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by bikinksterboy
Sun Sep 13, 2020 9:51 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: nothing to talk about with gf. is this normal?
Replies: 2
Views: 381

Re: nothing to talk about with gf. is this normal?

I talked about this and thought on it for a bit, and I've come to the conclusion that it's a thing where I'm probably afraid of being vulnerable by talking about her interests and engaging in our conversations because it opens up a can of worms of "What if I'll sound stupid?" "what if...
by bikinksterboy
Sun Sep 13, 2020 9:25 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: nothing to talk about with gf. is this normal?
Replies: 2
Views: 381

nothing to talk about with gf. is this normal?

Today an issue came up in conversation with my girlfriend which has come up before in our 3-year relationship, which is that it seems like we don't have anything to talk about. our conversations recently and sometimes in the past are filled with lots of silence and long pauses. She feels like we don...
by bikinksterboy
Wed Aug 12, 2020 8:28 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: my mom wants to control my life!
Replies: 1
Views: 538

my mom wants to control my life!

how do I convince my mom that she doesn't have the right to forbid me from sleeping over at my girlfriend's place because she doesn't believe in pre-engagement sex (which is itself really a cover for the fact that she just wants to control that aspect of my life as an extension of her general desire...
by bikinksterboy
Wed Aug 12, 2020 2:37 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: ddl/lg
Replies: 3
Views: 2089

Re: ddl/lg

umm, I started the thread linked, not Cassie. What is the "original thread" that's being referred to, then?
by bikinksterboy
Wed Aug 12, 2020 2:20 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: am I faking nipple sensitivity?
Replies: 2
Views: 695

Re: am I faking nipple sensitivity?

this might not actually be the case, as it can change somewhat regularly for me. It might even be more complex, come to think of it. looking back on my experiences I think maybe like oral nipple stimulation does "physically' still feel good but just rubbing doesn't. it's hard to parse out eithe...
by bikinksterboy
Wed Aug 12, 2020 2:08 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: am I faking nipple sensitivity?
Replies: 2
Views: 695

am I faking nipple sensitivity?

(cis guy btw) I used to find that my nipples were really sensitive sexually, and in the past few years have incorporated them a lot into sex and masturbation, But the thing is, recently I'm I think realizing that maybe they aren't physically as sensitive as they were/I thought? nipple stimulation st...
by bikinksterboy
Sun Jul 26, 2020 1:41 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: how to get my dad to stop opening my mail?
Replies: 8
Views: 935

Re: how to get my dad to stop opening my mail?

seems like it worked!
by bikinksterboy
Sun Jul 12, 2020 11:01 am
Forum: Gender
Topic: How has your gender expression evolved?
Replies: 17
Views: 8789

Re: How has your gender expression evolved?

I've started my plan to shave with the seasons, as it were a while ago. It's really simple. I shave everything for the summer to cool down, and let it grow through autumn and winter as it gets colder. I'm kind of excited to see how this can give me new opportunities to play around with my presentati...
by bikinksterboy
Sun Jul 12, 2020 10:15 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: How is Everyone?
Replies: 7
Views: 1295

Re: How is Everyone?

I'm doing good! today is just a lazy chill day for me. gonna do some much-needed cleaning and prep for my upcoming Vampire: the Masquerade game some more
by bikinksterboy
Sun Jul 12, 2020 5:11 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: how to get my dad to stop opening my mail?
Replies: 8
Views: 935

Re: how to get my dad to stop opening my mail?

I brought it up to my dad and he seemed receptive. Here's hoping it all works out!
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jun 30, 2020 4:04 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How are you staying connected?
Replies: 4
Views: 541

Re: How are you staying connected?

all my friends have been long-distance for some time now, so I guess nothing has really changed for me
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jun 30, 2020 3:51 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Several months into Covid and social distancing, how is everyone doing?
Replies: 11
Views: 1941

Re: Several months into Covid and social distancing, how is everyone doing?

I was hit pretty hard at first. Nowadays I'm basically fine. I already kind of lived like this before, but it's all the little moments that I can no longer have and avenues of Socialization I don't have access to anymore even if I would never have done them in the first place that affects me. I've g...
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jun 30, 2020 6:53 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: how to get my dad to stop opening my mail?
Replies: 8
Views: 935

Re: how to get my dad to stop opening my mail?

I think it may be just force of habit. He opens all the mail that comes through and maybe he's just not making a distinction. I really don't think there's any malice involved.
by bikinksterboy
Mon Jun 29, 2020 8:55 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: How has your gender expression evolved?
Replies: 17
Views: 8789

Re: How has your gender expression evolved?

recently I've also started playing around with more traditional masculine expressions like jackets. that's been fun.
by bikinksterboy
Mon Jun 29, 2020 8:49 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: How is Everyone?
Replies: 7
Views: 1295

Re: How is Everyone?

today was honestly kinda stressful but I also relieved a lot of stress and got some important work done so that in the long term I can be less stressed
by bikinksterboy
Mon Jun 29, 2020 8:37 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: POSITIVE TOPIC
Replies: 9
Views: 1357

Re: POSITIVE TOPIC

I'm gonna start running a game of Vampire: The Masquerade for my friends soon!
by bikinksterboy
Mon Jun 29, 2020 8:24 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: dental dam for rimming?
Replies: 1
Views: 491

dental dam for rimming?

how would protection work for rim jobs, analingus, butt licking, all that? especially if the tongue goes deeper in?
by bikinksterboy
Mon Jun 29, 2020 6:38 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: how to get my dad to stop opening my mail?
Replies: 8
Views: 935

how to get my dad to stop opening my mail?

I'm a legal adult, but I still live with my parents. On occasion, I've ordered "adult" items online and had them shipped to my home. This usually isn't an issue as most of my online orders tend to be more tame, but one time recently, I ordered a sex toy and my dad apparently opened the pac...
by bikinksterboy
Wed Apr 22, 2020 6:00 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: collar shopping
Replies: 1
Views: 535

collar shopping

When shopping for a BDSM collar, should I try my luck with sellers on etsy and other online stores, or should I just wait until I can go to a store in person to try one on? I'm worried I might get something that doesn't fit and be stuck because some of these shops don't offer returns
by bikinksterboy
Thu Apr 09, 2020 6:06 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: What are...
Replies: 11
Views: 4289

Re: What are...

I've started using twitter a lot more also
by bikinksterboy
Thu Apr 09, 2020 5:59 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: "legal" excitement - did anyone else get this?
Replies: 3
Views: 787

Re: "legal" excitement - did anyone else get this?

that kinda went into a bit of a tangent, but I've definitely gone into all this and know what I do and don't like/want. I have done some things as well before I turned 18 that are probably illegal that I won't go into because of this site's policies, so I have some experience by this point. Your adv...
by bikinksterboy
Thu Apr 09, 2020 5:48 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: I don’t think I can vote for Joe Biden in good conscious
Replies: 23
Views: 2274

Re: I don’t think I can vote for Joe Biden in good conscious

AFAIK Bernie hasn't actually dropped out. he's just suspended his campaign. he is still in the race though.
by bikinksterboy
Thu Apr 09, 2020 3:33 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: If You're Celebrating Pride, How are You Celebrating It?
Replies: 5
Views: 1874

Re: If You're Celebrating Pride, How are You Celebrating It?

kinda bummed thinking about how there probably won't be a pride this year :(
by bikinksterboy
Thu Apr 09, 2020 3:20 pm
Forum: Pregnancy and Parenting
Topic: What would you need in order to feel comfortable talking to your parents or guardians about sex?
Replies: 4
Views: 1969

Re: What would you need in order to feel comfortable talking to your parents or guardians about sex?

I think one thing my parents could do tho is generally get more informed about sex, and especially "kink" (I know Heather doesn't like that term but it applies here). They're not homophobic or anything, but, for instance, when my mother found my bondage rope she got very concerned, thinkin...
by bikinksterboy
Thu Apr 09, 2020 3:17 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How do you like to receive love/affection?
Replies: 12
Views: 1858

Re: How do you like to receive love/affection?

big dramatic declarations of love are also a very big thing for me. Maybe it's from my love of purple prose, but it just warms my heart so much <3

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