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by victoriajane
Sun May 17, 2015 3:09 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Regretting a threesome with my boyfriend
Replies: 16
Views: 40729

Re: Regretting a threesome with my boyfriend

That does sound good, thank you. I wouldn't consider her an ex and we both know that a sexual relationship with her won't be maintained for either of us, so I don't think it should be an issue. I did tell him that I'd appreciate if he didn't spend time with her alone and he already felt hesitant abo...
by victoriajane
Sun May 17, 2015 3:00 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Regretting a threesome with my boyfriend
Replies: 16
Views: 40729

Re: Regretting a threesome with my boyfriend

It's definitely something I'm planning on getting help for because I've been struggling with it for a while in general. Back to the issue, though, I also wanted to know your opinion on maintaining a relationship with the girl. My boyfriend and I both get along with her, but she really only talks to ...
by victoriajane
Sun May 17, 2015 2:55 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Regretting a threesome with my boyfriend
Replies: 16
Views: 40729

Re: Regretting a threesome with my boyfriend

I do struggle with anxiety and the stress of being home from college has amplified most things, but this is definitely one of the bigger issues I've had with anxiety and it's really the only time I've struggled with compulsive thoughts. In terms of space, it actually happened at a relatively good ti...
by victoriajane
Sun May 17, 2015 2:44 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Regretting a threesome with my boyfriend
Replies: 16
Views: 40729

Re: Regretting a threesome with my boyfriend

I think it's most important to address the feelings I'm having with myself first since that's the root of everything. My main issue is that sometimes (right now, for instance) I am okay and I am accepting of what happened and I feel fine. Other times, however, I start fixating on the negativity of t...
by victoriajane
Sun May 17, 2015 2:17 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Regretting a threesome with my boyfriend
Replies: 16
Views: 40729

Re: Regretting a threesome with my boyfriend

I do feel like I am being hard and unfair on myself. And I know that it takes 3 to have a threesome, but I just feel at fault for the way I'm feeling because I wish I had known sooner what the outcome would have been. I do understand that I had no idea that it would bother me to see him touch someon...
by victoriajane
Sun May 17, 2015 1:59 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Regretting a threesome with my boyfriend
Replies: 16
Views: 40729

Regretting a threesome with my boyfriend

So I'm an 18-year-old girl and I've always been a little curious about being with another a girl just because I find them beautiful and wanted to know what it would be like. My boyfriend is also a guy and inherently thinks the idea of a threesome is hot. A week ago, I suggested to him that we actual...