hi scarleteen!! you guys have given me some really great advice in the past so im back here again, for hopefully more help :) I am 17 years old, afab, and my partner wants to have sex with me. The only problem is that in the past few months, since we've begun talking about the topic of sex my desire...

hi Sam!! yes, i have definitely done a healthy amount of introspection on my gender even before this mini crisis began. i remember reading something to similar to what you're talking about, and thought it should be something i should do as well. i think i am definitely still cis, or at least that's ...

Hi Elise, thank you for replying. sorry for taking so long, ive been kind of just stewing over this for a while trying to figure out how to accurately convey my feelings. I definitely see what you mean about cis people being comfortable with they/them pronouns, and for a long time that was what i fe...

Hello!! when i was about 12, i first joined fandom online spaces. i was mainly a lurker so i never felt any pressing need to share pronouns or other such information. but as i grew older and more confident, i also grew more social in these spaces. i started a tumblr, joined discord servers, etc. and...

Hi sorry for the late reply, we've been out of power for a bit now but now that we have it back I've been thinking about your post a lot. First of all, thank you a lot for that reassurance, I don't know if I'll ever be ready ready to come out, but at least it's not on me for that. This is off topic,...

Hello, I've been questioning my sexuality for a few years now (almost 3) and I've never really wanted to come out because I don't actually know if I am bi (or something else) or not. Part of this is probably because I don't think I am valid in my feelings. I didn't even know that there was such a th...