Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about a month now, and it's going great, though we have had some issues while being sexually intimate with one another. I am mtf trans, no hormones as of yet, and I've been really struggling to reach orgasm, which has somewhat thrown me for a loop, as I thin...

They seem comfortable, it’s only been a handful of days but my father has only slipped up once and everyone seems generally ok with it.

Up until recently I've been totally unable to communicate with my family that I was trans, though I finally did that recently, and it's been kind of a mixed bag but for some weird reasons. They're totally accepting, so I'm not sure the issue lies in them. Whenever I'm gendered correctly or have my n...

Well I certainly *want* to be friends with them, but interacting has been really hard. To be fair the incident is still fresh so hopefully that’ll get easier with time but it’s hard to say. They’re one of my closest friends so I’d rather not lose them in that capacity as well of course

To be honest I’m not sure how I feel on that first bit. I’m glad they want to have me as a friend but as I do still have romantic feelings it’s cold comfort, + the embarrassment of misreading their intentions is lingering hard. As for your second question I wish I could clear that up, but those are ...

Well as of now we’ve essentially broken up which was not really the outcome I saw coming. Especially seeing as it was them who called things off. To summarize I misunderstood a bit of their intentions, essentially they feel uncomfortable being in a relationship right now, and want to figure themselv...

I don’t know, to be perfectly honest. Posting here has helped ease things I think. It feels like this is gonna be really rough no matter what of course, they were one of the only people I was out to as a trans woman so if we do end up splitting finding another partner would be difficult but at the e...

Well, we’ve decided not to break up just yet, since I’m not entirely sure how this *will* affect things and they don’t seem to fully know either in that they’re unsure of what being transmasc really means to them. I do believe the goal is give each other a bit of space to process and then see what’s...

Well I’d normally seek my partner out for comfort but that would feel awkward as of right now. I do have friends who have been helping me though. I’ve basically just spent the last two days in bed watching random shows and such as it’s about as close to not doing anything as I can manage. It’s hard ...

Thank you for the resource. I’ve seen this before but not given it an especially in depth look so now might be the time to do so. That being said we had quite the conversation yesterday, I explained my feelings in the matter to them and they explained theirs. It was certainly hard but I think we’re ...

I honestly feel a bit weird responding to this now because in the time it took for me to check back and see that this has been approved a lot of stuff has happened. They told me they feel like they are transmasc, which has thrown me for a loop seeing as we were in a lesbian relationship. It's, been ...

Title says a fair amount but I think it's important to elaborate. We started dating a few months back and I really, really like them. We've been taking things slow for some time now, and while I feel it's best to wait on sex for now that is something that ideally I want at some point? This is essent...

omgggg thank you so much for the info. I have one question which I'm maybe not quite sure how to phrase but I will do my best haha. Is there any specific way you're supposed to wear them I guess? Like to illustrate my point a bit better would I just put one on or is there a specific way I should be ...

So I hope that this isn't overly specific or anything but recently I've had a desire to try out more form fitting pants and things like more feminine underwear as sleep/loungewear or just clothes to have for myself and enjoy as I'm not female presenting in public at all. The problem I've been having...

So I'd like to preface that I don't experience crushes/romantic attraction often, and the feelings can be a bit hard to identify for me? I don't think I'd say I'm aro or anything, because I do want a relationship pretty bad? Now to get into the actual meat of the post, I've felt like I might be deve...

Apologies if this is the wrong place to submit this, first time posting and all. So since realizing I'm trans I've thought like, a lot about different things but in this case I honestly still don't know which way I lean? The lowdown of what's up is basically I'm not entirely sure if I'd prefer havin...