Thank you for the advice. I read the page you sent which sounded like it could be good for me. I will try to make a sleeve if I can. I have a question about it I can get the gloves with pocket money and I can get a toilet roll tube but how do I use it? My willy is not big enough to fit a toilet role...

I think something has changed because when I masturbate there is a lot more and it goes further if that makes sense… I don’t have much privacy so I have to be careful nobody catches me but I’m not sure how I should clean up after? I use a tissue but Sometimes I can’t control it. Thank you and sorry ...

I’m not really sure how I could excuse myself because I couldn’t really think of an excuse if somebody asked me. I think I could think about something boring to help. When it happens I think it hurts because the skin on my willy is a bit tight and I’m being moved around a lot

I am going through puberty yeah I am 13. I do get random erections quite a lot but they do happen more when doing sports. When they happen I usually do start to think about sexual things but I also then have embarrassment that someone will notice. I also do a contact sport which makes the chance of ...

Lately when I have been doing any sort of sport I seem to get hard and feel a bit achy down there. Why does this happen and is there a way I can stop it?

I see. I don’t think I have been using them to masturbate to. I saw them a few hours before I masturbated. But would it be ok if I did look at them when I masturbated? Usually touching for me just feels normal when I get a bit naked so when I go to the bathroom or get a bath I’m not sure why but I t...

Yeah that’s ok. I just mean that If I saw a picture of someone and I liked it I would feel a bit guilty thinking about it later on. I don’t really know how to explain but I just feel wrong about it. It only really became a thing when I saw those drawings from the article a few days ago and I liked t...

I think I understand and it’s made me a bit more calm about everything. I think I do have a few sensitive areas around my body but they are mostly near my genitals like my balls. I also feel like my bum is quite sensitive which I notice when I’m cleaning myself. I get a tingly feeling but that is al...

Thanks Valerie I’m not quite sure what you mean about understanding what experiencing pleasure in my body looks like? I have thought about ways to help with my masturbation like thinking about a movie or someone I think looks nice and I think it helps a bit but it still takes me about 40 minutes so ...

Thanks for the other articles I found them hard to read as they get a bit complicated but also useful. I found some of it relatable to like the tingling feeling when I get aroused. My hearts starts to beat faster and it’s harder to control my breathing and my genitals change in my pants. It makes me...

Also for hair should I let it grow if it does? I knew about hair growing around the willy but what should I do about hair on the bum? Does that cause problems? Bit embarrassing sorry

Thank you for the reply. I read the links you sent and found them to be really useful. I learnt a bit about vaginas which I didn’t know that women also got so much hair although to be honest I haven’t really seen a vagina that I can think of. Thinking about it makes my heart go a bit faster though. ...

I have posted on here a bit ago about finding a place to get enough time to masturbate. I have found doing it in the bath and sometimes in my bed when I think it’s safe enough has been good although I still wish I could do it more often but I can’t because it takes me a long time to do it. My friend...

Thanks for the information again.

I’m glad there’s not something wrong then. I got frustrated with it sometimes on how long it would take. I’m comfortable with the way I do it now but I would like to learn something new, is there any advice for this?

Thanks so much! I will try the bath. When you say clean the tub afterwards is it best with just some clean water and a sponge? When I talked to my friend he said that he masturbates for about 10 minutes each time and does it about twice a day which got me a bit worried because it takes me about 40 m...

I messaged here a bit ago asking a few questions about masturbation. I have some more if that’s okay? I was planning on doing it with a friend a bit ago but we ended up just talking about it instead which made me curious. What is a good way of cleaning up afterwards? My friend says when he does it h...

Thank you for the advice. I spoke to my friend today at school in private and he said it would be fun to have a sleep over at his over the weekend and play games and do it. I think it would be fun also but I still feel a bit awkward to be naked in front of someone. It’s strange because one part of m...

Ok thank you. Next time I need the toilet I will try and see if I can do it in there. I think I will ask my friend tomorrow if he wants to do it after school

Thank you for the articles and advice. I found both articles to be very useful and interesting. And they make me want to explore it more often. It also makes me feel less bad about it which is good. I think I will still try the bathroom because at least it has a lock so I won’t be interrupted althou...

Thank you Emily. I would like to talk through how I feel about it if that’s ok. I could try in the bathroom the only problem is that I think I take a while like it usually takes me about 25 minutes but sometimes up to 45 is this a normal time? I am a bit paranoid if someone needed to use the toilet ...

Thanks Urna. The safest time is night but It still feels weird because my mum and sister is awake still when I go to bed, and they can go past my room quite a lot. I can still sometimes but I don’t feel relaxed. I haven’t done it in a bathroom before I don’t know if you meant my own bathroom or just...

Thank you for the reply. I have a room although it’s also used as a guest room for when we have guests. So a lot of the time I don’t have privacy and even when there is no body here my door doesn’t fully close. I live with my mum and older sister and I am way to embarrassed to talk to my mum about a...

Hello I am 13 and had a few questions about masturbation. Lately I’ve been wanting to do it about 2-3 times a day is this normal? I find that my skin is quite tight when I do it too so I’m not sure if the way I’m doing it is right. Also I find it hard to find privacy in my house, is there any good p...