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by Sofi
Sat Nov 27, 2021 11:53 am
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Masterbating
Replies: 67
Views: 1096

Re: Masterbating

As Elise explained, there's no way we can guarantee how your body would react to vaginoplasty. However, keep in mind that people with a vagina squirting is not exactly the same as people with a penis ejaculating. It's all more complicated than your question, but I'm going to go with no, that's not r...
by Sofi
Sat Nov 27, 2021 10:24 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Managed to do it a bit
Replies: 5
Views: 152

Re: Managed to do it a bit

I think you have to go at your own pace, if that makes sense. So if something hurts or feels uncomfortable, then take a step back and don't force it. And if something feels good and pleasurable, you can lean into it and explore that instead. Sexual experiences are different for everyone and there's ...
by Sofi
Sat Nov 27, 2021 10:19 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Cultural appropriation?
Replies: 3
Views: 143

Re: Cultural appropriation?

That sounds perfect! You're welcome. :)
by Sofi
Sat Nov 27, 2021 9:03 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Im struggling to cope with the fact im not 12 anymore
Replies: 14
Views: 288

Re: Im struggling to cope with the fact im not 12 anymore

Yep, it is! And that's great. Just log in on Sunday using the link Elise shared!
by Sofi
Fri Nov 26, 2021 4:25 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Managed to do it a bit
Replies: 5
Views: 152

Re: Managed to do it a bit

Hi! To answer the first of your questions - yep, it's at an angle. There are walls you need to "work around" as you go in, just like you described. I'm linking two articles we have with descriptions and photos of sexual anatomy so you can see what I mean: Innies & Outies: The Vagina, C...
by Sofi
Fri Nov 26, 2021 3:34 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: I can only masturbate in one way?
Replies: 5
Views: 217

Re: I can only masturbate in one way?

Yep, it's normal to feel like there's something coming in between you and an orgasm, so to speak. Many people experience this and it's a combination of the technique being used and a mental barrier, both which can take some time and patiente to work through. If your technique has always worked for y...
by Sofi
Mon Nov 22, 2021 9:49 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: boyfriend issue?
Replies: 13
Views: 309

Re: boyfriend issue?

Nice to meet you too! <3 And I can see how that can seem dismissive, for sure. I'm glad she's not mad at you, but I want you to know that I echo Mo, Urna and Elise in saying that what he does to you does count as sexual assault. It seems like you got a chance to chat with Mo on our chat platform, so...
by Sofi
Mon Nov 22, 2021 8:32 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: boyfriend issue?
Replies: 13
Views: 309

Re: boyfriend issue?

Oh I'm glad you got a chance to talk to her. Dismissive how? And how are you feeling after your conversation?
by Sofi
Mon Nov 22, 2021 8:16 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: i've never had a sex drive
Replies: 1
Views: 61

Re: i've never had a sex drive

Hi page, welcome to the boards! What you are describing is not abnormal, actually, and you're not alone in it. While yes, many people who are asexual do have the ability to feel sexually aroused, others don't! Buying a vibrator might help, but it also might just be frustrating, if it's not actually ...
by Sofi
Wed Nov 17, 2021 3:36 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: new relationship embarrassment
Replies: 3
Views: 120

Re: new relationship embarrassment

Oh, I am so sorry that you went through that. I can understand completely and trust me, not every guy is like that! Your new boyfriend sounds like he's very understanding and also mature. It might be good to have an open and honest conversation where you tell him all of this (as much as you're comfo...
by Sofi
Wed Nov 17, 2021 2:05 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: no idea what to do.
Replies: 3
Views: 124

Re: no idea what to do.

I like him, he made wonderful points! :D definitely try to see someone soon, with these things it's always better to know as soon as possible. It might help, in the meantime, to focus on the fact that *if* you did get reinfected, everything is going to be okay! Your boyfriend will be supportive (esp...
by Sofi
Wed Nov 17, 2021 2:00 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: new relationship embarrassment
Replies: 3
Views: 120

Re: new relationship embarrassment

Hi theatreluvin! I'm so glad to hear you're happy in your new relationship!! While vaginal secretions are normal, I understand for some people it can feel embarassing, especially around someone you like. Rest assured it's nothing to be ashamed of! It sounds like your partner is pretty understanding ...
by Sofi
Wed Nov 17, 2021 1:45 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: no idea what to do.
Replies: 3
Views: 124

Re: no idea what to do.

Hi nyxoxo, I'm so sorry you're having all this stress and anxiety around this situation. I was wondering if you'd had a chance to read Sam's response on your last post? She explained the risk part pretty well (it's unlikely you passed it back to him since you were done with your treatment, however s...
by Sofi
Mon Nov 15, 2021 3:31 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Cultural appropriation?
Replies: 3
Views: 143

Re: Cultural appropriation?

Hi! First off I want to acknowledge that you're taking the time to respectfully ask and make sure your actions won't be offensive and that's important. As a person of color, I appreciate you checking before doing something that might be appropriation. In this case, yes, a hijab-style head wrap would...
by Sofi
Mon Nov 15, 2021 2:45 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Crush on my Best Friend and I Can’t Tell if They Feel the Same
Replies: 3
Views: 98

Re: Crush on my Best Friend and I Can’t Tell if They Feel the Same

Hi Winter, welcome to the boards! That does sound pretty confusing and I can understand why you're hesitant to say anything. The truth is, there's no way to know if our crush likes us back unless we ask or they tell us. That's what's so complicated about relationships--communication is key, and some...
by Sofi
Thu Nov 11, 2021 3:51 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Masterbating
Replies: 67
Views: 1096

Re: Masterbating

Sorry to hear! The best thing is to wait for your ultrasound appointment and see what they say about it.
by Sofi
Thu Nov 11, 2021 3:47 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Porn and hair
Replies: 14
Views: 354

Re: Porn and hair

Don't be embarassed, these are all normal feelings to have and you're not doing anything wrong. As Val explained, "The intention someone has with their content or their body is what facilitates the concept of consent. A nude model may be consenting to you drawing them in an art class but not ne...
by Sofi
Thu Nov 11, 2021 3:30 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I recently found out that my boyfriend had masturbated to a photo of his ex gf’s sister what do I do?
Replies: 20
Views: 326

Re: I recently found out that my boyfriend had masturbated to a photo of his ex gf’s sister what do I do?

I'm SO glad to hear that!! And I will pass the message along to everyone who contributed to this thread :)
by Sofi
Thu Nov 11, 2021 3:29 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Porn and hair
Replies: 14
Views: 354

Re: Porn and hair

What do you mean you feel like it's wrong since you can't ask? Can you elaborate on that?
But yes--it's okay to have those feelings!
by Sofi
Thu Nov 11, 2021 3:19 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I recently found out that my boyfriend had masturbated to a photo of his ex gf’s sister what do I do?
Replies: 20
Views: 326

Re: I recently found out that my boyfriend had masturbated to a photo of his ex gf’s sister what do I do?

Kudos to you for being so mature about this, you're handling this really well, truly! I hope you are able to continue down this road of trust building and healthy communication. If you need to ask anything, vent/update us, you can always post in this thread again <3
by Sofi
Thu Nov 11, 2021 2:20 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: So there's a guy...
Replies: 135
Views: 4226

Re: So there's a guy...

That's totally fine, go at your own pace. I just want you to be able to express your feelings when you feel ready to, so you can know if you're on the same page and see what step to take next.
by Sofi
Thu Nov 11, 2021 2:18 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Masterbating
Replies: 67
Views: 1096

Re: Masterbating

Is it still hurting or itching?
by Sofi
Thu Nov 11, 2021 2:18 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I recently found out that my boyfriend had masturbated to a photo of his ex gf’s sister what do I do?
Replies: 20
Views: 326

Re: I recently found out that my boyfriend had masturbated to a photo of his ex gf’s sister what do I do?

That makes sense, and trust takes time to build back up after you feel it's been broken. What he did does sound like a mistake he acknowledges and wants to be better at being honest with you, so that's good. I would say here you have to think about what is more valuable, this situation or your relat...
by Sofi
Wed Nov 10, 2021 3:01 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Masturbating But Can’t Finish.
Replies: 7
Views: 156

Re: Masturbating But Can’t Finish.

Absolutely! You are always welcome to post in this thread at any time. :)
by Sofi
Wed Nov 10, 2021 3:00 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I need a hug
Replies: 6
Views: 192

Re: I need a hug

I hope that works out with your dad taking you, it would be really nice to be able to drive by and wave to show you're there for him! You could try to talk to his parents about it if you think it'll actually be a productive conversation. From the sounds of it, they aren't the most supportive parents...

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