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by lycheefan
Wed Nov 29, 2023 12:15 am
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: suddenly penetration is painful?! :(
Replies: 1
Views: 5195

suddenly penetration is painful?! :(

hey its been so long since i posted here hahaha but a few days ago i was using my dildo as per usual and it hurt to insert for some reason :( TMI it is a little big girth wise but i've never had any issues with it before... like despite putting it in maybe 1 or 2 inches it hurts still. this pain has...
by lycheefan
Tue Mar 07, 2023 7:26 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: tri lo question
Replies: 1
Views: 6458

tri lo question

ok sorry i feel like this is a dumb question but recently i just got switched from tri lo estarylla to tri lo mili. is there a difference between the two or are they exactly the same T_T thank you
by lycheefan
Sun Jan 29, 2023 11:53 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: cramping on first day of placebo pills
Replies: 1
Views: 1999

cramping on first day of placebo pills

pretty much as title says, ive been on the combo pill for about a year and usually i bleed the 4th or 5th day in but its been getting earlier like around the 3rd day in :P im on the first placebo day and im already getting cramping which usually starts the 2nd or 3rd day >_< is it normal for the day...
by lycheefan
Mon Oct 17, 2022 6:11 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: diarrhea after pill
Replies: 4
Views: 2749

Re: diarrhea after pill

hi! yeah, im on the combo pill- and no, i havent had diarrhea this soon after taking it before so i wasnt sure. i dont think ill take the day 3 pill tonight
by lycheefan
Mon Oct 17, 2022 6:04 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: diarrhea after pill
Replies: 4
Views: 2749

Re: diarrhea after pill

after looking it up it is not diarrhea just one loose stool but im still not sure
by lycheefan
Mon Oct 17, 2022 5:41 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: diarrhea after pill
Replies: 4
Views: 2749

diarrhea after pill

ok just need an opinion on this but im on the second day of my pill pack and had diarrhea a little over 3 hours after taking the pill- should i take another to be safe? thank you
by lycheefan
Mon Aug 22, 2022 2:24 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: safe ideas
Replies: 1
Views: 1014

safe ideas

i dont know if this is the right place to ask but i was curious about non piv ideas for me and my s/o. i don't wanna have sex for a while because of anxiety issues im trying to get worked out D: does anyone have fun ideas that we could try for the time being? im open to anything, thank you
by lycheefan
Wed Aug 17, 2022 5:12 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: withdrawal bleed part 2
Replies: 1
Views: 989

withdrawal bleed part 2

since i missed 2 pills in the last week, why is it recommended to skip the placebo week all together? ive seen it in a few sources but no explanation why
by lycheefan
Mon Aug 15, 2022 12:49 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: withdrawal bleed
Replies: 1
Views: 888

withdrawal bleed

ok so on monday i missed a pill so took it on tuesday along with tuesdays pill, and then on friday i missed a pill and took it on saturday with saturdays pill. two questions 1. does effectiveness now go down? 2. can i expect my withdrawal bleed to arrive as it normally does im using the combo pill t...
by lycheefan
Sat Aug 13, 2022 6:34 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: does weight affect birth control
Replies: 1
Views: 1189

does weight affect birth control

pretty much the title, just curious if it affects specifically combo pill. thank you
by lycheefan
Sat May 14, 2022 9:23 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: broke up with my bf
Replies: 5
Views: 1501

Re: broke up with my bf

i went to the mall with my mom and got snacks + a sweater :C what do i do if i feel like i regret it because i dont know if its just me not liking the new feeling or if it couldve actually worked..? i just dont know what to do and i feel like itd be shitty to just be like hey umm could we maybe get ...
by lycheefan
Fri May 13, 2022 8:24 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: broke up with my bf
Replies: 5
Views: 1501

Re: broke up with my bf

my mom and brother are supportive right now but it still really hurts T_T i just dont want to say goodbye even though i know it's for the best, i wish i could get over it really fast but i know its unrealistic
by lycheefan
Thu May 12, 2022 6:10 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: broke up with my bf
Replies: 5
Views: 1501

broke up with my bf

finally broke up with him and im happy i did it but im still so fucking upset about it this sucks :C i know he wasnt a great person for me but i hate knowing that someone so close is just gone now and he was my first real love i hate this
by lycheefan
Tue Apr 05, 2022 2:39 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: distrust
Replies: 8
Views: 1130

Re: distrust

no.. he said he wanted to break up and 2 hours later regretted it. the break itself only lasted for a few days so we're "back together" but we're probably going to take a break again soon, because i need to re-evaluate some aspects of our relationship. i dont know how to tell him to get ov...
by lycheefan
Tue Apr 05, 2022 2:14 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: distrust
Replies: 8
Views: 1130

Re: distrust

so for clarification-- me not telling him for 3 months wasnt wrong, right? given i had my (appropriate) reasons. he makes it seem like i was cheating :oops:
by lycheefan
Tue Apr 05, 2022 2:00 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: distrust
Replies: 8
Views: 1130

Re: distrust

ok i know i just replied but like. he says hes lost oh so much trust for me but i dont even get it. i didnt lie to him, he never asked me about it (shit he never asked me about anything sexual anyways :? ) and its my business. thank you so much for honestly helping me realize im not wrong here becau...
by lycheefan
Tue Apr 05, 2022 1:56 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: distrust
Replies: 8
Views: 1130

Re: distrust

holy shit. thank you so much honestly i felt like i was going crazy and i was like am i really in the wrong for this?? i have explained to him why i kept it from him- the reason being that i was scared of ruining our relationship and upsetting him. ive explained to him that it is my body, my money, ...
by lycheefan
Tue Apr 05, 2022 12:49 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: distrust
Replies: 8
Views: 1130

distrust

ok so this requires a little bit of backstory my boyfriend has always hated the idea of me using a vibrator (which is not fair on its own..) but in december i got myself another one and only told him a few days ago. he knew i had a bullet vibrator and we brought up the topic, so i told him i got mys...
by lycheefan
Thu Mar 17, 2022 4:00 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: question about fingering
Replies: 1
Views: 1046

question about fingering

ok i thought of this question a while back and realized i never understood why this happened but like.. before losing my virginity fingering felt good but after losing it fingering doesnt really feel like anything :C i dont know if theres a link between the two or not
by lycheefan
Wed Mar 16, 2022 2:15 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: advice for a breakup/break
Replies: 2
Views: 993

Re: advice for a breakup/break

thank you!! i'll definitely read through those. as for how im feeling, when we first talked about it i was really upset.. talked to some friends and it helped. that was yesterday and im feeling a little better but it still sucks because honestly.. he was probably the first person ive ever really bee...
by lycheefan
Wed Mar 16, 2022 1:21 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: advice for a breakup/break
Replies: 2
Views: 993

advice for a breakup/break

my boyfriend and i agreed to take a break for some time... but i sort of need advice on how to go about this t_t i don't know if i should stop talking to him completely during it? or if i should just treat him like a friend? any articles/ advice is greatly appreciated and i can answer any questions ...
by lycheefan
Wed Feb 02, 2022 2:41 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: quick question
Replies: 3
Views: 1214

Re: quick question

ok another HAHA is it normal that like.. there isnt a ton of bleeding, i need a pad every few hours but in comparison there are a lot of clots? usually its heavy with both but i know its supposed to make your period lighter so i think that might be it
by lycheefan
Tue Feb 01, 2022 10:47 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: quick question
Replies: 3
Views: 1214

quick question

im on my placebo week (day 3) and ive been having cramping since last night nonstop with light spotting t_t its not unbearable just noticeable.. is this normal? thank youu
by lycheefan
Wed Jan 05, 2022 11:30 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: blood clots and birth control
Replies: 1
Views: 1335

blood clots and birth control

just a question, ive noticed that this withdrawal bleed ive gotten more clots and what looks almost like tissue? is this normal? just light cramps accompanying it. thank you
(also started a new birth control if that has anything to do with it- combo pill)
by lycheefan
Wed Dec 29, 2021 8:21 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: quick question
Replies: 1
Views: 779

quick question

if i get a withdrawal bleed, that means im not pregnant, right? when i look it up i get really mixed answers t_t it was pretty heavy but i know its not a real period so im kind of confused