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by skzly
Fri May 06, 2022 11:53 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: sick of being a virgin
Replies: 9
Views: 732

Re: sick of being a virgin

hey, just here to give a positive update. i've given myself some time to think through things and remember what we spoke about in those counselling sessions for the similar issue. i feel like a i've got a really fresh perspective on it all now, and i'm setting boundaries between my fantasies and wha...
by skzly
Fri Apr 29, 2022 4:54 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: sick of being a virgin
Replies: 9
Views: 732

Re: sick of being a virgin

oh yeah i had counselling for a few months that i ended in February actually. i was very repressed because of my hyper-religious family and had a lot of shame because of my sexuality and childhood things that i've only recently been processing. but we mainly talked about masturbation because i was o...
by skzly
Fri Apr 29, 2022 3:16 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: sick of being a virgin
Replies: 9
Views: 732

Re: sick of being a virgin

hi, i was supposed to reply earlier, but thank you so much for your response. it was really reassuring, and i'm glad i had it for what almost happened tonight. i basically got really desperate and made an impulse decision to get tinder and find a guy to hook up with. and i did, i got to the point wh...
by skzly
Wed Apr 20, 2022 9:23 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: sick of being a virgin
Replies: 9
Views: 732

Re: sick of being a virgin

Hi, thanks for your reply! I think that you're right it wouldn't be the kind of experience I'm looking for. I think I'm just struggling to feel any form of validation right now, but I need to find away to be able to just depend on myself. easier said than done lol. longing for this kind of male vali...
by skzly
Mon Apr 11, 2022 3:36 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: sick of being a virgin
Replies: 9
Views: 732

sick of being a virgin

hello, i posted before on this site to get some guidance around my sexual identity, and i'm pretty confident and happy in saying i'm a lesbian now. however, i think i'm soon going to make a very non-lesbian and bad decision. i'm at uni and everyone around me is having a great time having sex and exp...
by skzly
Sat Jan 15, 2022 3:13 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: can i be a lesbian if im sexually attracted to guys?
Replies: 7
Views: 4724

Re: can i be a lesbian if im sexually attracted to guys?

hello again, i didn't reply for a while because i'm been doing some research and trying things out, i'm back with more questions lol. i'd love to find any kind of wlw media, films and written. i've spent years reading erotica but its only ever been mlm - which is where my original question stemmed f...
by skzly
Fri Dec 24, 2021 9:40 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: can i be a lesbian if im sexually attracted to guys?
Replies: 7
Views: 4724

Re: can i be a lesbian if im sexually attracted to guys?

hi, is there media that represents a more true reflection of lesbian sex? i would like to explore those kind of fantasies but i dont know where to start... as for the relgious guilt, yeah i have really struggled with it for a long time now - i don't want to trauma dump too much lol but my family is ...
by skzly
Sun Dec 19, 2021 5:49 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: can i be a lesbian if im sexually attracted to guys?
Replies: 7
Views: 4724

Re: can i be a lesbian if im sexually attracted to guys?

hi Urna, thank you so much for your reply! it's true that even my fantasies could suffer from comphet, and i really liked what you said about if a label makes me happy, it's mine, that's reassuring. as for lesbian sex being less fulfilling, my fantasies and preffered methods of maturation have alway...
by skzly
Sat Dec 18, 2021 6:22 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: can i be a lesbian if im sexually attracted to guys?
Replies: 7
Views: 4724

can i be a lesbian if im sexually attracted to guys?

i recently came to the conclusion that i am a lesbian. i thought i was bi for years, but from the experience i've had with both guys and girls, i know that getting close to girls makes me really happy and excited, but being intimate with guys makes me super anxious, uncomfortable and grossed out. i ...

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