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- by cityofthedead
- Tue Jun 02, 2020 8:45 am
- Forum: Supporting Each Other
- Topic: A thread for non-Black allies
- Replies: 8
- Views: 9034
https://fortune.com/2020/06/01/how-to-be-an-ally-in-the-struggle-against-racism-and-police-brutality/ https://www.salon.com/2020/06/01/white-allies-dos-donts-racism-black-lives-matter-protest/ https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2020/05/9841649/allyship-ahmaud-arbery-george-floyd https://www.forbes.com...
- by cityofthedead
- Thu Mar 05, 2020 1:17 pm
- Forum: Site Help & Service
- Topic: Expect no/slow responses today
- Replies: 3
- Views: 11674
It’s too bad we have a nihilist (for lack of a better word) as our president. It’s also too bad that people support and vote for him. I mean, I have a Trump-supporter in my own family. I will never let my grudge against him lift and once I go to college, I will break off all contact I have with him,...
- by cityofthedead
- Tue May 21, 2019 12:14 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: More Apologies
- Replies: 2
- Views: 2098
Thank you, Al. I'm open to learning more about extremely poor governmental decisions like the Alabama abortion prohibition (and other such legal implements in other states and around the world) and people's experiences without reproductive justice and autonomy, in addition to the experiences of peop...
- by cityofthedead
- Mon May 20, 2019 5:28 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: More Apologies
- Replies: 2
- Views: 2098
(The topic title probably has nothing to do with this particular discussion board. It was literally all I could think of to name it.) I'm having trouble forgiving myself for my "shady" (for lack of a better word) history on these forums. The horrible, horrible shit I've shared on these for...
- by cityofthedead
- Fri Feb 08, 2019 12:31 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Apologies
- Replies: 2
- Views: 1930
Thank you very much, Heather. I'm happy and relieved with how I'd changed over the past year and with my willingness to admit to and share the mistakes I had made, as difficult as they were to address. :) Also, monster was a term I must admit was very bigoted of me to use. I don't consider myself or...
- by cityofthedead
- Fri Feb 08, 2019 11:29 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Apologies
- Replies: 2
- Views: 1930
I've been contemplating my previous behavior on these message boards since a bit over a year ago I've posted them. I feel very bad and disgusted that such a person had once been me. I was someone who felt there was something very wrong with what I was born with, and as a result, wrote and shared mes...
- by cityofthedead
- Tue Dec 19, 2017 2:53 pm
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: Biological sex insecurity
- Replies: 7
- Views: 5331
I thought what I said would help you understand, but it seems that it didn't. I'm sorry that I have been unintentionally causing you to feel hurt and bashed. I guess I shouldn't be brutally honest and thorough like I have been here. I was trying to express how ashamed I feel of being a man. I need t...
- by cityofthedead
- Tue Dec 19, 2017 1:52 pm
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: Biological sex insecurity
- Replies: 7
- Views: 5331
I've been thinking for 17 days what to say next here. Thank you for your time. It's not any easier to write than what I started this discussion with. I like what Sam said about supporting a pregnant partner, but what I've been thinking is quite harsh to me. I sometimes feel like I would've been bett...
- by cityofthedead
- Sat Dec 02, 2017 10:37 am
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: Biological sex insecurity
- Replies: 7
- Views: 5331
Bear with yourself here, COTD. :cry: I realize how batshit I went on the political section of these forums. I think this is one of those situations where I completely misunderstood my own motives. I thought I would have my life and genes possessed and controlled by a woman if I were to make her preg...
- by cityofthedead
- Wed Nov 29, 2017 2:22 pm
- Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
- Topic: Reproductive rights for men
- Replies: 4
- Views: 5701
I totally misunderstood what you've been saying in previous discussions and what has been happening in the world. I'm very sorry. I feel like a pro-life person bashing you for your pro choice policies. But I'm not pro life. I should've emphasized the "choice" better. I understand better th...
- by cityofthedead
- Tue Nov 28, 2017 5:52 pm
- Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
- Topic: Reproductive rights for men
- Replies: 4
- Views: 5701
Following up on my discussion from the Pregnancy and Parenting section, I feel that U. S. legislature has been and still is causing us problems by seemingly trading off rights, especially reproductive rights in this case, between men and women. Women weren't seen as independent, for a time. Now, wom...
- by cityofthedead
- Wed Nov 15, 2017 5:19 pm
- Forum: Supporting Each Other
- Topic: A reminder about this area
- Replies: 7
- Views: 6412
Thank you Heather. I'm totally alright. I'm in a very safe place where, from my knowledge, there has never been a terrorist attack or mass shooting. I've just been owning up and saying that I made a mistake in responding to that thread you would soon delete because I wasn't being supportive. I didn'...
- by cityofthedead
- Sun Oct 22, 2017 8:33 am
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: Penis Size
- Replies: 4
- Views: 4847
I just wanted to recognise after COTD's post, that we do try not to assume the gender of someone's potential partners. Attraction, and preferences vary from person to person, and it isn't particularly about being 'female' or not. I didn't mean it like that. This guy's profile said he was straight s...
- by cityofthedead
- Thu Oct 19, 2017 2:13 pm
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: Penis Size
- Replies: 4
- Views: 4847
Penis size is a lot more of a concern than it needs to be in our culture. If you research this and other sexual education websites, you'll discover that, based on the information based on female anatomy, penis size shouldn't affect female sexual arousal and response. As long as you have birth contro...
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