard with money.
by sky
Wed Nov 03, 2021 10:05 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

I’m really nervous for this heather. I wanna get better so badly I’m trying so hard but my illness is so much bigger then me and I’m struggling. I’m trying to win it’s just hard. I’m scared
by sky
Wed Nov 03, 2021 9:26 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

First meeting
by sky
Tue Nov 02, 2021 6:41 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 58
Views: 976

Re: Just need some reassurance

I’m sorry you’ve had a rough year heather. I’m on your side and always hoping for your success and health. All of you here. If possible I’d like to talk to heather about this part- so I start therapy Thursday night and I want to talk to her about why I do the things I do but I don’t know how to expl...

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