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by Sofi
Thu Oct 21, 2021 1:43 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Where do I can masturbate?
Replies: 1
Views: 76

Re: Where do I can masturbate?

Hi, welcome to the boards. Where you masturbate is more about your comfort in that space than anything else--if the space is private and safe, that's most important, the cleaning is something you can adapt to. For example, if you do it in your bed, you can grab a washcloth or other similar towel and...
by Sofi
Tue Oct 19, 2021 1:49 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: A Question on a future friend
Replies: 2
Views: 76

Re: A Question on a future friend

Hi Eavuke, welcome to the boards! Sorry to hear your friendship with this person has become distant since the summer. Honestly, there's no right or wrong answer, because we can't know what he's thinking. I say it's okay to shoot him one more text, especially since it's been a few weeks since the las...
by Sofi
Thu Sep 23, 2021 2:42 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Penis Size
Replies: 24
Views: 523

Re: Penis Size

I'll echo Sam - you're still at an age where you can keep growing and changing and your body, genitals included, might look very different in a few years. I understand it can be frustrating to sit around and wait, but you're definitely not running out of time, everyone's timeline is different.
by Sofi
Thu Sep 23, 2021 12:16 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Lighter Flow Than Normal?
Replies: 1
Views: 145

Re: Lighter Flow Than Normal?

Hi nyxoxo, welcome to the boards! You know, periods are one of those topics that we don't want to make assumptions about because there could be so many variables and reasons it changes etc. It's definitely not weird for people to have a heavy flow but then occasionally have lighter periods, it's usu...
by Sofi
Fri Sep 17, 2021 1:56 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Bumps on labia minora
Replies: 1
Views: 129

Re: Bumps on labia minora

Hi Meggyd18, There's definitely a chance they're normal and not harmful if you've had them for a long time, they definitely could be sebaceous glands. Unfortunately without being able to see what they look like, and of course without being medical professionals, we can't give you a definite answer. ...
by Sofi
Sun Sep 12, 2021 1:22 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Question about sperm
Replies: 3
Views: 459

Re: Question about sperm

Hi BlueFlower823 welcome to the boards! From what you're describing, it sounds like there's a very low risk you could get pregnant that way. While technically semen could travel from the clit area to the vagina on its own, it would be more so if you're in a position where it could run down into it, ...
by Sofi
Wed Sep 08, 2021 2:15 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Touching my Nexplanon?
Replies: 15
Views: 1491

Re: Touching my Nexplanon?

Best of luck with that, I think it'll be a great step. In the meantime I just wanted to reassure you again that feeling it or touching it won't make it stop working or become less effective. Let us know at any time if there's any other questions we can answer for you!
by Sofi
Sun Aug 29, 2021 10:26 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Holding a grudge
Replies: 1
Views: 189

Re: Holding a grudge

Hi there, welcome back. I'm sorry you've been dealing with this, it sounds super frustrating and confusing, even stressful. We can't help where our minds go sometimes, such as with past events that we've "gotten over" and moved on from, it's natural for our minds to sometimes go back and r...
by Sofi
Sun Aug 29, 2021 10:09 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Masturbating as a pre-op trans woman
Replies: 28
Views: 1048

Re: Masturbating as a pre-op trans woman

You're not weird for that at all! How great orgasms are is subjective, also. For some people it's the best thing in the world, for others they're not a big deal at all, and everything in between. I'm glad you're on the way to experiencing it, though, and deciding for yourself! Wish you the best of l...
by Sofi
Sun Aug 29, 2021 9:55 am
Forum: Gender
Topic: How Would You Descibe Your Gender Expression?
Replies: 3
Views: 586

Re: How Would You Descibe Your Gender Expression?

I love utility queer! Rubix, I totally understand that and relate. As I started to realize I was basically gender apathetic, I experimented with "styles" from goth to girly and in my case to soft butch too. Now I would say my gender expression falls under butchy femme, since that's what I'...
by Sofi
Sun Aug 29, 2021 9:12 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: How do I halt my libido?
Replies: 7
Views: 425

Re: How do I halt my libido?

Hi Anne, welcome to the boards! I'm sorry to hear about the frustration your libido is causing, it sounds like a hassle and your sex drive shouldn't be something getting in the way of your daily life. As I'm sure you know, HRT can descrease libido, has it done that for you at all or has it remained ...
by Sofi
Tue Aug 24, 2021 9:27 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Penis and glans health
Replies: 1
Views: 156

Re: Penis and glans health

Hi there, welcome to the boards! What you are describing sounds like (as you stated) pearly penile papules, even though they're on top of the glans. However we can't give a diagnosis since we can't see them and are not medical professionals. It doesn't sound like anything concerning, though, since y...
by Sofi
Wed Aug 18, 2021 9:02 am
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Sensitive clitoris and hygiene
Replies: 2
Views: 257

Re: Sensitive clitoris and hygiene

Hi there and welcome to the boards! Do not worry, what you're seeing is normal and it sounds like you're cleaning enough. You shouldn't be using soap in that area (only around it, but not near the vagina). If you've never had any infections then you don't have to worry about your cleaning methods, s...
by Sofi
Thu Aug 05, 2021 8:15 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: When I try to finger myself I don’t feel stimulated
Replies: 5
Views: 1138

Re: When I try to finger myself I don’t feel stimulated

There's not really an alternative that's safe enough, but you can check out your local Planned Parenthood, other sexual health clinics or even a school nurse's office. Most of them give condoms out for free, so you don't have to worry about buying them. Same thing with lube!
by Sofi
Wed Aug 04, 2021 10:57 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Masterbation & Sexual abuse
Replies: 5
Views: 715

Re: Masterbation & Sexual abuse

You're welcome! Wishing you the best of luck, you got this.
by Sofi
Wed Aug 04, 2021 9:24 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Masterbation & Sexual abuse
Replies: 5
Views: 715

Re: Masterbation & Sexual abuse

This is definitely a tough situation and I'm sorry you've had to deal with those feelings, I want to first validate how you feel and make sure you know you have this space to vent and talk about it. I'm glad you've been doing better lately, though. I don't want you to feel pressured to orgasm or enj...
by Sofi
Wed Jul 21, 2021 9:16 am
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Well, it's happening.
Replies: 10
Views: 1737

Re: Well, it's happening.

I just want to chime in and echo what Heather said. As someone who can also relate to some of what you're going through and feeling, and is still here. Things are going to get better as you navigate this and figure out what's best for you. There is no right or wrong answer because it's your life and...
by Sofi
Wed Jul 21, 2021 8:55 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: QUESTION
Replies: 1
Views: 537

Re: QUESTION

If you've had 8 negative results, you are not pregnant. This article might help ease your mind a bit:
https://www.scarleteen.com/article/bodi ... nk_you_are
by Sofi
Wed Jul 07, 2021 8:10 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Hot girl summer???
Replies: 3
Views: 1992

Re: Hot girl summer???

Trust me, I feel you and relate! Covid has affected all our lives for way longer than we wanted or expected it to, so it's okay to be frustrated about it. Keep in mind your safety and the safety of those around you is always most important and putting it first the responsible thing to do. That being...
by Sofi
Mon Jun 14, 2021 8:58 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Disappointed in my bf
Replies: 9
Views: 3709

Re: Disappointed in my bf

I also want to ask, do you have other ways you can de-stress or feel more at ease when you're upset? I don't want you to rely on him as your only way to feel better, because it's always best to have ways of self care (not that we should go through things alone, it's of course good to also have peopl...
by Sofi
Mon Jun 14, 2021 8:00 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Disappointed in my bf
Replies: 9
Views: 3709

Re: Disappointed in my bf

Hi Hel, This is a tricky one, because we need to have a balance between making sure our needs are met by our partner but also leaving space for their needs. You're right that your boyfriend has to put in effort, you are in a relationship and care about each other, so if you express your needs he nee...
by Sofi
Mon May 10, 2021 11:26 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: My best friend, my crush, and me
Replies: 9
Views: 9698

Re: My best friend, my crush, and me

First of all, thank you for opening up and trusting us with this. It's definitely a hard situation you're in and I want to acknowledge your feelings of confusion and frustration. I do have to say, I don't consider your feelings "dirty" or "petty". It is perfectly normal to feel j...
by Sofi
Mon May 10, 2021 9:52 am
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: The side of my shaft hurts.
Replies: 2
Views: 4474

Re: The side of my shaft hurts.

It's likely you just need to take a break from masturbating, and be gentle if/when you do. You should be okay if you just take care of yourself for a couple of days. If the pain persists in a day or two, it might be good to check with a doctor.
by Sofi
Mon May 10, 2021 9:23 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Brutally Honest
Replies: 13
Views: 16972

Re: Brutally Honest

Hi girlplayer34, I'm sorry to hear you're still struggling with this. I know it's been hard being the single friend, and also still being a virgin. Fear of ending up alone is valid, but please try to be a bit less pessimistic about it! You are going to find someone for you, it just might take more p...
by Sofi
Mon May 10, 2021 8:38 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Old feelings coming up about a former crush
Replies: 1
Views: 6115

Re: Old feelings coming up about a former crush

Hi waves15, welcome to the boards! It definitely seems like you still have feelings for this girl after all this time. On one hand, people can change a lot in four years, and just because we don't like someone today doesn't mean we never will. At the same time, though, you wouldn't want to make her ...

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