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by girlplayer34
Wed Oct 19, 2022 6:37 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Ashamed by inexperince
Replies: 4
Views: 3271

Re: Ashamed by inexperince

I'm still nervous about having to tell someone about my sexual experience I don't want to be dishonest but I also don't know when the right time would be to tell someone.
by girlplayer34
Tue Oct 18, 2022 1:06 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Ashamed by inexperince
Replies: 4
Views: 3271

Ashamed by inexperince

Hello my name is Deja, I'm 24 years old and I'm a virgin. I know to most people its no big deal but it still something I'm deeply ashamed and it's why I don't date much. I have never had a long-term relationship before a mixture of extreme shyness in my teens/early adulthood , and lack of opportunit...
by girlplayer34
Fri Dec 17, 2021 8:50 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I've never trusted anyone with my heart
Replies: 9
Views: 2430

Re: I've never trusted anyone with my heart

I want to meet new people I am open to it but, I am inexperienced and i feel that might be a turn off for some people which is why I don't date much. Now these days I feel like it's all about sex and most people are not willing to wait. To be honest I don't think anyone will ever be patient enough t...
by girlplayer34
Fri Dec 17, 2021 11:51 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I've never trusted anyone with my heart
Replies: 9
Views: 2430

Re: I've never trusted anyone with my heart

I honestly I don't know how to feel. Getting hurt has always been the thing that stop from forming those kinds of connections. I saw a lot of friends get hurt after losing their virginities and that only made it harder for me to trust anyone, there are times I'm worried that no one will want to be w...
by girlplayer34
Sun Dec 12, 2021 3:55 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I've never trusted anyone with my heart
Replies: 9
Views: 2430

Re: I've never trusted anyone with my heart

No only with romantic relationships.
by girlplayer34
Sun Dec 12, 2021 2:38 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I've never trusted anyone with my heart
Replies: 9
Views: 2430

Re: I've never trusted anyone with my heart

To answer the first question i mean romantic relationships. I do have some trauma in almost trusting someone but other than that I have never given someone my heart completely.
by girlplayer34
Sat Dec 11, 2021 8:11 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I've never trusted anyone with my heart
Replies: 9
Views: 2430

I've never trusted anyone with my heart

So I'm 23 years old, virgin, and never been in a serious relationship or any kind of commitment really. I was young when I discovered my sexuality and to be honest it scared me a little, it made me questions a number of things about myself. When I finally came to terms with everything truthfully I w...
by girlplayer34
Fri Oct 22, 2021 5:54 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Dating someone older
Replies: 3
Views: 2022

Re: Dating someone older

So because of or age difference I'm scared to be honest with her about it cause I feel like she won't want to wait honestly dating someone older is hard because I feel like at times we come from two different worlds and it can be changeling. Her friends have their concerns about our relationship its...
by girlplayer34
Fri Oct 22, 2021 10:55 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Dating someone older
Replies: 3
Views: 2022

Dating someone older

So I've been dating someone 11 years older than me I'm 23 and she's 34. We met at a party by a mutual friend and began talking and it was great. I was little nervous because I has never dated someone also I had never dated someone older than me but I didn't think about to much because I knew it coul...
by girlplayer34
Fri Aug 20, 2021 12:59 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Modern Love
Replies: 1
Views: 1323

Modern Love

So does anyone here think dating has gotten worse over the years, No just me ok then. I mean from social media to dating apps it is impossible to find a real connection with someone. Now don't get me wrong I know tons of people have meet online or by sliding in the DMs but thats not my style. I gues...
by girlplayer34
Fri May 28, 2021 7:52 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Brutally Honest
Replies: 13
Views: 19392

Re: Brutally Honest

I'm trying to have that mindset when it comes to dating believe me but I haven't been on a date ever I 'm a very. nervous person when it comes to dating I'm confident in other aspects of my life but dating and sex were always hard for me. It doesn't come naturally like it does for most I'm to scared...
by girlplayer34
Thu May 20, 2021 5:50 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Brutally Honest
Replies: 13
Views: 19392

Re: Brutally Honest

Well when it comes to sex its a whole other story. I know people say that any decent partner would be happy to have sex with someone who hasn't before but I couldn't understand why? I mean what do they get out of it other than an inexperienced partner who has no idea what they are doing. I don't fee...
by girlplayer34
Wed May 12, 2021 9:07 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Brutally Honest
Replies: 13
Views: 19392

Re: Brutally Honest

Hey boosterseat!! To answer some of your questions I don't know if I'll have a partner or fall in love I mean like you said could I shed my privacy expectations to be in a relationship and trust someone I honestly don't know nor do I do I think I'll figure that out anytime soon. When it comes to ris...
by girlplayer34
Tue May 11, 2021 9:47 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Brutally Honest
Replies: 13
Views: 19392

Re: Brutally Honest

Hello boosterseat, Thanks for the post. I don't think I'm a cynic I think I'm honest which most people don't have the decency to do anymore. I trust and like my friends they tell me deep and personal things I just don't tell them like I said i'm a private person and feelings are tough for me. Now my...
by girlplayer34
Mon May 10, 2021 6:19 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Brutally Honest
Replies: 13
Views: 19392

Re: Brutally Honest

Honestly I don't talk to my friends about this kind of stuff or anybody, i'm a private person so I don't share my feelings and I don't always feel like I have to. Being vulnerable isn't my strong suit letting a complete stranger judge me is not the most romantic thing in the world. There are two typ...
by girlplayer34
Mon May 10, 2021 4:58 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Brutally Honest
Replies: 13
Views: 19392

Re: Brutally Honest

It's something I think about constantly I told myself for a long time that its just wasn't going to happen so I let it go I stopped trying its hard. Online dating scares me I mean I know a lot of people do it but I don't want to meet someone online and I guess that is because of my parents. They met...
by girlplayer34
Sun May 09, 2021 7:19 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Brutally Honest
Replies: 13
Views: 19392

Brutally Honest

So... I have posted a few of these on here and I've been honest through out most of them I do leave details out from time to time buts thats for personal reasons. So now I've just decided to be brutally honest and to put al my feelings into one post so please be nice. I have a lot of trouble with lo...
by girlplayer34
Fri Feb 05, 2021 8:58 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Dating Advice
Replies: 5
Views: 4341

Re: Dating Advice

To be honest is mostly the dating apps that put me off I don't wanna meet someone that way I think its lame. I have never had a girlfriend before so I don't know what to look for even if I did. I miss dating when it was simple it's much more complicated now with apps and social media its nearly impo...
by girlplayer34
Thu Feb 04, 2021 3:36 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Dating Advice
Replies: 5
Views: 4341

Dating Advice

So let me paint you a picture... I'm 23 years old and I'm a tech entrepreneur. I've spent most of my life working which I completely ok with, most of my friends have had real relationships I have not which again is fine, or it is? I work a lot I have several employees and investors and I honestly lo...
by girlplayer34
Tue Nov 17, 2020 9:08 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Is being a virgin attractive?
Replies: 4
Views: 3132

Re: Is being a virgin attractive?

I am scared that if I tell her she will be turned off I mean it can happen some people think that taking someones virginity is a huge deal and I don't want her to fell like its her responsibility to make things special even though thats want I want with her something special and romantic but I do't ...
by girlplayer34
Mon Nov 09, 2020 5:38 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Is being a virgin attractive?
Replies: 4
Views: 3132

Is being a virgin attractive?

I have always felt like being a virgin was unattractive mostly because I though no one wanted to be with someone inexperienced. I've been dating this girl for some time now she is cute and funny and confident everything I'm not which is why I don't understand why she wants to even date me but, recen...
by girlplayer34
Wed Sep 16, 2020 5:07 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Been wondering for a long time...
Replies: 11
Views: 4637

Re: Been wondering for a long time...

So kinda like a pros and cons list where I right down what I like and don't like. It makes sense I have always wondered if that could work My therapist also told me to journal down my feelings whenever the though came up I don't see how that helps but I am will to try it.
by girlplayer34
Tue Sep 15, 2020 6:15 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Been wondering for a long time...
Replies: 11
Views: 4637

Re: Been wondering for a long time...

Yea I guess so, if you have any tips what can some of the first steps to open myself up to more dating possibilities I feel like I don't know what I am doing.
by girlplayer34
Tue Sep 15, 2020 1:05 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Been wondering for a long time...
Replies: 11
Views: 4637

Re: Been wondering for a long time...

I don't know to be honest I don't know the first step of dating I'm not into online dating call me a romantic but I always though I would meet someone in a coffee shop or bar or just out in the street. I know its not realistic but its just something I though would happen I know COVID kinda prevents ...
by girlplayer34
Mon Sep 14, 2020 6:23 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Been wondering for a long time...
Replies: 11
Views: 4637

Re: Been wondering for a long time...

If I can ask what type of complications can come up I've never been in a relationship before so I wouldn't know. Also that is the reason I never dated that was my excuse that since my perfect girl wasn't out there I wouldn't have to date.

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