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by capablehippie
Sun Nov 05, 2017 6:39 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Meh Intercourse
Replies: 5
Views: 2270

Re: Meh Intercourse

Thanks for the input thewrit3r. We have tried different kinds of sex and enjoy them, we were just looking to try out intercourse too.
by capablehippie
Fri Nov 03, 2017 3:35 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Meh Intercourse
Replies: 5
Views: 2270

Re: Meh Intercourse

So, after a while those changes will happen and it will feel better? We used lube both times, we just used more the second time. I was very wet the second time because he had just done the oral sex on me for a considerable period of time. I was nervous even though I wanted to do it, and he was too. ...
by capablehippie
Thu Nov 02, 2017 8:32 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Meh Intercourse
Replies: 5
Views: 2270

Meh Intercourse

So. My boyfriend and I had intercourse for the first time recently. It was okay. It hurt when he went too far in, but that's all that was hurting, and whenever he accidentally did that, I just said it was too far and he pulled back a bit. So the first time was just getting used to things like that m...
by capablehippie
Thu Nov 02, 2017 6:56 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: What is Something You're Looking Forward To?
Replies: 19
Views: 10301

Re: What is Something You're Looking Forward To?

- performing in the school musical
- singing auditions
- Thanksgiving

I really like holidays, so I feel like fall is so dense with things to celebrate.
by capablehippie
Wed Sep 20, 2017 6:48 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Diva cup
Replies: 2
Views: 1579

Re: Diva cup

Thanks for the speedy answer! I'll go boil it right now!
by capablehippie
Wed Sep 20, 2017 6:03 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Diva cup
Replies: 2
Views: 1579

Diva cup

I have two questions. 1. I accidentally dropped my cup in the toilet (right after I flushed, so there was just water in there), and I picked it up right away and washed it with hot water and unscented ivory soap, what I usually use to wash it. Do I need to do anything else to sanitize it after dropp...
by capablehippie
Tue Jul 25, 2017 5:56 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Relationship not going great
Replies: 23
Views: 8617

Re: Relationship not going great

Okay, that's what I'll do then. I'll make it 2 weeks from last Sunday. Thanks for all your considerate advice everyone. It was helpful just to talk things out, too.
by capablehippie
Sun Jul 23, 2017 2:20 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Relationship not going great
Replies: 23
Views: 8617

Re: Relationship not going great

No, that was just for this particular thing. I still think I want to give things another try. Maybe I should set a specific amount of time, like 2 or 3 weeks, to try to fix things. I've been going back and forth all summer... And if we do break up, I want some summer left to myself and I want some t...
by capablehippie
Sat Jul 22, 2017 6:31 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Relationship not going great
Replies: 23
Views: 8617

Re: Relationship not going great

Yes, that discussion was the first of at least a few. I was told by someone I trust that if I want to fix the relationship, that I have to accept my boyfriend and myself as we are, and then I won't be disappointed by him anymore. I told my boyfriend about this and said that I would try. I know that ...
by capablehippie
Mon Jul 17, 2017 6:39 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Relationship not going great
Replies: 23
Views: 8617

Re: Relationship not going great

In general, they've been stressful. It was a discussion with vague plans.
by capablehippie
Mon Jul 17, 2017 3:56 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Relationship not going great
Replies: 23
Views: 8617

Re: Relationship not going great

Well, now we've started trying to work it out and he says he wants to have sex...
by capablehippie
Mon Jul 17, 2017 5:45 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Relationship not going great
Replies: 23
Views: 8617

Re: Relationship not going great

Also, I'm afraid to be alone after so long. I still have my girl friends, but I've put up walls with them over the last year, and I don't know if I still want to be friends with them like we were before.
by capablehippie
Mon Jul 17, 2017 5:36 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Relationship not going great
Replies: 23
Views: 8617

Re: Relationship not going great

I don't want to resent him or regret our relationship, because he's been my best friend and we've been there for each other, and that relationship will probably continue in some way. But I feel like he stole the perfect high school sweethearts relationship from me. That's selfish, I know. He seems p...
by capablehippie
Mon Jul 03, 2017 6:15 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Relationship not going great
Replies: 23
Views: 8617

Re: Relationship not going great

Now I'm the one who made you wait, sorry. This week we had 2 good days, and they were really good. We had one okay day. And we had one awful fight. This has kind of been the pattern recently. Looking at it all laid out like that, it's not something I want to keep going with, but in those good days i...
by capablehippie
Sun Jun 25, 2017 6:16 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Relationship not going great
Replies: 23
Views: 8617

Re: Relationship not going great

Okay, I appreciate your thoughtfulness. I'll do the same.
by capablehippie
Sun Jun 25, 2017 4:42 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Relationship not going great
Replies: 23
Views: 8617

Re: Relationship not going great

Thank you for talking with me. I've talked to him about honestly wanting to see him more and how much he's working, and he pretty much just says that he can't come and see me all the time and he does want to spend time with me even though he got multiple jobs for the summer. I still bug him about it...
by capablehippie
Sun Jun 25, 2017 3:11 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Relationship not going great
Replies: 23
Views: 8617

Re: Relationship not going great

Okay. Well, there were a few times when it was late at night and I didn't want to be alone, but we weren't really talking about anything and he went to bed. I probably should have just gone to bed too. Then there's that he can't just hang out after school or casually because he has strict parents an...
by capablehippie
Sun Jun 25, 2017 12:17 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Relationship not going great
Replies: 23
Views: 8617

Re: Relationship not going great

I guess I don't feel supported enough, but I know that I should feel supported because he cares about me and tries to help me, and does help me.
by capablehippie
Sun Jun 25, 2017 9:18 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Relationship not going great
Replies: 23
Views: 8617

Relationship not going great

Is it possible that I'm making my boyfriend feel like he isn't good enough because I don't feel good enough for him? We've been together for 2 1/2 years. We never used to fight at all. For a long time, the dynamic was that he wasn't doing so well (depression), and I would try my best to take care of...
by capablehippie
Mon May 15, 2017 12:11 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: Feminine underthings?
Replies: 35
Views: 11962

Re: Feminine underthings?

What I do with the panties I don't want my mom to see is wash them in the sink when she isn't home. Then I dry them with a combination of a hair dryer and wrapping them in a towel and stomping on it. Lace ones try in just a few minutes, so you don't need to be alone for long. I hope this helps!
by capablehippie
Sun May 14, 2017 7:38 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: Bisexual stereotypes
Replies: 3
Views: 3666

Re: Bisexual stereotypes

Yes, I agree. They are accepted, but not as actual relationships, just as sexy flings for men's pleasure. That makes sense.
by capablehippie
Sat May 13, 2017 1:43 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: Bisexual stereotypes
Replies: 3
Views: 3666

Re: Bisexual stereotypes

It ticks me off too, it can be really hard to find validation as a bisexual. I feel like people often compare being bisexual to the struggle of being gay in this society, and that makes it seem like not such a big deal. It can be a big deal, though, and it's like being straight, in terms of acceptan...
by capablehippie
Thu Apr 20, 2017 8:00 am
Forum: Bodies
Topic: male and masculine booty appreciation thread!
Replies: 2
Views: 3255

Re: male and masculine booty appreciation thread!

My boyfriend has a great butt, it's way better than mine.
by capablehippie
Tue Mar 21, 2017 1:58 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Sentimental Items
Replies: 11
Views: 3448

Re: Sentimental Items

Oh, I'm sorry to hear that :( I think I remember you posting about that before.
by capablehippie
Mon Mar 20, 2017 1:48 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Sentimental Items
Replies: 11
Views: 3448

Re: Sentimental Items

It's such a nice feeling to have that little piece of paper in my pocket, or to find one in a pair of jeans I haven't washed for a little while. I think I'll keep these notes for a really long time, no matter when the relationship ends. I'm sorry no notes were given back, that wouldn't feel good aft...

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