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by confusedhuman
Sat May 22, 2021 4:04 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: Locker rooms & anxiety
Replies: 1
Views: 2483

Locker rooms & anxiety

I got my second shot a little over 2 weeks ago, so things are slowly starting to return to normal. I have a younger sibling who's not yet fully vaccinated so still not completely back to normal (and also just I'm definitely going to be more cautious and try to limit any sort of close encounters with...
by confusedhuman
Mon Mar 15, 2021 8:49 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Masturbation
Replies: 1
Views: 982

Masturbation

Generally when I'm masturbating I can get away with just using what I make, but sometimes it'll start to dry out a little, and when that happens I like to pee just enough so that it's slippy again. Is there any reason to not do that? It really turns me on and I can't think of any specific reason it'...
by confusedhuman
Sun Feb 14, 2021 6:12 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: HRT with unsupportive(?) parents
Replies: 1
Views: 441

HRT with unsupportive(?) parents

So I recently turned 18 and I can now legally get HRT without my parents' consent, which is good because they don't think it's a good idea (and are only sometimes supportive of me with regards to names/pronouns). The problem is I'm entirely financially dependent on them, but like I don't know how th...
by confusedhuman
Tue Dec 15, 2020 8:49 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: Bottom Surgery confliction?
Replies: 3
Views: 1949

Re: Bottom Surgery confliction?

I'll admit I don't know much about the topic, but when I was looking through bottom surgery stuff I found that there's a procedure that will give you a vagina while keeping your penis, it's very creatively called penile-preserving vaginoplasty. I think that that uses scrotal tissue but I'm not a doc...
by confusedhuman
Tue Nov 24, 2020 7:19 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Discussing HRT with parents
Replies: 3
Views: 1137

Re: Discussing HRT with parents

That's probably a good idea about avoiding that particular subject for now. Unfortunately I'll probably need to discuss that at some point because that's expensive, but I guess I'll cross that bridge when I get there. As for the chest dysphoria, I think they just will straight up not believe me and ...
by confusedhuman
Mon Nov 23, 2020 7:32 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Discussing HRT with parents
Replies: 3
Views: 1137

Discussing HRT with parents

I'm pretty nervous about talking to my parents about starting HRT. For one, if they ask me why I want to, I don't think answering with the whole truth will go too well. The main reason I want to start HRT is that I have pretty bad chest dysphoria, but I worry that my parents (who I think still see m...
by confusedhuman
Wed Nov 11, 2020 2:32 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Friendships during covid and trust issues
Replies: 1
Views: 991

Friendships during covid and trust issues

So this is something I've been struggling with for a while and I don't know where else to go with this. I am discussing parts of this with my therapist but I'm still not fully comfortable with him yet so I needed a place to ask for advice more or less anonymously. Background information: I'm a senio...
by confusedhuman
Sun Nov 08, 2020 11:39 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Queer Platonic relationships
Replies: 1
Views: 1656

Re: Queer Platonic relationships

More than friends but not fully romantic is an okay definition of a QPR, but I wouldn't use it personally because I don't like the implication that qprs and romance is more important than friendship. I'd say a better definition is a committed (though not necessarily exclusive) long-term relationship...
by confusedhuman
Sun Nov 08, 2020 11:24 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: Bathrooms
Replies: 1
Views: 1014

Bathrooms

I'm agender, and while I'd love to be able to use gender-neutral bathrooms, it's not always doable. There aren't any at my school (save staff ones, which you have to get special permission to use from the counseling office, are at the back end of beyond, and you'll often get questioned). They also a...
by confusedhuman
Fri Oct 30, 2020 9:22 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Weird things about affection
Replies: 1
Views: 748

Weird things about affection

So I am a very physically affectionate person, as are my friends, we (at least pre-COVID we did) spend a lot of our time together cuddling and almost always greet each other with hugs and "love you"s and so on and so forth. Lately, I've noticed that I've wanted to do things with them that ...
by confusedhuman
Wed Oct 21, 2020 3:21 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Fantasies and ethics
Replies: 2
Views: 1156

Fantasies and ethics

I have a bunch of fantasies involving being outside and I think I could conceivably follow through on one of them, but I'm not sure if it's a good idea or entirely ethical. Basically I want to masturbate outside, and like not in my backyard or something, but a more open area. I have a spot in mind, ...
by confusedhuman
Tue Sep 01, 2020 2:52 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Anxiety about the future
Replies: 1
Views: 1419

Anxiety about the future

Some background information: I'm a senior in high school, we probably won't be back to in-person learning until after I graduate, I'm aromantic and polyamorous. I'm also non-binary, I have several squishes (all unreciprocated), and want to go on E at some point but can't at the moment because my par...
by confusedhuman
Thu Aug 06, 2020 11:00 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Penis Insecurities
Replies: 5
Views: 2012

Re: Penis Insecurities

First of all, that article has been really helpful. I intend to push back next time they bring it up, though it probably won't come up for a while because we're all stuck inside and. I want to go along the lines of "this is just how my body is, you guys saying things like that are really causin...
by confusedhuman
Sun Aug 02, 2020 11:47 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Penis Insecurities
Replies: 5
Views: 2012

Re: Penis Insecurities

Thanks for the reply! I would love some help figuring out how to bring that up, and also how to unlearn some of the stuff I've been taught about sex. I've avoided confronting my parents seriously about it because whenever I say they're being unreasonable I usually get something like "too bad&qu...
by confusedhuman
Fri Jul 31, 2020 7:31 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Penis Insecurities
Replies: 5
Views: 2012

Penis Insecurities

As the subject says, I've had some insecurities with my equipment. I'm about 8.5 inches hard and it's made life a pain. Everything I do and everywhere I go I'm worried that people are staring at my bulge. Whenever I hear laughing at school or in public I always think that it's because the outline is...

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