Thank you Sam W for the wonderful book suggestion, I've actually ordered a physical copy that I'm hoping to work from. Having something to quickly reference will be a huge help as well! I have been aware of agender and decided a while ago that it wasn't for me, though neutrois is a new one I'll have...

Oh gosh thank you Amanda for your reply, that article was super helpful and honestly felt like I was looking into a mirror. I really appreciate that, although thinking about 'shopping' as the article puts it... I'm not too sure where to start there either. Nonbinary definitely doesn't feel specific ...

So I've been running into this issue at a rate of once every three years or so and it takes up a good few months of my life every time it hits. I'm AFAB and in 2015 found that identifying as non-binary felt like the best term for how I felt about myself after a lot of soul searching as per my recurr...