My boyfriend and I have lots of discussions and occasional clashes of opinions which is an important part of our relationship. We always have something to talk about and we are both comfortable talking about our feelings as well. However, when having discussions involving his whole family or other g...

I have just graduated studying a creative course at university and have come back home to live with my family. To say it is challenging is an understatement. If it wasn't for the relationship that I have with my boyfriend I'm not sure how I would cope. I have had issues with my mental health for a l...

Hi Sam and Heather, Thanks for responding and apologies for being late with replying myself. I didn't really get a chance to talk with him when I saw him last. This sounds like a good plan though. I have mentioned to him that I've noticed his behaviour changing but I stupidly brought my own experien...

Hi there, My brother (nearly 2 years younger than me, he has just turned 20) hasn't seemed happy or content even for a very long time. He came out to me as gay when he was 14 and over Christmas this year cried and talked to me a bit about finding growing up really hard. He talked about not feeling l...

Thank you so much! This definitely helps me to make sense of things a bit more. I hadn't really thought about erotica as a real alternative to porn before even though it is basically the original version of porn. The links are very helpful too!

Hi Siân, Thanks for the reply :) In regards to the anger and guilt I feel it's down to a number of different reasons. Most of it is because of the nature of the fantasies I have sought out in porn and still think about, often contradict how I think people should treat each other in real life. If for...

I started watching porn for the first time 10 years ago when I was 11 I think. I believe it was to try and understand what sex or intercourse was, however it's a little difficult to remember exactly what was going on in my head. I remember feeling slightly disappointed when I discovered what interco...