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by KittyPink
Sun Aug 30, 2020 9:53 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Thinking about pursuing a poly/open relationship because of akwardness around my transition as well as other stuff.
Replies: 4
Views: 905

Re: Thinking about pursuing a poly/open relationship because of akwardness around my transition as well as other stuff.

As far as what I'll get from it, honestly, my ideal was to experiment with being with women a bit more. Maybe find multiple people to share my love with besides the handsome man I live with, I dunno, not too sure, come what may of it. I know also though he's been talking about opening it up prior fo...
by KittyPink
Sun Aug 30, 2020 9:48 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Thinking about pursuing a poly/open relationship because of akwardness around my transition as well as other stuff.
Replies: 4
Views: 905

Re: Thinking about pursuing a poly/open relationship because of akwardness around my transition as well as other stuff.

Hey Kittypink, Polyamory & open relationships can be beautiful things -- that's how I have chosen to live my life & I'm always down to talk about why. However! I would never recommend choosing polyamory because you're in a place of self-deprecation. You are a whole and beautiful and wonderf...
by KittyPink
Sun Aug 30, 2020 1:01 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Thinking about pursuing a poly/open relationship because of akwardness around my transition as well as other stuff.
Replies: 4
Views: 905

Thinking about pursuing a poly/open relationship because of akwardness around my transition as well as other stuff.

Primarily because of sex being akward because of me still having what I have down there, but also because it's making our romantic life weird and stuff. He's confused, my emotions all over the place and I've been craving major physical intimacy. I feel like I insignficant because I can't provide him...
by KittyPink
Mon Jul 20, 2020 11:56 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Getting a little upset because I've had to stop during anal because akward angles and stuff.
Replies: 5
Views: 1172

Re: Getting a little upset because I've had to stop during anal because akward angles and stuff.

Sam W wrote:Hi KittyPink,

Have the two of you tried using pillows or other supports at all? That could help you find or maintain a position in a way that doesn't strain your back or hips.

Not yet
by KittyPink
Sun Jul 19, 2020 10:16 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Getting a little upset because I've had to stop during anal because akward angles and stuff.
Replies: 5
Views: 1172

Re: Getting a little upset because I've had to stop during anal because akward angles and stuff.

Hey KittyPink, I'm sorry, I know it can be hard when you enjoy something and aren't able to figure out how to make it work for your body. Have you tried going back to square one and working your way up to anal sex with a penis? Working your way up with fingers, smaller toys, or even dilators and lo...
by KittyPink
Sun Jul 19, 2020 12:45 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Getting a little upset because I've had to stop during anal because akward angles and stuff.
Replies: 5
Views: 1172

Getting a little upset because I've had to stop during anal because akward angles and stuff.

I was really enjoying it too. I had at least one orgasm and was having a very pleasureable time. But some discomfort in my hips and having to pull out for me to catch my breath and because he started having this akward angle and also like his weight hitting me started making me a little tired and al...
by KittyPink
Wed May 20, 2020 7:05 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Advice about giving oral to my partner.
Replies: 1
Views: 1085

Advice about giving oral to my partner.

So I wanna suck my guy's dick buttt, I have a small mouth and a hella sensitive gag reflex. I mean I do like the concept of gagging on his dick when he's being rough, though my main concern is finding a way to relax my gag reflex and my jaw a bit without a gag because I'm concerned I'm gonna end up ...
by KittyPink
Thu May 14, 2020 1:15 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Getting annoyed because anal is painful for me.
Replies: 4
Views: 1419

Getting annoyed because anal is painful for me.

I've trying to do butt stuff for awhile and I keep having to chicken out because of how painful it is. I enjoy it when it's not painful any advice?
by KittyPink
Tue Apr 28, 2020 9:13 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Estrogen is making sex and masturbation really nice for me now, but it's adding new challenges too.
Replies: 7
Views: 1782

Re: Estrogen is making sex and masturbation really nice for me now, but it's adding new challenges too.

Sam W wrote:Can you say a little more about that? What things in particular that you'd want to try do you think your size might effect?

Being short and scrawny, mainly might make it hard for me to pin folks or something like that if that's what they like and bring short comes with its own set of problems
by KittyPink
Tue Apr 28, 2020 9:05 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Estrogen is making sex and masturbation really nice for me now, but it's adding new challenges too.
Replies: 7
Views: 1782

Re: Estrogen is making sex and masturbation really nice for me now, but it's adding new challenges too.

Got it. In terms of not being heard by others, what to do depends a lot on where you're having sex. If it's in a shared house (or an apartment/dorm/other space with pretty thin walls), things like playing music, finding ways to muffle the sounds, or just making sure your windows are closed can go a...
by KittyPink
Tue Apr 28, 2020 8:45 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Estrogen is making sex and masturbation really nice for me now, but it's adding new challenges too.
Replies: 7
Views: 1782

Re: Estrogen is making sex and masturbation really nice for me now, but it's adding new challenges too.

Hi KittyPink, With the moaning, is your concern that you'd be embarrassed in front of a partner, or that you'd be overheard by someone else (like a neighbor or someone you live with)? As far as roles go (once it's safe to go out and have sex with partners you don't live with), there are a few diffe...
by KittyPink
Tue Apr 28, 2020 7:55 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Estrogen is making sex and masturbation really nice for me now, but it's adding new challenges too.
Replies: 7
Views: 1782

Estrogen is making sex and masturbation really nice for me now, but it's adding new challenges too.

So since I've started estrogen my orgasms have become a lot more intense, and I have a tendency vocalize a lot now which has less to concerns about me moaning way too loud and embarrassing myself. Also, like while my sex drive is less active, I appear to be going through a change in preference for r...
by KittyPink
Sun Apr 26, 2020 11:50 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Why do I have a problem asking girls out, but I have no problem asking guys out...
Replies: 1
Views: 1283

Why do I have a problem asking girls out, but I have no problem asking guys out...

So, I'm super nervous as trans girl about asking girls out, especially lesbians. Because of the fact I feel predatory even when I'm not and I feel like even though I am a girl, even with surgery down there I'll always be "different", I don't know if it's just exclusionary retoric getting t...
by KittyPink
Wed Mar 25, 2020 1:38 am
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: I'm still having nightmares about it.
Replies: 4
Views: 1715

Re: I'm still having nightmares about it.

I'm gonna visit my therapist, as far as the support, I dunno honestly.
by KittyPink
Tue Mar 24, 2020 7:01 am
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: I'm still having nightmares about it.
Replies: 4
Views: 1715

I'm still having nightmares about it.

So a prospective boyfriend of mine had taken advantage of me when I wasn't exactly all there and I couldn't consent properly to sex when I had told him previously that I just wanted to cuddle and make out. He eventually brought me up to his bedroom and striped me down which I was okay with, but he s...
by KittyPink
Mon Jan 20, 2020 5:03 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Friend with Benefits, turned crush...
Replies: 8
Views: 1588

Re: Friend with Benefits, turned crush...

Hi Kittypink, While that wasn't the answer you were hoping for, it does sound like the two of you are able to talk about it openly and without it torpedoing your current relationship, which is a really positive outcome. Is there a way we can best support you around this right now? Maybe just figuri...
by KittyPink
Mon Jan 20, 2020 2:47 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Friend with Benefits, turned crush...
Replies: 8
Views: 1588

Re: Friend with Benefits, turned crush...

He's saying that he's got too much going on to have a relationship like that right now, which is understandable considering he's in college and trying to pay off debt from bills and other shit, but he's more concerned about keeping me away from his problems. Me and him are still talking farther, but...
by KittyPink
Sun Jan 12, 2020 10:12 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Friend with Benefits, turned crush...
Replies: 8
Views: 1588

Re: Friend with Benefits, turned crush...

To the last question, sort of, mainly because my grandmother's kinda absitence minded, if you get what I mean. I really don't want to explain why he's in my bedroom most of the time (I haven't told her anything about him other than he's a "friend") or staying the night and I'd have to ask ...
by KittyPink
Sat Jan 11, 2020 3:28 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Friend with Benefits, turned crush...
Replies: 8
Views: 1588

Friend with Benefits, turned crush...

So there's this guy, I originally met him on a dating app, although, we started talking and became friends, and then we decided to mess around in the woods (probably not the best place to do stuff, but ehhhh, it's still better than a public bathroom), and so we've been talking for three months and m...
by KittyPink
Sat Jan 11, 2020 3:09 am
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Bra shopping help?
Replies: 1
Views: 1379

Bra shopping help?

So, it's that time on Estrogen where my boobs and nips are really sensitive and growing in but they're like small A cups with like maybe a 32 band size, but I need support because the jiggling is unpleasant and painful right now, but like I need a cheap bra or two until I see where the growth's gonn...
by KittyPink
Sat Nov 09, 2019 2:59 am
Forum: Gender
Topic: I think I might have some sort of "trans gal" version of a period?
Replies: 4
Views: 4147

Re: I think I might have some sort of "trans gal" version of a period?

Okay, so I'm not just imagining the cramps and being unusually irritable and nauseous, unusually, however, this was somewhat of a thing on blockers, but it was very weak and still noticable, I had been on just blockers for awhile longer than I should have, because of personal reasons. Which is stran...
by KittyPink
Mon Nov 04, 2019 6:48 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: I think I might have some sort of "trans gal" version of a period?
Replies: 4
Views: 4147

I think I might have some sort of "trans gal" version of a period?

Like I as I've recently started estrogen and have my levels down to a reasonable range, I have noticed that I have like this week of like mornings where I'll wake up really nauseous and/or I'll have a headache, generally tired and irritable during that time and I have stomach cramps but like it feel...
by KittyPink
Fri Sep 06, 2019 12:12 am
Forum: Gender
Topic: Tips on how to explain to my mother and sister about my preferred name and pronouns?
Replies: 3
Views: 2044

Re: Tips on how to explain to my mother and sister about my preferred name and pronouns?

They haven't gone the greatest, but I think my sister might be a little more receptive, but I think my mother might get it if I explain it and just keeping going at the point that it will make me happier.
by KittyPink
Thu Sep 05, 2019 12:17 am
Forum: Gender
Topic: Tips on how to explain to my mother and sister about my preferred name and pronouns?
Replies: 3
Views: 2044

Tips on how to explain to my mother and sister about my preferred name and pronouns?

So my mother is doesn't approve of, but is okay with me hormonally transitioning if it makes me happy, but I feel like now might be a good time to try to explain to her that it would also help if she used my preferred name and pronouns.
by KittyPink
Sat Feb 23, 2019 2:38 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: I'm about ready to pack up and leave.
Replies: 3
Views: 2936

Re: I'm about ready to pack up and leave.

Just as a safety precaution, can you connect me to resources?

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