me again! pardon my strange phrasing in the title. i genuinely have no idea how to describe this! so, my (afab) partner (amab) and i have noticed that when i becomes aroused, either by myself or with them, my chest seems to get…squishier? my breasts will LITERALLY CHANGE CONSISTENCY. we’ll be in the...

hello! here i am again. my relationship with my partner (both 17) is going well, and we are incredibly happy. our sex life is totally good too! we’re both switches, so during sexual situations it’s more than likely than one of us will be more dominant. sometimes we do that, and sometimes we both are...

that makes sense! people write about it in weird ways, and that coupled with the bad relationships i’ve been surrounded by made me worried about how relationships really are.
this makes me feel a lot better! thank you!

accidentally erased my entire post so here we go again: hi! me again. my partner (17) and i (17 on thursday! :D ) have been in a really healthy, loving relationship since december. we’ve known each other as close friends for a loooong time before, and had much needed personal character development b...

not yet...our last conversation was about top surgery concerns but we’ve taken care of that entirely. this time, i’ll make sure to write down the concerns i have with possible ADHD and how i can deal with that, so i can talk about that next session. the ADHD symptoms are in other parts of my life an...

hi! seems as though i’m posting here a lot. maybe that’s a good thing! for context, my libido is INCREDIBLY high and i’m the most hypersexual person i know. this is due to a few different things, and i’ve never considered it an issue (just something to discipline myself with when i make impulsive de...

my therapist and i have briefly talked about a possibly ADHD diagnosis, and i’ve been meaning to bring it up again. i think talking to her about it more could be really insightful for me. i think making agreements is manageable. we have a movie list we can finally start ticking off, or we can leave ...

i’ve never had any other partners, and never masturbated before testosterone. my sex drive had already increased, which is what caused me to start being active with myself anyways. i find myself making bad impulsive decisions with many different things, but this is an aspect of my life that’s import...

it may be a compulsivity issue...before i had the implant, we used protection (and still do ofc!), but i’d often find myself just doing things without it and we’d both have an issue speaking up about it for some reason. it’s not that we didn’t wanna use protection, because we both get anxious abt th...

i know it makes them uncomfortable, even if we “stay quiet”. it feels disrespectful, and for some reason we can’t stop ourselves once we get it going. sometimes they hear, sometimes they don’t, but it all feels disrespectful to me. especially when my mother is home, because she explicitly said Don’t...

my partner and i have been in a romantic relationship for a few months, and close friends for a few years. we’re incredibly happy together, and we work really hard to make sure our relationship stays happy and healthy in as many ways as we can. we started doing sexual things almost immediately after...

I’ll be sure to check those articles out.
Thank you so much for all of your help! It’s very much appreciated. We’ll be sure to take things slowly and carefully with this kinda stuff to make sure we’re being safe and doing things right! Thank you again!

That makes sense...I’ll be sure to try that out soon! We HAVE discussed the fact that I won’t be able to feel it much if I’m using a strap-on but mostly in terms of my own enjoyment. I didn’t think about it that way! Being sexually active as trans minors is for sure a little bit frustrating at times...

I haven’t trimmed my nails yet, but he’s done exploring on his own with lubed fingers and a dildo (meant for vaginas and doesn’t have a flared base, so he’s extra careful with it. not ideal of course) as well. Because the dildo isn’t meant for anal and isn’t the best choice here, I’m hesitant to mak...

Hello! My (FtX) boyfriend (MtX) and i have a pretty good sex life as of right now. It may be a bit excessive, but that can be easily managed. When we engage in intercourse, it’s quite easy for them to put a condom on. They are AMAB. But, I am AFAB and it isn’t that easy for me. We’re both very submi...