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by idk anymore
Fri Dec 24, 2021 8:48 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: how to move on
Replies: 9
Views: 1164

Re: how to move on

I think that I guess it's worth a try. I just don't know what they could possibly tell me that I haven't heard countless times.
by idk anymore
Thu Dec 23, 2021 4:55 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: how to move on
Replies: 9
Views: 1164

Re: how to move on

no not really
by idk anymore
Wed Dec 22, 2021 6:42 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: how to move on
Replies: 9
Views: 1164

Re: how to move on

My therapist helps me with unsafe thoughts and dealing with difficulties with mu family.

I don't feel comfortable because I'm an awkward teenager and it feels strange to talk to adults I know well about stuff like that.
by idk anymore
Wed Dec 22, 2021 11:23 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: how to move on
Replies: 9
Views: 1164

Re: how to move on

Yes, I do still see them. I'll be seeing them today, in fact. But, no, not really. It's just not conversation I feel comfortable having with people I know. If it's removed like this, it's fine, but someone I interact with regularly is just too uncomfortable.
by idk anymore
Tue Dec 21, 2021 3:38 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: how to move on
Replies: 9
Views: 1164

how to move on

lots of context I've said a million times, bad choices, physical scarring, etc. I can't move on from a relationship that ended over a year ago. I've had a crush on other people, but still haven't been able to move one. Only theory is that they are the only real relationship I've ever had and I misse...
by idk anymore
Wed Nov 03, 2021 6:53 am
Forum: Gender
Topic: not sure what to do
Replies: 3
Views: 1209

Re: not sure what to do

Thanks, Ill try that!
by idk anymore
Tue Nov 02, 2021 6:12 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Unhealthy Infatuation?
Replies: 11
Views: 961

Re: Unhealthy Infatuation?

Thank you, I appreciate your empathy!

As well as I can and I have always had safety plans but they can never be 100% full proof. Only so much can be done, honestly.
by idk anymore
Tue Nov 02, 2021 7:05 am
Forum: Gender
Topic: not sure what to do
Replies: 3
Views: 1209

not sure what to do

I had a super massive fight with my sister who has been a massive ass my whole life, my therapists thinks is toxic, and consistently shows that they are incapable of acting in the way a sibling should. I obviously am not a perfect person but nothing I have done has warranted the treatment I have bee...
by idk anymore
Mon Nov 01, 2021 6:03 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Unhealthy Infatuation?
Replies: 11
Views: 961

Re: Unhealthy Infatuation?

Update ig: I've slowly been erecting more and more boundaries with my teacher as time has gone on. I was getting kinda creeped out at first as they became more and more resistant to me pulling back by continuously guilting me about it, but I eventually made it clear that that was super not okay, so ...
by idk anymore
Mon Oct 18, 2021 1:59 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Unhealthy Infatuation?
Replies: 11
Views: 961

Re: Unhealthy Infatuation?

Thank you!

I just completed step 1, and got back, "sounds good!"

All I can really say is, wow, that hurt say more than I thought it would but it's what I was expecting and it's what is right.
by idk anymore
Mon Oct 18, 2021 1:09 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Unhealthy Infatuation?
Replies: 11
Views: 961

Re: Unhealthy Infatuation?

I guess the boundaries I'm going to set and steps I would take to establish them would be this... 1. Say that we should stop texting about unrelated stuff. If there's nothing bad going on here, this shouldn't be a problem. 2. No more always eating lunch in their room. Everyone I know may be doing th...
by idk anymore
Mon Oct 18, 2021 7:05 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Unhealthy Infatuation?
Replies: 11
Views: 961

Re: Unhealthy Infatuation?

Yes, it does. Thank you so much, I really appreciate it. I agree it is a boundaries issue that I've always found somewhat alarming as my mother works at a school and has always been pretty vocal about the importance of maintaining a student teacher relationship, and nothing else. However, it's alway...
by idk anymore
Sun Oct 17, 2021 5:52 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Unhealthy Infatuation?
Replies: 11
Views: 961

Unhealthy Infatuation?

So, for quite a while I've had a thing for one of my teachers. I feel like that's a pseudo-normal thing, but idrk. Regardless, my attraction for them has developed into me holding legitimate romantic feeling. This fantasy is obviously entirely unrealistic, not to mention illegal, and I know it's onl...
by idk anymore
Fri Jun 04, 2021 9:26 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: URGENT PLEASE HELP
Replies: 6
Views: 5535

Re: URGENT PLEASE HELP

I am not sure, however, am not optimistic. Both the superintendent and the school board want this policy and many teachers fear for their jobs on this issue. Most teachers have been forced to make anonymous testimonies.
by idk anymore
Fri Jun 04, 2021 7:32 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: URGENT PLEASE HELP
Replies: 6
Views: 5535

Re: URGENT PLEASE HELP

I have looked into the ACLU in the past. Unfortunately they ACLU sung the praises of a school with an identical policy, because it was the first one to have a policy at all, not because it's actually good. That statement, however, is working against us. I will look into TSER. Thank you! Unfortunatel...
by idk anymore
Fri Jun 04, 2021 7:10 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: URGENT PLEASE HELP
Replies: 6
Views: 5535

URGENT PLEASE HELP

The school board in my high school is working to add a policy to the school district forcing teachers to out students to their parents without student consent. We live in an incredibly right wing town, and my friends fear for their lives as they believe their parents will physically hurt them if the...
by idk anymore
Tue Apr 27, 2021 5:38 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Usernamesake
Replies: 5
Views: 3605

Re: Usernamesake

How do I do that?
by idk anymore
Tue Apr 27, 2021 7:21 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Usernamesake
Replies: 5
Views: 3605

Re: Usernamesake

I come from a small town and it is nearly impossible to find people I really connect with.
by idk anymore
Thu Apr 22, 2021 4:09 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Usernamesake
Replies: 5
Views: 3605

Usernamesake

I haven't been talking here for a while for a handful of reasons. I don't really expect much of a useful response because I've come to terms with the fact that I will have to resolve this for myself, but sometimes it's just nice to scream into the void. Romantic life is complicated, sexual life is n...
by idk anymore
Fri Feb 12, 2021 5:23 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Polyamorous
Replies: 2
Views: 3592

Re: Polyamorous

Thanks! That really helps!
by idk anymore
Wed Feb 10, 2021 2:13 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Polyamorous
Replies: 2
Views: 3592

Polyamorous

Is it wrong to want to be in multiple active sexual and romantic relationships at the same time? I feel like many people automatically become offended when you so much as mention wanting to be with other people. Like I'm making a statement about them and that they aren't enough. Plus, the whole idea...
by idk anymore
Wed Feb 10, 2021 1:59 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Gay Energy
Replies: 4
Views: 4274

Re: Gay Energy

Thank you, I'll try
by idk anymore
Wed Feb 10, 2021 9:32 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Gay Energy
Replies: 4
Views: 4274

Re: Gay Energy

I would like to reiterate that there are many lqbtq+ people who are republican, however, gay rights is more often supported by democrats
by idk anymore
Wed Feb 10, 2021 9:25 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Gay Energy
Replies: 4
Views: 4274

Gay Energy

So, there's been a massive surge in lgbtq+ pride in my grade in recent months, which is great. But it's causing a lot of problems for me... 1. So I fit into the republican camp on most political issues. With the lgbtq+ pride there's been a lot of pushback from people who are against it, who are USUA...
by idk anymore
Wed Feb 10, 2021 9:13 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Always Come Back
Replies: 10
Views: 3312

Re: Always Come Back

I mean I apologise. But other than that, no. It's not really their fault. I feel like talking about it would either be blaming them for a part of it, or me just apologizing more. Do you disagree?

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