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by Ashleah
Wed Jun 13, 2018 9:54 am
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Birth control myth
Replies: 1
Views: 2978

Re: Birth control myth

lookingforhope, We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy. Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and you...
by Ashleah
Fri Jun 02, 2017 5:03 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Missed 2 months period
Replies: 1
Views: 2013

Re: Missed 2 months period

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy. Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is loc...
by Ashleah
Fri Jun 02, 2017 5:02 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Missed Period 2 Months
Replies: 0
Views: 3438

Missed Period 2 Months

Hi Ricky, This is a thread to address your concerns about your period. It's not uncommon to miss a period, especially, if you are typically irregular, however I would recommend checking in with a doctor if you miss anymore. There a a number of reasons someone might miss a period but we couldn't tell...
by Ashleah
Fri Jun 02, 2017 4:42 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: going the distance
Replies: 28
Views: 11667

Re: going the distance

Hi jurassicwars, There is nothing wrong with talking about porn or any topic both you and your mother are comfortable with. But just as Alice said, it is not a requirement. If it is a conversation that makes you feel bad or doubtful about your behavior, then it would be perfectly okay to say somethi...
by Ashleah
Tue May 30, 2017 9:52 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Literally unable to move on
Replies: 6
Views: 4669

Re: Literally unable to move on

Hi Penny, Hope you don't mind me jumping in. Really, you can't know how much time you need away from your ex since it will be new for you. If anything, creating a deadline would be unfair to yourself! You don't have to give it a certain amount of time and that might end up putting pressure on you to...
by Ashleah
Tue May 30, 2017 9:30 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Fingering myself is weird? Help!
Replies: 5
Views: 10434

Re: Fingering myself is weird? Help!

Hey calmandcute, You can ask whatever you like as long as it respects our policy and guidelines! That's what we are here for!!! If you have a lot of questions about sex and sexuality, I would also recommend checking out are main page because we have a TON of great articles about pretty much everythi...
by Ashleah
Tue May 30, 2017 9:24 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: going the distance
Replies: 28
Views: 11667

Re: going the distance

Hi Jurassicwars, This is not a stupid question at all! Having privacy and a space that you both would feel comfortable being together in is an important piece to a healthy sexual relationship. It's great that you are considering ways to create this space. And it definitely can be tricky when you are...
by Ashleah
Mon May 22, 2017 11:30 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Dealing w/ Rejection
Replies: 1
Views: 3233

Dealing w/ Rejection

There really isn't any other way to say it, rejection sucks. I can't imagine that it is fun for anyone, but I think it is something that we have all faced at one time or another. Understandable, rejection can really sour a mood and make it difficult to put yourself out there in the future. So what a...
by Ashleah
Fri Apr 21, 2017 9:37 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Where can I find casual sex partners?
Replies: 23
Views: 13444

Re: Where can I find casual sex partners?

Hey cityofthedead, To me, it seems like Mo's advice still applies for the type of relationship you are looking for. Even more so really. The best thing to do when you are looking to connect with a person is to get out and meet people. As you all get to know one another, you all get to determine how ...
by Ashleah
Sun Apr 16, 2017 7:57 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Embarrassed of my vagina
Replies: 1
Views: 3337

Re: Embarrassed of my vagina

Hi Wojo, I'm really sorry to hear that this is something that is bothering you. Unfortunately, worrying about our bodies and the way that they look is all too common and the solution, which is finding a way to be comfortable with ourselves, can be hard to do. It sounds like you are a supportive and ...
by Ashleah
Sun Apr 16, 2017 7:03 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I don't think I have a vagina hole... How can I tell for sure??
Replies: 2
Views: 8155

Re: I don't think I have a vagina hole... How can I tell for sure??

Hi Annahannah, Both the way bodies look and work vary from person to person. So just because your mother started her period earlier than you does not mean you are behind or that your body is not working exactly the way it is suppose to. It sounds like the "skin" you saw could be your hymen...
by Ashleah
Fri Mar 24, 2017 9:02 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Period is 2 days late and I have a Copper IUD
Replies: 5
Views: 7836

Re: Period is 2 days late and I have a Copper IUD

Hi Duckie, A period is not considered late until five days after the latest day that it is expected, so there is still some time before you are considered late. In general, it is more common than not for periods to show some variation in how/when they occur which can be the results of a number of th...
by Ashleah
Mon Mar 20, 2017 12:16 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sex
Replies: 1
Views: 1349

Re: Sex

Hello! Welcome to the boards. Since it seems like you are just interested in knowing about sex, I would recommend that you check out are main page. There are tons of articles about the sex, bodies, etc. If there are any questions you have or things you want to discuss, we will be here! Here are a fe...
by Ashleah
Mon Mar 20, 2017 11:43 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Is sexual pleasure painful?
Replies: 2
Views: 2520

Re: Is sexual pleasure painful?

Hey NotSure, I would say this is a porn thing. In general, porn displays unrealistic images of sex, including the way a person experiences pleasure. I think the idea is for it to look super intense, which can lead to exaggerated faces, sounds, reactions. I haven't heard it described like this before...
by Ashleah
Thu Mar 16, 2017 1:07 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Birth Control, period and unprotected sex
Replies: 1
Views: 1499

Re: Birth Control, period and unprotected sex

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy. Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is loc...
by Ashleah
Thu Mar 09, 2017 1:42 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I feel raped after sex...
Replies: 27
Views: 7711

Re: I feel raped after sex...

Hi Laujo, Can you tell me about the other relationships in your life? With your family and friends? I ask because a lot of times they provide some of the same things you mentioned here as being benefits in your relationship.Sure, they are not the same, but having affection, support, and care from pe...
by Ashleah
Fri Mar 03, 2017 9:18 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I feel raped after sex...
Replies: 27
Views: 7711

Re: I feel raped after sex...

Hi Laujo,

If you feel like you need any help with the conversation once you have written your letter, we are here :)

Can I ask what your concern is when you are say you are worried how he will take this?
by Ashleah
Thu Mar 02, 2017 1:04 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I feel raped after sex...
Replies: 27
Views: 7711

Re: I feel raped after sex...

Hi Laujo, I want to start by saying his actions are not your fault. In no way is telling someone "no" confusing and you haven't done anything misleading or wrong. Even if you have had sex before does not mean a person has a right to have sex with you anytime they want. I'm truly sorry to h...
by Ashleah
Thu Mar 02, 2017 12:29 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Is it worth it?
Replies: 1
Views: 1832

Re: Is it worth it?

Hi Kindascared, Have you all talked about this any? If not, I recommend starting there. Things you might want to discuss are what the relationship would look like, expectations as far as communication and spending time with one another, or if either of you even want a long distance relationship at a...
by Ashleah
Wed Feb 08, 2017 11:43 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: How do I find someone I like?
Replies: 2
Views: 1776

Re: How do I find someone I like?

Hi Thisguy2, Welcome to the boards! By no means is this a dumb question and it is a topic we deal with a lot :) Unfortunately, there isn't a way to ask someone out without actually asking them out. Well, not unfortunately because communication is great and is the most effective way of expressing our...
by Ashleah
Wed Jan 25, 2017 9:28 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I think I could be pregnant
Replies: 1
Views: 1374

Re: I think I could be pregnant

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy. Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is loc...
by Ashleah
Wed Jan 25, 2017 9:25 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Should I be worried that i'm pregnant?
Replies: 1
Views: 1395

Re: Should I be worried that i'm pregnant?

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy. Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is loc...
by Ashleah
Wed Jan 25, 2017 9:24 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Bleeding during intercourse
Replies: 9
Views: 2885

Re: Bleeding during intercourse

Hi hrhalig, Welcome to the boards! There are a few reasons someone might bleed during first time intercourse. While the hymen can stretch or tear during intercourse and as a result cause bleeding, it's not the most common reason (which btw, the hymen wears away over time instead of there being one s...
by Ashleah
Fri Jan 13, 2017 7:54 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Abnormal Period
Replies: 9
Views: 2905

Re: Abnormal Period

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy. Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is loc...
by Ashleah
Thu Jan 12, 2017 10:59 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Skin covering vaginal opening?
Replies: 4
Views: 12566

Re: Skin covering vaginal opening?

Hey Jellowl, Although it really is sounding like this could be one of those "every vulva is different" things, I couldn't say for sure. If it is concerning you, nothing wrong with checking in with a healthcare professional. Do you have an idea of why you are experiencing irritation frequen...