I’m sorry I took so long to respond! Honestly at first I felt defeated. Like there was nothing I could do to fix my life. And once I felt that way, life felt still. Not happiness, not much sadness, because I was in this state of mind before, so I knew how life would be. But that feeling didn’t last ...

I’m so sorry I didn’t reply, I was going through a tough time, but I figured everything out! I accepted where I was at and realized what I needed to do to get to where I want to be. I’m doing a lot better. Thank you for being the only person to help me during this crazy time

I’m struggling with my relationships and I think I might slip back into a depression. My “friends” never really reach out; if we talk, it’s because I initiate. I’m never invited anywhere. And forget romantic love, that is so far from me. Two years back I cut off all my friends to find ones that prio...

School starts in 20 days for me and I feel so stressed about it. I'm waking up startled everyday remembering that the beginning of the school year is coming closer. I have few clothes to wear, only two pairs of jeans, a pair of sweat pants, and two zip up hoodies. All of my shirts either have paint ...

I don’t have any male friends right now. The last one I had did sexualize me, and said some things that made me feel weird. I didn’t ask for it, it surprised me and threw me off a little, but I didn’t really mind it that much either and just moved past it. Now that I think about it, maybe I just mis...

The best way I can explain it is: I want to feel desired, and the way most people I’m around seems to get that through being sexualized by male friends. I don’t actually want that, though. I just want a normal friendship free of sexualization at the same time. It just seems like everyone I’m around ...

Never mind, we solved it

So I’ve been having trouble in a friendship because it feels like it’s one sided. They’re my closest friend but my resentment towards them has been growing towards them since the time we were getting to know each other. I’ve ended friendships before because I didn’t feel wanted in them, and I felt l...

So I’ve been struggling with feeling desirable lately and I don’t have anyone to talk about this with. I brought it up to a friend earlier today, but mostly what I got was an “I’m sorry you feel that way” which doesn’t help me. To anyone that reads this, what do you think and what do you think I sho...

If you could refer me to a Planned Parenthood in my area I’d really appreciate that, my postal code is 07666. I don’t have a debit card but I do have cash. How much do you think an appointment would cost? And can I attend one without a parent knowing about it? And yes I would say your interpretation...

No I’ve never been to a sexual healthcare provider before. And I don’t think I can buy lube because I’m a minor. I mean I’m not excited when thinking about having sex. I wouldn’t really want to do it. Ideally I would have sex once every 2-3 weeks to satisfy my partner and my libido. I don’t think I ...

The reason I don’t really feel like my feelings aren’t romantic is because I compared my experience with others that have had feeling for their crushes and theirs aren’t so shallow I guess. I don’t really want to get to know them or be in a relationship with them. I asked my friend today identifies ...

I don’t really think of my sexual problems often but I had a dream yesterday that provoked it. I didn’t think much of it then but now I’ve had time to think about it and I’ve come to terms with my fear of having vaginismus. Not vaginismus itself and the fear of penetration but the fear of having the...

I currently identify as greyromantic and androromantic but I think I may be somewhat fully aro although I’m not sure. I’ve had a bunch of crushes growing up that would pass quickly or last a few years. I thought they were physically attractive and I even wanted to be friends with some of them but no...

Thank you for advice. I think I should just take me time and get more comfortable with my body and more relaxed so things can go more easily. I don't have anymore questions and again, thank you for your help!

So I'm 15 years old (I'm nonbinary and AFAB) and I've never fingered myself before. I've seen my vaginal hole four times before but that's it. I've never put a finger up there or even a tampon, I tried but I couldn't. I don't have an imperforate hymen, I have an annular hymen so that's not the issue...