alrighty! thanks!

that sounds good!! thanks!

i guess one thing im unsure of is how i should like open or start the conversation. like if i should be like “hey can i ask you something it may be kinda weird and personal but hear me out” or something else entirely.

the only “bad” way they’ve reacted in situations like this is mainly my mom telling me im too young for certain things so ig im just worried thats gonna happen but i guess it would be a risk im willing to take. ill try to talk to them later and hopefully it goes well. do you have any ideas on what i...

hiya andy! thanks for your input and i’ll keep all those things in mind! im just worried they’ll say im too young for it or react badly mainly, so idrk how to ease that anxiety. as for what i said to my stepmom last time, i basically said that i was doing hormonal teen stuff and i made a mess, so id...

hey caitlin! thanks so much for the help! i’ll try to keep all of that in mind!! i guess one issue im having is that part of me feels like it would be weird to ask them even though i know its not and i also just dont know how/when to bring it up and idk what specifically i should say, like if i shou...

howdy!! long time no see. after a while i decided that i should probably revisit this site and ask a question (after cringing at past posts ive made lmao) my main issue currently is that ive been really really wanting a toy (specifically the fascination sleeve stroker by gendercat i think the name w...

ohh ok that makes sense! thanks! ive been kinda thinking back and i believe i did find myself sorta “attracted” to certain people and characters when i was little but i didn’t know if that was like “sexual attraction” or not (it also could’ve been just aesthetic or sensual attraction or something) s...

howdy! long time no see! i just came here to ask something rq bc im really not sure. what age does sexual attraction usually start? can like a little kid experience it (i dont ask that to be like weird or anything im just genuinely curious) or can it develop in like mid teens or something? ive been ...

howdy!! yeah you’re right. theres just so much internet discourse and people having some pretty iffy takes regarding sex that it starts to take a bit of a toll so its nice to have a sorta “reality check” every now and again lol. also yeah that makes sense!! i think im just gonna take some time to th...

hiya!! so basically ive been struggling a bit. mainly bc as ive been exploring my sexual identity ive had moments where im like “wait is it weird for me to wanna identify this way and am i too young?” for example i like wanna use top as a label for myself bc even tho i haven’t had partnered sex ik i...

thanks!!! apologies for having so many questions. its just kinda tricky bc some things i’ve experienced i haven’t seen covered or answered in any pre existing articles and such (not just here but in general), and im also pretty forgetful so sometimes i accidentally ask the same question a few times....

pff yeah for sure!! also yeah i think so too. im pretty sure it wasn’t self lubrication tho bc it was definitely pretty thin (like a watery consistency) and came out of my urethra and stuff in like little spurts almost? (like it wasn’t a huge gush of liquid but it also wasn’t just a little dribble i...

i’ll def do that more!! also kind of an update bc something happened and i dont think it warrants a whole new thread; so basically i was doing a good ol edging session, and when i was touching myself i suddenly like felt a build up of pressure (not like an orgasm but something else) and i felt liqui...

ohhh yeah that makes sense!! and yeah that is pretty similar to how i feel. it also doesn’t help that like its kinda been drilled into my mind that like “simultaneous internal and external stimulation makes you have better orgasms!! it makes you ejaculate!! its just generally superior!!!” etc etc wh...

hiya! that makes sense! thanks! in terms of the other thing, yeah that’s basically it. ig its also bc i see other people with vulvas able to fit more and ig i feel kinda insecure about the fact that i cant do that?? idk its weird bc i dont have any interest in being penetrated by someone else (in fa...

hiya! long time no see! ik ive asked ejaculation related questions like 50 times already, so apologies for that, but i just have one more for the time being (also i did look at some stuff here beforehand to see if that would answer my questions but i couldn’t really find anything so im just asking h...

oh crap im so sorry i forgot. i’ll be sure to do that from now on. i sincerely apologize for my carelessness. feel free to delete the og post if you want

hiya!! so on tiktok i came across a video from a sex educator talking about “female” ejaculation (i’ll just call it vulva ejaculation for the sake of this post) vs squirting, and how they’re different things. basically how vulva ejaculation is more thick and white and squirt is more liquidy and clea...

ohh ok thank you! i’ll definitely keep all that in mind in the future (aswell as reading the article you provided)!! also apologies if most of the time i give sorta short/very generic responses. a lot of the time its hard for me to think of words to respond to stuff like that and address everything ...

hiya sofi! i’ll definitely keep all that in mind, thanks!! honestly it doesn’t help too much that i see so much different info about all this. i used to follow a sex educator on tiktok (i dont follow them anymore bc i just realized their content made me feel kinda icky about myself and that i probab...

yeah you’re right. i guess it’s probably mainly dysphoria related. also partially bc a lot of people with my anatomy can do it but i cant (ik the stuff ya see in porn isn’t usually accurate at all but it still kinda gets me down)

apologies if im being kinda a downer. stuffs just tricky

hi!!

thanks!! honestly that kinda stinks bc i was really hoping it was something having to do with ejaculation bc i’ve really been wanting to do it and its been causing a decent amount of distress that i haven’t been able to. its not too huge of a deal tho, i’ll survive. thanks regardless!!

hi! so last night i had some amazing solo sex and when i reached orgasm it was extremely intense and it felt like something wanted to come out if that makes sense. like almost some sort of pressure down there, kinda felt like when you’re squeezing out a poop but involuntary and with my vulva/penis i...

ohh ok! i’ll keep all that in mind! thank you!!

thanks!!! i know i should be taking a break from discord but their status said something about how their kindness is being taken for granted or something. i’ve heard a similar thing before from someone who i think might’ve groomed me so idk if im actually doing that or if its more manipulation. most...