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by Kittens
Thu May 21, 2015 12:42 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sex Ed Club?
Replies: 4
Views: 2148

Re: Sex Ed Club?

Thank you for the advice ashleah! All of these sound like great ideas, and I feel like I want to do a bit of everything :P I feel like education and opening up the conversation around sex ed is one of my primary goals. However, advocacy work interests me as well, but I'm not entirely sure how to go ...
by Kittens
Wed May 20, 2015 7:21 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sex Ed Club?
Replies: 4
Views: 2148

Sex Ed Club?

Hey there, So...I think I might be crazy, but I want to start a proactive sexual ed club at my high school. I want to do something a lot like what scarletteen does online, but as a club instead. I'm really excited by the idea, but I'm a little overwhelmed by the vastness of the topic and the potenti...
by Kittens
Fri Mar 20, 2015 9:29 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Is it safe for me to try this fantasy in real life?
Replies: 4
Views: 4256

Re: Is it safe for me to try this fantasy in real life?

Thank you for the reply Sam W, I really appreciate it. I think I'm going to try and talk to him about it today. It does help that some of the things I want are things, such as restraint and resistance play, I've tried before with him, just on a lower intensity level. I think that it might could help...
by Kittens
Fri Mar 20, 2015 7:58 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Therapy
Replies: 5
Views: 4057

Re: Therapy

Hey there, I want to say, too, that I admire you for being so strong and seeking out help for this issue. Often, it's admitting that you need help and the process of finding it that's the hardest part. :) I personally wouldn't be able to direct you to any places, but if you went to a healthcare prof...
by Kittens
Fri Mar 20, 2015 7:47 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Is it safe for me to try this fantasy in real life?
Replies: 4
Views: 4256

Re: Is it safe for me to try this fantasy in real life?

I talked to my boyfriend about it yesterday. He said that he'd love to try it with me as long as it's something that I'm comfortable with and want to do. I'm not that shy when it comes to talking about what I'd not want to happen, but when it comes to specific parts of my fantasies and talking about...
by Kittens
Thu Mar 19, 2015 9:34 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Is it safe for me to try this fantasy in real life?
Replies: 4
Views: 4256

Is it safe for me to try this fantasy in real life?

Hey there, Since I was a kid, I've had BDSM fantasies involving bondage, force, and, to some extent, humiliation. Nowadays, I've gotten to try some things with my partner such as spanking, light bondage, sensation play, pet play, etc. When we first discussed boundaries, I decided rape play was a sof...
by Kittens
Thu Mar 19, 2015 9:19 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: What were some incorrect things you believed about sex?
Replies: 4
Views: 4070

Re: What were some incorrect things you believed about sex?

My silliest false belief about sex was probably that sex is just a one time thing. All I ever heard about when I was a kid was about someone's "first time". I never knew anything about second, third, or however many times. So, I never really thought about what happened next. After I had se...
by Kittens
Thu Mar 12, 2015 1:49 pm
Forum: Pregnancy and Parenting
Topic: Family Culture & Sex
Replies: 1
Views: 5482

Re: Family Culture & Sex

1) What are some of the attitudes your family holds (especially parents/guardians) about sex and sexuality? The only parent I live with is my mom, and her attitude about sexuality is a little hard to explain. As far as sex in general goes, she has a "to each their own" view. Even though th...
by Kittens
Thu Mar 12, 2015 1:12 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Circumcision and body image
Replies: 8
Views: 5689

Re: Circumcision and body image

Hey there, Even though I'm a girl and, since I live in the U.S., have never been at risk of becoming circumcised I can understand why this would upset you. It was a part of your body and you didn't have the option to consent to it. There are reasons why this happens though, and hearing them may help...
by Kittens
Sat Feb 21, 2015 8:47 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Condoms for oral sex?
Replies: 5
Views: 2540

Re: Condoms for oral sex?

So it's just protection from another strand of HPV? I guess I thought it was something different because my doctor described all the different things it protected me against, but didn't say that they were all part of the same thing.
by Kittens
Sat Feb 21, 2015 8:45 pm
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: How do you comfort yourself?
Replies: 16
Views: 8174

Re: How do you comfort yourself?

Hey! Most of the things I do to help me with flashbacks are skills I learned in therapy. When you have a flashback, you can become completely unaware of the present world and can sometimes even think you feel/hear/taste/smell/see things that are a part of the past. For me I'll feel my abuser touchin...
by Kittens
Sat Feb 21, 2015 8:23 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Condoms for oral sex?
Replies: 5
Views: 2540

Re: Condoms for oral sex?

Okay, that makes since, thank you for the advice! And I have a version of the vaccine that protects me from things like genital warts as well, but I do understand that that's really not all that could potentially be transmitted orally. I'm sorry for the use of the word "clean", it's just w...
by Kittens
Sat Feb 21, 2015 8:14 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: How do I masturbate while being kinky with BDSM?
Replies: 6
Views: 95559

Re: How do I masturbate while being kinky with BDSM?

Hey there, I'm sorry you've been feeling so frustrated with this. There are some things you can do but first I want to tell you want you really should avoid. One of the rules of bondage is never leave a bound person in the room alone. Which means you need to be very safe with bondage on your own and...
by Kittens
Sat Feb 21, 2015 7:26 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Condoms for oral sex?
Replies: 5
Views: 2540

Condoms for oral sex?

Hey there, My boyfriend and I are in a committed monogamous relationship and both don't have any STIs. He got tested after his last partner and was clean, and hasn't been with anyone since, besides me. A couple months ago I got tested and I'm clean as well. (I am going to ask him to get tested again...
by Kittens
Fri Feb 20, 2015 11:11 am
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: How do you comfort yourself?
Replies: 16
Views: 8174

Re: How do you comfort yourself?

Hey there, I don't have as many nights like these as I used to. The therapy I've gotten has really helped me with my PTSD related to abuse and taught me better ways to cope with it. Sometimes I want to try and cope in not very good ways, but these are some of the things I do instead: I find that dis...
by Kittens
Fri Feb 20, 2015 10:43 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: What does "sexy" feel like to you?
Replies: 6
Views: 5716

Re: What does "sexy" feel like to you?

I actually haven't thought about the particular things that make me feel sexy, I think this is a neat question! So, sexy clothing like lace and corsets do make me feel sexy, but being naked in front of a mirror can make me feel sexy as well. Or being in an oversized sweater. If I like the way I look...
by Kittens
Fri Feb 20, 2015 10:30 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: How do you understand your own orientation?
Replies: 7
Views: 7450

Re: How do you understand your own orientation?

Before I was 13, I didn't really think about my sexual orientation that much. I think if anyone would've I asked me then I probably would have said I was straight. But I used to live in an extremely Southern Baptist Christian community known as west Tennassee and they weren't very accepting people. ...
by Kittens
Thu Feb 19, 2015 9:12 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Bdsm Interests
Replies: 1
Views: 1516

Bdsm Interests

Hey there, So I've know I've had interests in BDSM before I ever took an active interest in exploring my sexuality/sexual desires. However, now I have a partner that I love and trust completely and that is just as willing to try new things as I am! I've done a good bit of research about the topic, b...

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