Hey unchained, Also, I first learned about romantic orientation when I was reading a comic about asexuality. However, I always wondered if someone could have an orientation like "homoromantic heterosexual" or something similar. This is the comic in case you are curious: http://www.asexual...

@Laima That's what I have come to understand romantic orientation as. I will say, though, that I don't think I have ever seen somebody address mismatched sexual-romantic orientation outside of the asexual community. Then again, I came to terms with my orientation relatively recently and haven't talk...

That's... a hard question to answer... I would say the first character I strongly related to, was Cristina from the book "El Angel de Cristina" (Cristina's Angel) by Carlos Rodriguez Gesualdi (I don't think there is an English translation anywhere out there). There is nothing particularly ...

I would like to begin by apologising if this is the wrong board to ask about this. I went to see a gynaecologist because I had two very abnormal periods (both as in the date they came and the amount of blood I lost). She had me have an ultrasound which showed a small cyst in one of my ovaries. My gy...

Oh, well, when you put it like that, then I suppose I can be sure I'm not going to do that. XD Sounds like too much of a jerk move to use someone like that.

And thank you for your time.

Both of you, I really love coming here and how fast there is someone to assessor me.

I see, I will take it easy then. And thank you for the reassurance on how I handled it. I suppose my main worry is to end up dating a girl out of spite to men (as crazy as that might sound) or that if I eventually date a girl she feels I'm only dating her out of spite to men. I mean, I don't suddenl...

So, this is a sorta complicated story and I'm pretty sure a lot of the outcome of it is my own fault. But please bear with me. There was this guy, who was the friend of two mutual friends. That's how we met, they introduced us because they thought we had plenty of stuff in common. Indeed we did shar...

Well, when you explain it like that, I guess that I have to say that, at least for now, I then really don't find much sense in the use of a label of "romantic orientation", at least for me.

Thank you very much for your patience and help.

I'm sorry, I kind of ranted and failed to ask my question clearly. I guess what I'm trying to ask is: how does one limit towards what group/s one feels romantically attracted? Because, I see that romantic attraction is normally classified in groups like sexual attraction (a-, hetero-, homo-, bi-, pa...

This is something I find rather embarrassing to ask advise on. I will begin by saying that relatively recently I "found out" I was asexual and wrote to this site http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/do_i_need_to_come_out_as_asexual asking for advise on the subject of coming out because...

Oh, well... Thank you for the quick answer!

So, some time ago, I found this website and after a lot of doubt I created and account and submitted a question. This one here: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/do_i_need_to_come_out_as_asexual For some reason, when I tried to login again, after it had been answered I couldn't. I tried to re...