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by Regina
Thu Sep 03, 2020 4:28 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Boyfriend Infertility problem
Replies: 7
Views: 1218

Re: Boyfriend Infertility problem

I don't know if I have built up resentment. But I am a little frustrated. How do I go forward with this situation?
Should I tell him bluntly that marriage is not on the cards for now. That will hurt him a lot. I don't know how to move forward with this.
by Regina
Tue Sep 01, 2020 12:39 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Boyfriend Infertility problem
Replies: 7
Views: 1218

Re: Boyfriend Infertility problem

Hi guys, In relation to the above post, I did date this guy for 4 more months and I ended up falling for him. We are pretty serious about our relationship and even planned on getting married next year. But there is one problem. Since the lockdown has been relaxed, he consulted an Andrologist and ran...
by Regina
Thu May 28, 2020 8:54 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Boyfriend Infertility problem
Replies: 7
Views: 1218

Re: Boyfriend Infertility problem

Hi Heather, Thanks for the reply. I got some clarity. The thing is I am in India and I dont have much time to wait for a year. My parents are pressurising me to get married. I ve been in a relationship before and it was very abusive. I think the guy I am dating is compatible with me when I compare m...
by Regina
Thu May 28, 2020 8:16 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Boyfriend Infertility problem
Replies: 7
Views: 1218

Boyfriend Infertility problem

Hi guys, I am a 25 yr female, software developer. I am dating someone for the past 3 months. He is a general physician. He is very caring and we have great Compatability. I am attracted towards him and I am falling for him. There is one problem though. I have PCOS(Poly cystic ovarian syndrome). So I...
by Regina
Wed Oct 30, 2019 10:54 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Ex boyfriend threat
Replies: 23
Views: 3338

Re: Ex boyfriend threat

My mom said that I am a prostitute and my dad didn't deny it. I know that they are acting out of anger. But now I think I should not have told them. There is no-one who understands this. They are just asking me to stop reopening it and mind my business. They even started talking about marriage. I do...
by Regina
Wed Oct 30, 2019 9:34 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Ex boyfriend threat
Replies: 23
Views: 3338

Re: Ex boyfriend threat

He has stopped contacting me. My parents are acting out. They are calling me by names, crying for reopening it. They are calling me selfish.
by Regina
Wed Oct 30, 2019 2:12 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Ex boyfriend threat
Replies: 23
Views: 3338

Re: Ex boyfriend threat

Hi...I talked to the crisis hotline. Thanks.
Can we talk about my ex situation?
by Regina
Tue Oct 29, 2019 10:47 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Ex boyfriend threat
Replies: 23
Views: 3338

Re: Ex boyfriend threat

I feel like commiting suicide when I am overwhelmed by emotions. I can't control my tears. I feel I am inferior to others. I am not able to move on from this. If I ever had the chance to do something I will thrash him until he tells the truth and if indeed what he said was true I will thrash him to ...
by Regina
Tue Oct 29, 2019 7:47 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Ex boyfriend threat
Replies: 23
Views: 3338

Re: Ex boyfriend threat

About the possibility of him assaulting me, You didn't comment on drugging or spiking my food. In that case I would not have woken up right? I also think may be he is covering up the fact that he drugged me and says that I cooperated. As far as my sleeping pattern is concerned I sleep late night but...
by Regina
Tue Oct 29, 2019 1:57 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Ex boyfriend threat
Replies: 23
Views: 3338

Re: Ex boyfriend threat

I have told my parents regarding this. They have asked me to not raise any complaints in office as well as outside, because my name will get involved and it will go public, may also lead to me losing my job. I am still not able to digest the fact that he is not bluffing but telling the truth. I have...
by Regina
Mon Oct 28, 2019 2:09 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Ex boyfriend threat
Replies: 23
Views: 3338

Re: Ex boyfriend threat

Hi, I have sent mail to that organisation. They are yet to reply. I sought the help of my lawyer friend, he contacted my ex boyfriend showing him the recording and told that we can press charges for rape. I thought he will admit his bluff. But he still repeated the same thing and this time he told t...
by Regina
Sat Sep 28, 2019 3:19 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Ex boyfriend threat
Replies: 23
Views: 3338

Re: Ex boyfriend threat

Heather wrote:Regina: I've asked a partner of ours in India for any additional advocacy/legal resources there might be for you that we don't know about. Do you mind sharing what city you're in with us? They've asked to try and find you the most accessible help.


I live in Bangalore
by Regina
Fri Sep 27, 2019 9:27 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Ex boyfriend threat
Replies: 23
Views: 3338

Re: Ex boyfriend threat

If I have to file charges against him, My parents will come to know about it and I don't want to hurt them anymore. Pre marital sex is a frowned upon thing in my place and it will only lead to more complications in my relationship with my parents. My ex had been diagnosed with Borderline Personality...
by Regina
Fri Sep 27, 2019 5:27 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Ex boyfriend threat
Replies: 23
Views: 3338

Ex boyfriend threat

Hi all... I am a 25 year old woman from India, I was in a relationship with a man for 3 years but we never had sexual intercourse. But we did kiss. During the course of our relationship I stayed overnight at his house for a couple of times. He works with me. We broke up a year back. He didn't take i...

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