I actually managed to find a urogynecologist who has an opening next week, so I made notes on everything I want to share with her and will be bringing all this up! I feel so relieved! We've talked a bit about it before— she doesn't have spontaneous arousal as much as I do, which is kind of where the...

Hi Nicole - Thank you. It's a little discouraging because I have a urologist and a gynecologist, but because they're separate, they don't talk to each other so it's really hard to figure out exactly what's going on. Thank you though, it's helpful to hear that it's possible and I'm probably not psych...

Hi Siân! Sorry for such a late response - I wish there were a way to be notified when a new reply is posted! But some happy news--- after a lot of time, patience, and self-love, and plenty of working up to it I was able to fully insert a smaller-length dildo! It sounds silly to say, but I'm feeling ...

Is it possible or normal for the urethral opening to be pulled "into" or toward the vaginal opening during sex? I have some tissue around the outside of my urethra (also not sure if this is "normal" or, like, a prolapse) and noticed that when I was using a dildo, it wasn't there ...

Hi Elise! Thanks for the quick response and the insightful articles. I read through them, and I'm starting to feel a little bit more at ease. I think that part of my issue is with communication - maybe the other day, instead of saying nothing when my partner moved for the vibrator, instead I could h...

I have a difficult time with penetration in general, but I really want to experience being penetrated with a strap-on by my girlfriend. We just bought one and I used it on her the other day, and it was a lot of fun. I'll just use bullet points, since it's a bit easier to explain that way--- I'm fine...

Hello! I'm 23 and just started seeing a urologist for what she thinks is an overactive bladder, and I'm going to start pelvic floor PT for it next month. She's confident that it's a fixable issue, but it's going to take some time. I leak a little bit at various points throughout the day, so I'm alwa...