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by confusedinlove
Mon Jun 14, 2021 12:37 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: What's your favorite outfit?
Replies: 23
Views: 13187

Re: What's your favorite outfit?

tall, stompy doc martens, high-waisted, ripped black skinny jeans, cuffed to show off my fun socks (i don't care that they're out, i will never abandon skinny jeans), oversized men's white tshirt with a keith haring drawing (the one with two people holding up a heart), faux leather jacket with pins ...
by confusedinlove
Fri May 28, 2021 7:47 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: I don't know if I'm bi or lesbian?
Replies: 3
Views: 7515

Re: I don't know if I'm bi or lesbian?

You're very young, and it sounds like your sexuality is just beginning to develop, so you may not know for some years, and that's okay - most people don't date at your age, anyway. But I want to leave you with one piece of advice that has helped me and a lot of my friends with the same question (bi ...
by confusedinlove
Thu Jan 21, 2021 2:24 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: kink
Replies: 1
Views: 1744

kink

So, I've been curious about kink for a long time, ever since I first learned about it when I was maybe 13. But since I was underage, I wasn't really able to be a part of kink communities, and for good reason. The brushes I did have with real-life exploration of it were pretty exploitative. But now t...
by confusedinlove
Wed Jan 20, 2021 5:02 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: sex education (the tv show)
Replies: 1
Views: 2223

sex education (the tv show)

so this is the first time i've posted a non-advice question, and i know it's from like 2 years ago, but i'm curious to hear what actual sex educators and other people interested in the topic think about the show sex education. i think, beyond being a funny and generally good show, it's a pretty inte...
by confusedinlove
Tue Dec 29, 2020 8:55 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: i think i'm just not made for hookups
Replies: 3
Views: 868

Re: i think i'm just not made for hookups

yeah, i might try to be friends i guess. after a while, i think i would feel weird seeing him again right now - i actually told him i was gonna be away, lol. and you're right, i think most people aren't happy with "hookup culture", even people who do hookups. weird how "friends with b...
by confusedinlove
Mon Dec 28, 2020 11:26 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: i think i'm just not made for hookups
Replies: 3
Views: 868

i think i'm just not made for hookups

so i've had sex or done sexual things a few times in my life, always with a friend or someone i was dating. but i've been feeling super bored and reckless lately, and i'm recently 18, and about a week ago i decided to find someone online to hook up with. we ended up getting high and having sex in a ...
by confusedinlove
Fri Dec 04, 2020 2:05 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: my friend is probably bi and a little in denial
Replies: 1
Views: 1654

my friend is probably bi and a little in denial

so i've had this...friend...for over a year, we've always flirted and in the summer we made out a few times but now we're "just friends" again, who knows what'll happen in the future, i'm not pressed abt it but there's the backstory. you know it's a good relationship when it takes a paragr...
by confusedinlove
Wed Oct 21, 2020 9:14 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Not a pregnancy scare just a question
Replies: 3
Views: 1186

Re: Not a pregnancy scare just a question

What about cases where a woman gets pregnant late in life and assumes she is going through menopause? Wasn't there a reality show called "I didn't know I was pregnant", and most of the episodes were like that? Not that a reality show is a great source for facts about... anything, but it se...
by confusedinlove
Sat Aug 29, 2020 9:38 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: guy i'm seeing doesn't initiate anything
Replies: 5
Views: 861

Re: guy i'm seeing doesn't initiate anything

thanks. honestly, reading that article and imagining saying any of that stuff to him made me realize that we're just not at that point quite yet. in the past, i've been in the habit of just letting things happen, and the fact that it's gonna be up to me this time might be good. it was helpful to tal...
by confusedinlove
Fri Aug 28, 2020 6:02 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: guy i'm seeing doesn't initiate anything
Replies: 5
Views: 861

Re: guy i'm seeing doesn't initiate anything

yeah, see, this is the problem. it's hard for me to bring that sort of thing up, especially in an undefined relationship like this. to talk about something like that would be to break the sort of plausible deniability we've maintained and admit i'm quite invested. i also don't want to come off as cr...
by confusedinlove
Fri Aug 28, 2020 11:39 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: guy i'm seeing doesn't initiate anything
Replies: 5
Views: 861

guy i'm seeing doesn't initiate anything

so, i'm 17, and this guy i've being talking to is 19. i'm not a "virgin" by any meaning of the word (except the archaic meaning "maiden"), but the handful of experiences i've had were initiated by the other person. most were entirely consensual, but i'm just not used to being in ...

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