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by iloveeveryone
Mon Jul 10, 2023 10:15 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: bruise on butt
Replies: 1
Views: 3373

bruise on butt

*mentions of blood* Heyy! For a long time (years) I've had this area between my buttocks, right on top of the butt crack which hurts when pressure is applied. Recently (for the last 10 days) there's been very slight bleeding in my underwear (but not in poop, and there's no pain) from my butt, but I ...
by iloveeveryone
Tue Aug 30, 2022 11:19 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: menstrual cup sterilization machine
Replies: 7
Views: 3681

Re: menstrual cup sterilization machine

Hello!!!

It is good! I used it once until now, next month will be my second time.

It is convenient because I don't have a microwave in college to boil the cup. And you just plug in the machine, put water in it and put the cup in to boil.
by iloveeveryone
Mon Jul 25, 2022 9:56 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: menstrual cup sterilization machine
Replies: 7
Views: 3681

Re: menstrual cup sterilization machine

Oh, okay! Thanks!
by iloveeveryone
Mon Jul 25, 2022 9:27 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: menstrual cup sterilization machine
Replies: 7
Views: 3681

Re: menstrual cup sterilization machine

Yes, that is true! Thank you! I think I will buy this Softcup company steamer on Amazon that seems to be good from reviews despite not having temperature information given. I need a machine like this if I want to use my cup in college! Should I take some more time to decide if I want to use this mac...
by iloveeveryone
Mon Jul 25, 2022 7:32 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: menstrual cup sterilization machine
Replies: 7
Views: 3681

menstrual cup sterilization machine

Hello!! I have questions about buying a sterilizer machine for my cup to use in college. 1. Is this "exposing to steam" method of cleaning, as good as actually putting the cup in boiling water? 2. The machine companies do not say to what temperature the water will boil and produce steam. I...
by iloveeveryone
Sat Jul 16, 2022 11:00 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: How to have this conversation
Replies: 2
Views: 2830

Re: How to have this conversation

Thank you so much! I will keep these things in mind. I am only a bit nervous that I might be shy to talk to this person and might not be able to say anything good at all, but I guess I just have to try. Also, I've never met a family who is going through a bad time like this, and I hope I don't feel ...
by iloveeveryone
Sat Jul 16, 2022 5:56 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: How to have this conversation
Replies: 2
Views: 2830

How to have this conversation

Hello, thank you so much! There is a conversation I need to have with a person nearly my age who I don't know well at all. It is a relative whose situation has become quite uncertain after his mother got cancer recently. We are going to meet their family and my dad wants me to see how he is doing, a...
by iloveeveryone
Mon Jul 11, 2022 11:03 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: questions about parents' masturbation/sex shame
Replies: 3
Views: 6214

Re: questions about parents' masturbation/sex shame

Thank you for saying these things! I do want to evaluate my feelings around this! I plan to do the work of removing masturbation shame on my own. I don't think talking to them is a good idea because I am sure they will be angry and grossed out, and don't know what they will do after this initial rea...
by iloveeveryone
Mon Jul 11, 2022 10:56 am
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: questions about parents' masturbation/sex shame
Replies: 3
Views: 6214

questions about parents' masturbation/sex shame

(contains description of incidents that can be triggering) Today I heard my mother talking to her sister about kids masturbating and implying that it is a very bad thing for kids to do. This made me remember two incidents from when I was 4-6 years old, when I received unfair consequences for masturb...
by iloveeveryone
Thu Apr 28, 2022 8:14 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I need help unpacking a personality-related and society-related problem of mine
Replies: 6
Views: 2462

Re: I need help unpacking a personality-related and society-related problem of mine

I just tried to talk to my parents about this. They were encouraging me to speak, and I had no idea this would happen but I broke down and couldn't say a single thing because my throat felt tight and I couldn't. I said I would write them a letter and I'm doing that right now, I want to finish it ton...
by iloveeveryone
Wed Apr 27, 2022 8:04 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I need help unpacking a personality-related and society-related problem of mine
Replies: 6
Views: 2462

Re: I need help unpacking a personality-related and society-related problem of mine

Yes! I will talk to my parents about how I feel. However, what would the goal of this conversation be? It's not to make them change their minds about their whole mindsets, or about the terms they've given us about being friends with V. Is it just to make them understand my point of view? No, we only...
by iloveeveryone
Wed Apr 27, 2022 10:26 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I need help unpacking a personality-related and society-related problem of mine
Replies: 6
Views: 2462

Re: I need help unpacking a personality-related and society-related problem of mine

My brain actually couldn't handle it and I forgot exactly what I want to say to my parents about this situation, argh. I guess my head will be clearer tomorrow? Sorry for the long thing and this postscript! Thank you!
by iloveeveryone
Wed Apr 27, 2022 10:20 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I need help unpacking a personality-related and society-related problem of mine
Replies: 6
Views: 2462

I need help unpacking a personality-related and society-related problem of mine

Hello! Thank you. This is a complicated subject for me that I haven't talked about yet, but bothers me and has been unfolding for at least a year and I need to talk about and today was the development in the situation that actually made me sit down and write this and express my feelings and ask for ...
by iloveeveryone
Fri Mar 18, 2022 9:20 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: I want this party to go well!
Replies: 4
Views: 3628

Re: I want this party to go well!

Yes, that's true! Thank you!!!
by iloveeveryone
Fri Mar 18, 2022 7:30 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: I want this party to go well!
Replies: 4
Views: 3628

Re: I want this party to go well!

Thank you so much! Yes, I do have people like that, I think that would make me feel less overwhelmed. But I really don't think my other old classmates feel awkward! They just seem happy to see each other and very talkative, and that makes me feel different and weird a lot of times, in my new school,...
by iloveeveryone
Thu Mar 10, 2022 8:29 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: I want this party to go well!
Replies: 4
Views: 3628

I want this party to go well!

Hi! Thank you. In one week I will be meeting all of my old 10th grade class in a party! I'm looking forward to seeing everyone. But I need help with the social, actually meeting -people part of it. I don't know why I feel so, so nervous of talking to people right now and this is being a big problem ...
by iloveeveryone
Sun Feb 06, 2022 10:35 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: can I use my underwear if someone else wore it once
Replies: 2
Views: 3795

can I use my underwear if someone else wore it once

Hi! Thank you!
My sibling wore my underwear one time so can I keep using it myself after washing it? Or should I stop using it? Can it be bad for someone if they wear someone else's underwear one time? :mrgreen: ;)
by iloveeveryone
Mon Jan 24, 2022 2:55 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: How to go about minor forms of patriarchy resistance
Replies: 1
Views: 892

How to go about minor forms of patriarchy resistance

Hi! Thank you! I've been reading articles about women "reclaiming public spaces", wearing what they want and going to public parks at night as an act of "undermining the sexist structure of (South Asian) society", and I want to start doing this too, in my general daily life! :evi...
by iloveeveryone
Fri Jan 14, 2022 8:49 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Why did I have a nightmare about sexual misconduct??
Replies: 3
Views: 3538

Re: Why did I have a nightmare about sexual misconduct??

Yes, that makes sense, thank you a lot! That time I was worried about why that was the content of the dream, but now I think that doesn't matter much, and doesn't say anything about me either! :D
by iloveeveryone
Thu Jan 13, 2022 6:00 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Why did I have a nightmare about sexual misconduct??
Replies: 3
Views: 3538

Why did I have a nightmare about sexual misconduct??

Hi, thank you. I just had a dream where a person I knew in the dream, was making me feel very, very uncomfortable and I cried and when I woke up in real life I was crying there too and the dream was so real and vivid and it really had a lot of elements and it was scary. I'm just very upset about hav...
by iloveeveryone
Thu Dec 30, 2021 10:43 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: how to be calmer in friendships?
Replies: 3
Views: 1817

Re: how to be calmer in friendships?

Oh! Yes, thank you! I will do that!
by iloveeveryone
Wed Dec 29, 2021 11:39 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: how to be calmer in friendships?
Replies: 3
Views: 1817

how to be calmer in friendships?

Hi! Thank you! So I've just made a new friend online from a class we both have, and I don't get many texts daily overall so I get really excited to talk when I get one from him (him being a boy does have something to do with it because that's who I'm mainly attracted to :shock: :( :roll: ) I know it...
by iloveeveryone
Mon Dec 27, 2021 9:00 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to balance loving my friends with not liking parts of them
Replies: 3
Views: 2376

Re: How to balance loving my friends with not liking parts of them

Thank you for telling me all those reactions are fine and I can choose what I want to do! I've been confused about these things. I will try to use these from next time!

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