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by Elias
Sat Oct 16, 2021 10:59 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: My best friend, my crush, and me
Replies: 9
Views: 10245

Re: My best friend, my crush, and me

Long time no see, I thought it was time for an update My feelings didn't go away after several months and it got to the point where my best friend started feeling uncomfortable, so we took some time away from each other during which I discovered something sort of neat. I have this method of letting ...
by Elias
Sat Oct 16, 2021 10:36 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Did I squirt?
Replies: 4
Views: 937

Re: Did I squirt?

Hiya,

It's the day after now and everything has dried long ago. It still doesn't smell even remotely close to urine so I'll assume it was squirting. Off to do the laundry now.
by Elias
Sat Oct 16, 2021 10:32 am
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: discovering past assault
Replies: 3
Views: 585

Re: discovering past assault

it sounds like you're doing a really good job building a support network for yourself when it comes to dealing with trauma and with the effects of mental illness I don't know if it's enough, I've got friends with varying experiences with trauma and healthcare, and several of the professionals I am ...
by Elias
Fri Oct 15, 2021 6:50 pm
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: discovering past assault
Replies: 3
Views: 585

discovering past assault

So I have intrusive thoughts, terrible ones, about pedophilia and rape, both about being the victim or the perpetrator, and I've never addressed it as explicitly as in the sentence I just wrote. (Once in art therapy when I was maybe 16 and I mentioned intrusive thoughts my art therapist started talk...
by Elias
Fri Oct 15, 2021 6:06 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Did I squirt?
Replies: 4
Views: 937

Did I squirt?

So I was having a go at it and during my orgasm I felt myself leaking, my boxers are wet and I stained my bedsheet. Now I'm panicking 'cause if I peed the bed it'll be a hard time covering up since I'm at my parents' place. It doesn't really smell like anything but vagina but I'm still freaking out....
by Elias
Mon Jun 07, 2021 9:49 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: My best friend, my crush, and me
Replies: 9
Views: 10245

Re: My best friend, my crush, and me

So, we met up last Saturday! We took a walk and hung out at xis apartment, it was too warm to do much else. We were both very excited and nervous, but it was lovely to see each other. We talked and I cried a bunch. Xe assured me that my feelings for xim are not a bother at all, like xe has previousl...
by Elias
Thu Jun 03, 2021 5:10 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: My best friend, my crush, and me
Replies: 9
Views: 10245

Re: My best friend, my crush, and me

I've been thinking for a while about the advice I've gotten on this board. I definitely think Mo makes a good point about seeking out and maintaining other relationships, the isolation that comes with being in a pandemic sure does give a lot of room for my anxiety to spiral. I've been working on try...
by Elias
Sat May 15, 2021 1:04 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: My best friend, my crush, and me
Replies: 9
Views: 10245

Re: My best friend, my crush, and me

You might just need to hear it one more time from xem after you tell xem the truth When you say this, what exactly do you mean by "it"? I don't think now is a good time to step back, we're both in places where we need each others' support for different reasons, so if that and telling xim ...
by Elias
Sat May 08, 2021 6:22 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: My best friend, my crush, and me
Replies: 9
Views: 10245

My best friend, my crush, and me

My best friend and I met on Tinder. I don't think either of us were really expecting to get anything out of being there, but we clicked and as soon as xe told me what xis Discord name was and I messaged xim there instead, we both left Tinder as quickly as possible. At first we were just talking, and...
by Elias
Wed May 05, 2021 11:12 am
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Bottom growth
Replies: 1
Views: 4388

Bottom growth

Quick question since I can't find any information online, is there any way for people taking T to stimulate bottom growth?
by Elias
Fri Apr 30, 2021 1:21 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: I get overstimulated so easy when masturbating
Replies: 3
Views: 3585

Re: I get overstimulated so easy when masturbating

Thank you Siân for your reply, I must admit I found it very reassuring. I've had a look at the articles you linked and will take your advice into consideration, I'm sure with some time I'll figure it out!
by Elias
Fri Apr 30, 2021 5:22 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Trying to getting to know my vulva after ignoring it for years
Replies: 7
Views: 6898

Re: Trying to getting to know my vulva after ignoring it for years

Hi Elias, I'm late to the party here so probably you've already had the appointment but in case it's useful in the future there are two things you can ask for to make the speculum-insertion bit go easier. One is a smaller speculum, and the other is asking if you can insert it yourself :) That's rea...
by Elias
Thu Apr 29, 2021 4:14 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: I get overstimulated so easy when masturbating
Replies: 3
Views: 3585

I get overstimulated so easy when masturbating

I'm transmasc and have been on testosterone for one month. Before I was always too dysphoric to try to touch myself, so I have no experience whatsoever, but now the horniness that's common to experience while starting T is hitting and having bottom growth has lessened my dysphoria enough to try to m...
by Elias
Sat Apr 03, 2021 12:17 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Trying to getting to know my vulva after ignoring it for years
Replies: 7
Views: 6898

Re: Trying to getting to know my vulva after ignoring it for years

Booking an appointment sounds like a great plan! If you know the exam was painful last time, I would let them know that ahead of time so they can take whatever steps possible to make it more comfortable. I'll do that. Do you know what the word is for that plastic slidey thing they insert into the v...
by Elias
Fri Apr 02, 2021 6:15 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Trying to getting to know my vulva after ignoring it for years
Replies: 7
Views: 6898

Re: Trying to getting to know my vulva after ignoring it for years

Hi there Elias, welcome to Scarleteen. :) While it's normal to feel an occasional itch around the vulva, the same way any part of the body might have a brief itchy feeling at random from time to time, a persistent itching, especially if it's paired with sensitive or sore areas or an unusual smell, ...
by Elias
Fri Apr 02, 2021 4:21 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Trying to getting to know my vulva after ignoring it for years
Replies: 7
Views: 6898

Trying to getting to know my vulva after ignoring it for years

Hiya, I'm a transmasc fella who's been just about ignoring my genitals for years because of dysphoria, when it was at its worst I'd only ever acknowledge its existence when washing it, and wouldn't even touch it to scratch an itch. I've socially transitioned and just started T and feel more comforta...

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