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- by Latha
- Sun Mar 24, 2024 4:08 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Sexting????? Idk I’m just paranoid.
- Replies: 4
- Views: 227
Hi Ginger, Those are understandable fears. Since we can't control everything, there is always a chance that someone we trust could hurt us. But since you have reasons to believe this person is who they say they are, I think it is fair for you to trust your judgment here. Plenty of people develop goo...
- by Latha
- Sun Mar 24, 2024 3:50 am
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: Understanding pronouns is hard
- Replies: 3
- Views: 119
Hi Mika.m! This is a great question. More can be said about this, but I think that people from cultures with gendered pronouns are reminded of how people see their gender quite often, through the pronouns that people use for them. They have to experiment to find language that is comfortable for them...
- by Latha
- Sun Mar 24, 2024 3:42 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Men getting hard ?
- Replies: 12
- Views: 265
Hi chelsealewis, Ah, I understand why you would want more perspectives- that would be my first instinct too. Would you like to tell us more about this relationship? Maybe we can untangle the behavior that was making you confused. It is okay if you're not confident now. It can take a lot of time, exp...
- by Latha
- Sun Mar 24, 2024 3:35 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Feeling insecure about attractiveness
- Replies: 7
- Views: 189
Hi there, Asking Queries! Don't worry, you can talk about dysphoria. Thanks for the content warning though, it may help someone who needs it. I understand how it would be hard to fight these sorts of thoughts if you don't feel like you have any actual evidence that people are attracted to you. You k...
- by Latha
- Sun Mar 24, 2024 3:23 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Not sure if it’s a date
- Replies: 4
- Views: 179
Hi Terence,
I think you could ask. It is mature to make sure you're both on the same page and that there are no misunderstandings.
It might be a good idea to think about your feelings on this subject. Do you want this to be a date, or would you prefer to go as friends?
- by Latha
- Sun Mar 24, 2024 3:14 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Men getting hard ?
- Replies: 12
- Views: 265
Hi Chelsealewis, welcome to the boards! I am not a straight boy, but maybe I could offer you some advice. If five boys answered your question, you would only have the answers of five individual boys. You might find some patterns, but you wouldn't be able to draw very good conclusions about all boys....
- by Latha
- Sun Mar 24, 2024 3:06 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Dealing with afterglow
- Replies: 1
- Views: 124
Hi there, name_pending, Oh no- it is good that you have an explanation and that you can feel satisfied now, but I'm sorry your depression was really bad! If you want that afterglow to go away sooner, maybe you could try switching to another activity- you could take a cool bath, exercise, or play a g...
- by Latha
- Sun Mar 24, 2024 3:05 am
- Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
- Topic: Morality police is confusing
- Replies: 4
- Views: 151
Hi there, Mika.m You're right, the morality police don't just hurt women- they hurt anyone who opposes their power or doesn't want to live under their strict moral code. That includes men and trans people. When people discuss the problems with the police, I think they focus on women for two reasons:...
- by Latha
- Sun Mar 24, 2024 3:04 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Feeling being rude and offensive
- Replies: 7
- Views: 200
Hi Mika.m, It is not bad or immoral to see someone and notice a physical feature that you like. But when we're in public, it is important to make sure we're not creating significant discomfort for other people. For example, it would be a little rude to stare, because it might make her feel self-cons...
- by Latha
- Sun Mar 24, 2024 3:00 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Is double vaginal penetration even possible?
- Replies: 2
- Views: 111
Hi Coreylore, welcome to the boards! Double vaginal penetration is biologically possible, but it is not for everyone, and requires a great deal of patience and preparation to do without pain. There are a couple of things that impact how difficult double penetration is, including the size of the obje...
- by Latha
- Sat Mar 23, 2024 2:51 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: I am scared of having sex with my girlfriend but I really want to!
- Replies: 2
- Views: 148
Hi there, Unr3alun3arth! Oof, these types of anxieties can be such strange creatures. You know that you're ready, you have a partner that you care about, it doesn't seem like she is putting pressure on you, and you know that you can get better with practice. Yet, you're worried. You value your relat...
- by Latha
- Fri Mar 22, 2024 1:36 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Why can’t I orgasm?
- Replies: 9
- Views: 487
Hi there, Itsmemimsey
Your description doesn't sound concerning... it could be vaginal lubrication. Do you think that sounds right?
- by Latha
- Fri Mar 22, 2024 1:35 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: How to find partner as an introvert and shy
- Replies: 9
- Views: 411
Hi there, Mika.m Of the hobbies that you've mentioned, I think storytelling and philosophy might be most helpful for meeting other people. Maybe you could attend lectures or a writing club. If you enjoy reading as well, you could join a book club. I think you can look for offline and online options ...
- by Latha
- Sat Mar 16, 2024 10:38 pm
- Forum: Sexual Identity
- Topic: How to understand?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 257
Hi there, PomPom- welcome to the boards! Don't worry about any mistakes, I can understand you just fine. I can see that you're really worried about this. Before I try to address your concerns about attraction, I want to assure you of something: you can take as long as you need to figure out your sex...
- by Latha
- Sat Mar 16, 2024 10:24 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: 20 year old female, issues with masturbating and finishing for months
- Replies: 9
- Views: 1543
Hi there, PleaseHelpASAP All of this does seem so frustrating- I understand why you want that good feeling to last a little longer, and I'm sorry you're having difficulties. You've talked about trying clitoral stimulation and fingering, but have you also tried touching other parts of your body? Plea...
- by Latha
- Sat Mar 16, 2024 2:23 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: How do I let go of intense shame surrounding my kinks?
- Replies: 1
- Views: 160
Hi there, Hi I understand why you're worried about this, but I don't think that you are a gross person and I don't think it is particularly strange that you searched for such scenes. You said it yourself: you were looking for CBT and castratrix porn, but you didn't know how to find it. In the course...
- by Latha
- Sat Mar 16, 2024 12:02 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Sexual discussion
- Replies: 3
- Views: 297
Hi there, Dollybeats- welcome to the boards!
Would you tell us a bit more about what you feel when you try to finger yourself? Do you notice any pain or tightness? How is it different from when your boyfriend fingers you?
- by Latha
- Fri Mar 15, 2024 1:57 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Experimenting With Butt Plugs
- Replies: 2
- Views: 369
Hi there, CatHaru26 Oof, I understand how that would be a bummer! I think you're doing the right thing by focusing on going slow and using lots of lube. You may just need some more time to get used to these new sensations. On that note, I'm wondering if there is anything about the sensations from th...
- by Latha
- Sat Mar 09, 2024 1:58 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Squirting??
- Replies: 9
- Views: 1393
Hi Viennakuko, I want to gently challenge this idea you have about the 'real thing'. Orgasms have a lot of great publicity, so I understand why you would want to experience strong ones. But they are not necessarily the most important part of sex- after all, they only last for a few seconds. The sati...
- by Latha
- Fri Mar 08, 2024 2:03 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: How to manage Gender Dysphoria during Solitary Sexual Activities?
- Replies: 9
- Views: 559
Hi Demigirl09, I understand why you would have that thought. We live in cisnormative societies that tell us that girls must have a certain type of body. But I think you and I know that isn't true. Some girls ejaculate like you do, so girls can produce semen. I know it isn't always easy to get this k...
- by Latha
- Sun Mar 03, 2024 2:18 am
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: Saddened (disproportionately) by portrayal of my favourite characters in fanfic
- Replies: 11
- Views: 1315
Hi Laayiv, You've touched upon this tendency of yours to fixate on things that feel wrong to you before. Do you think this might be related to the mental health difficulties that you've mentioned? I've noticed that you can be very self-deprecating, like you think very little of yourself. I understan...
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