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by Danny S.
Sun Feb 12, 2017 12:05 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Chest binding
Replies: 6
Views: 1164

Re: Chest binding

Okay! So I think try out giving your chest small breaks throughout the day and seeing how you feel, especially after you're fully recovered from being sick. If you're still feeling sore or if it gets any worse, you might want to see a doctor to make sure there's not any damage from the unsafe bindin...
by Danny S.
Sun Feb 12, 2017 11:41 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Chest binding
Replies: 6
Views: 1164

Re: Chest binding

Okay! Can I ask what size gc2b you got? I know a few people, including myself, who have had trouble with gc2bs for larger chests. I've found that underworks works best for me- their double panel in the front is a little more stretchy than gc2b's, which made it feel less constricting. It might also b...
by Danny S.
Sun Feb 12, 2017 11:21 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Spermicide + Lubricant
Replies: 3
Views: 852

Re: Spermicide + Lubricant

Oops, thanks for the correction, Heather!
by Danny S.
Sun Feb 12, 2017 10:28 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Spermicide + Lubricant
Replies: 3
Views: 852

Re: Spermicide + Lubricant

Hi SugarPeach, Here's an article about spermicide from our Birth Control Bingo: Birth Control Bingo: Spermicides . We don't recommend spermicidal condoms, because they are proven to be no more effective than condoms without spermicide, and the spermicide itself can have some adverse effects. As for ...
by Danny S.
Sun Feb 12, 2017 10:14 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Chest binding
Replies: 6
Views: 1164

Re: Chest binding

Hi there, welcome to the boards! I'm so glad you had a friend to help you, it's so important to have a support network. It's great that you're letting your body adjust to the binder a little at a time, but I'm sorry that you're still experiencing pain. Are you sure that the binder is the right size ...
by Danny S.
Sun Jan 29, 2017 1:30 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: doubts about sex
Replies: 9
Views: 1280

Re: doubts about sex

Lube is almost always a good idea! textured condoms work for lots of people, but some people can't really feel the textures. If you want to, try it out and see what works for you. That's the only way to know for sure :)
by Danny S.
Sun Jan 29, 2017 1:18 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: origin of a myth
Replies: 1
Views: 2281

Re: origin of a myth

It's hard to tell you where exactly that came from, but my guess would be that it has something to do with the idea of women bearing children meaning women are inherently caring/nurturing. The idea that they don't care about physical pleasure could be about the objectification of women- women are se...
by Danny S.
Sun Jan 29, 2017 12:11 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Not feeling pleasure during sex
Replies: 5
Views: 1253

Re: Not feeling pleasure during sex

Can I ask what you mean by more avenues? It would be helpful to have a better idea of what you're getting at here. Also, have you spoken to your partner about this? Do you feel like you could have a conversation with him about what gives you pleasure and what doesn't? It might be a matter of slowing...
by Danny S.
Sun Jan 29, 2017 10:19 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: birth control
Replies: 1
Views: 896

Re: birth control

Nope! As long as you've started your period you should be set. Would you like some resources on birth control options or how to get it?
by Danny S.
Thu Jan 19, 2017 2:18 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: How do You know if EC worked?
Replies: 4
Views: 688

Re: How do You know if EC worked?

If you took a pregnancy test properly according to the instructions, and the results were negative, then you are not pregnant.
by Danny S.
Thu Jan 19, 2017 2:15 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: First Time and Worried
Replies: 3
Views: 840

Re: First Time and Worried

Hi ShortandSassy, welcome to the boards. First of all, you don't need to take EC. You have about a 24 hour period before your next pill is considered late, so don't worry about not taking your pill that day. It's great that you're confident you used your condom correctly, so Have a Little Faith in B...
by Danny S.
Wed Jan 11, 2017 2:36 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: safe anal lube
Replies: 1
Views: 985

Re: safe anal lube

Hi there, It depends on what materials you're using the lube with. If you're able to get it, water-based lube is always a safe choice for use with anything. If not, coconut oil is a good substitute, although it breaks down latex condoms so it can't be used with those. Coconut oil can be found at mos...
by Danny S.
Wed Jan 11, 2017 11:49 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Birth control for a week
Replies: 2
Views: 877

Re: Birth control for a week

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy. Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is loc...
by Danny S.
Wed Jan 11, 2017 11:48 am
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Emergency Contraception and Pregnancy Tests
Replies: 0
Views: 1849

Emergency Contraception and Pregnancy Tests

Hi Lkm123, You mentioned emergency contraception and pregnancy tests. If you are worried that you might have had a pregnancy risk three days ago, it's not too late for you to take emergency contraception (plan b). Here's an article on that: Emergency Contraception . If you do decide to take a pregna...
by Danny S.
Wed Jan 11, 2017 11:31 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sexuality
Replies: 3
Views: 1521

Re: Sexuality

Thanks Becky, that was a great response :) In addition to what Becky said, here are some resources I think might help you: The Art of Getting Bi Sexuality: WTF Is It, Anyway? The Rainbow Connection: Orientation for Everyone Don't Let the Door Hit You on the Way Out Bi the Dozen: A Bisexuality Quiz I...
by Danny S.
Wed Jan 11, 2017 11:07 am
Forum: Gender
Topic: Feminine underthings?
Replies: 35
Views: 9716

Re: Feminine underthings?

I'm not sure what shopping looks like where you live, but pretty much any clothing store or department store that sells clothing should sell them. None of the things I mentioned are uncommon.
by Danny S.
Wed Jan 11, 2017 10:56 am
Forum: Gender
Topic: My friend is trans and confused, how can I help?
Replies: 5
Views: 3470

Re: My friend is trans and confused, how can I help?

KittyPink- that may be true, but I'm going with the assumption here (based on the distress it's caused this user's friend) that most of them are trolls. Bananasplit- sometimes showing support means not talking about things. If your friend doesn't want to talk about it, show support by respecting tha...
by Danny S.
Wed Jan 11, 2017 9:48 am
Forum: Gender
Topic: Feminine underthings?
Replies: 35
Views: 9716

Re: Feminine underthings?

Like Emily said, there are underwear that don't have seams- no pantyline underwear. Most "panty" style underwear should be fine as long as you're not wearing super tight jeans or something :) I wear leggings under almost all of my pants all throughout winter, that's an option too. (Bonus: ...
by Danny S.
Wed Jan 11, 2017 9:39 am
Forum: Gender
Topic: My friend is trans and confused, how can I help?
Replies: 5
Views: 3470

Re: My friend is trans and confused, how can I help?

Hi there, I can understand why this might be confusing, but the bottom line is that you need to respect what your friend is saying. It seems like you're a really supportive friend, and that's awesome! Continue to show that support even when things get confusing or difficult. It sounds like your frie...
by Danny S.
Wed Jan 11, 2017 9:06 am
Forum: Gender
Topic: Feminine underthings?
Replies: 35
Views: 9716

Re: Feminine underthings?

Hi KittyPink!
When you say "underthings," are you talking about underwear and bras or clothes in general to wear under your everyday clothes?
by Danny S.
Tue Jan 10, 2017 7:02 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Condom rolled
Replies: 1
Views: 832

Re: Condom rolled

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy. Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is loc...
by Danny S.
Tue Jan 10, 2017 2:31 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Pregnancy
Replies: 1
Views: 986

Re: Pregnancy

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy. Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is loc...
by Danny S.
Tue Jan 10, 2017 2:30 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Pregnancy anxiety
Replies: 1
Views: 604

Re: Pregnancy anxiety

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy. Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is loc...
by Danny S.
Sat Jan 07, 2017 11:36 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Unprotected Sex & Missed BC Pill?
Replies: 1
Views: 786

Re: Unprotected Sex & Missed BC Pill?

Hi there, welcome to the boards :) This sounds like something to keep an eye on, but nothing to freak out about. Here are a couple links that should help you feel a little better: If I miss pills, will I get pregnant? Have a Little Faith in BC Take a look at those and let me know if you're intereste...
by Danny S.
Sat Jan 07, 2017 10:16 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Pansexual ; Being sexually attracted to gay guys
Replies: 10
Views: 11706

Re: Pansexual ; Being sexually attracted to gay guys

Of course it's okay! Would you like me to send you some resources on gender identity?
That makes sense, but maybe your attraction to them isn't necessarily gayness but instead the characteristics that lead you to perceive them as gay?

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