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by pianolover
Sat Feb 20, 2021 2:32 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: wtf
Replies: 5
Views: 1235

Re: wtf

Honestly Sam I have no clue, heh
The talk went sideways and then forward and then backward. I do not know what to do. I'm only 19
by pianolover
Fri Feb 19, 2021 7:14 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: wtf
Replies: 5
Views: 1235

Re: wtf

Yeah we talked about it and he hasn't done this before,
by pianolover
Thu Feb 18, 2021 2:09 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: wtf
Replies: 5
Views: 1235

wtf

My bf and I were having sex and mentioned he was going to cum, and then seconds pass, and we were still having sex, and I didn't want to stop, but I felt like I should check in to see if he did because we would need to change the condom. He lied about not having an orgasm because he wanted to keep g...
by pianolover
Thu Feb 18, 2021 2:04 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: sexual coercion
Replies: 5
Views: 1323

Re: sexual coercion

Thank you
by pianolover
Wed Feb 17, 2021 4:59 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: sexual coercion
Replies: 5
Views: 1323

Re: sexual coercion

They changed their mind, and both of them initiated it. The other person did not bring it up again but was a little touchy later and then asked if the person didn't want to have sex still, and the person said they did want to have sex and that they changed their mind.
by pianolover
Tue Feb 16, 2021 11:40 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: sexual coercion
Replies: 5
Views: 1323

sexual coercion

Hello,
If someone said they weren't up for sex and the other person accepted it but later on, they ended up having sex anyway. Is that sexual coercion?
by pianolover
Wed Jan 27, 2021 7:13 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: Fear of SEX OR STDS
Replies: 3
Views: 1640

Re: Fear of SEX OR STDS

Hi Mo, I talked to my partner about the decision to pause on sex until I talk with my doctor and feel safe around the STDS part. Maybe pause after feeling less worried about STDs and take it slow after that because I have so much going on. For some reason, sex adds some anxiety to my life, which suc...
by pianolover
Tue Jan 26, 2021 3:26 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: Fear of SEX OR STDS
Replies: 3
Views: 1640

Fear of SEX OR STDS

I recently had sex with my new partner, and we've both been previously tested, and our results were negative & we had no sexual partners since, but that was months before we got together. So, I was still a little scared, but we had sex anyway with protection, but I could not help but feel uneas...
by pianolover
Mon Nov 23, 2020 4:14 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: jealousy over partner's xs
Replies: 4
Views: 1116

Re: jealousy over partner's xs

Yeah, thank you. That makes sense.
by pianolover
Mon Nov 23, 2020 12:37 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: jealousy over partner's xs
Replies: 4
Views: 1116

Re: jealousy over partner's xs

Right, they had sex with them while they were still with them.

I think I feel anxious that I won't be able to compare to them or that they got to be close to him that way.
by pianolover
Sun Nov 22, 2020 10:05 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: jealousy over partner's xs
Replies: 4
Views: 1116

jealousy over partner's xs

I've been dating this person for a month now, and we've been talking since July (we know each other from college). I've learned that they have had three sexual encounters with each of their x's (we've never had sex), and it makes me jealous/anxious when I think about it. I've also have had my own ex...
by pianolover
Sun Jan 26, 2020 5:26 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Crush
Replies: 9
Views: 2914

Re: Crush

Hello,
Thank you for your thorough reply I will refer back to this advice and I think there are some good examples of what being intense can be and how to cope with feelings using mindfulness. :)
by pianolover
Sat Jan 25, 2020 2:05 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Crush
Replies: 9
Views: 2914

Re: Crush

Hey Horriblegoose,
I've been told that I was overly sensitive in the past and I've also heard being intense is a turn off by a few women not directly to me but about other women.
by pianolover
Sat Jan 25, 2020 1:58 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Crush
Replies: 9
Views: 2914

Re: Crush

Hi Sam, Yeah, I believe it's my thoughts and getting nervous around a person it takes a lot of energy over one person it's amazingly unbelievable. I see them every week where we have to interact face to face and talk. Also, people suggest that meeting people in places that you have similar interests...
by pianolover
Sat Jan 25, 2020 3:59 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Crush
Replies: 9
Views: 2914

Re: Crush

Hey Horriblegoose, I'm like a scatter plot when it comes to crushes always have been. I'm frustrated with crushes in general. And I don't know that I'd say I want the feelings to go away but they make me uneasy. When I say the realistic option is to move what I mean is when I get a crush I don't do ...
by pianolover
Fri Jan 24, 2020 7:21 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Crush
Replies: 9
Views: 2914

Crush

Hello, I'm in a situation where I've been attracted to a particular person for a number of months. I see him every week at a place we both go also at college. And we don't really talk to each other about our lives or personal stuff. I believe I'm a little obvious about my thoughts and feelings. Alth...
by pianolover
Thu Aug 15, 2019 1:08 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Confused
Replies: 3
Views: 1592

Re: Confused

It seems doable! Thanks!
by pianolover
Sun Aug 11, 2019 11:05 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Confused
Replies: 3
Views: 1592

Confused

It has been a month since I've been active! I've been busy and havent found myself with any questions to ask. But scarleteen has been helpful in the past. I have a situation that has presented itself to me. Someone(a guy from work) I like has told me that they move a lot and relationships are hard f...
by pianolover
Fri Jun 28, 2019 8:17 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Difficult conversations
Replies: 3
Views: 1226

Re: Difficult conversations

Thank you and yes I do want to have an intimate relationship that includes sexual intimacy.
by pianolover
Tue Jun 25, 2019 9:30 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Difficult conversations
Replies: 3
Views: 1226

Difficult conversations

How can I talk to a potential romantic/sexual partners about negative sexual experiences and what can I except or should I except? what are some boundaries I might apply to these new relationships that will prevent the same things happening again like a sexual partner listening when you don't feel r...
by pianolover
Tue Jun 25, 2019 6:42 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Ovulating
Replies: 1
Views: 1124

Ovulating

What are some ways we can tell if we're are ovulating ? females and males
by pianolover
Sun Jun 02, 2019 10:39 pm
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: Afraid
Replies: 3
Views: 1622

Re: Afraid

thank you for suggesting that I think it is a good time for raching out for help.
by pianolover
Fri May 31, 2019 9:38 pm
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: Afraid
Replies: 3
Views: 1622

Afraid

I have been feeling afraid lately mainly of the outside world. I'm graduating highschool in about two weeks. I have been coming across a lot of knowledge about myself and at times its overwhelming. I've been feeling insecure in my body mainly in clothes while im in public. Also I'm afraid of people ...
by pianolover
Mon May 06, 2019 10:22 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Vulva
Replies: 18
Views: 3764

Re: Vulva

The first question you had regarding my family is hard to answer . I try to be the most understanding towards as others as I can and I never really understood their reasoning for pointing things out like my body hair. Like literally they'll make fun of me for having arm pit hair and then after like ...
by pianolover
Sat May 04, 2019 6:30 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Vulva
Replies: 18
Views: 3764

Re: Vulva

No, not really. I have a friend that I talk about stuff but sometimes I feel like I'm being too much for her because it seems as though I'm the only one reaching out. I guess I can try to talk to her about it

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