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by A.Fiend1983
Wed Jun 07, 2023 7:15 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: How can I relax/retrain my pelvic muscles?
Replies: 3
Views: 3262

Re: How can I relax/retrain my pelvic muscles?

Sighhh, she obviously suggested some kind of physical therapy, which makes sense, but I've been quite busy lately, and before I cram more time for things into my schedule, is there anything I can do for myself right now?
by A.Fiend1983
Tue Jun 06, 2023 8:36 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: How can I relax/retrain my pelvic muscles?
Replies: 3
Views: 3262

How can I relax/retrain my pelvic muscles?

Hi guys! Been awhile. Went from not being able to insert a tampon to questioning if I was into girls (update, I just really like long haired rocker men with guitars)! Nowadays, however, as I've become much more in tune with my inner workings, I definitely wanted to learn more as to why I couldn't in...
by A.Fiend1983
Mon Dec 07, 2020 11:02 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I'm worried!
Replies: 1
Views: 3246

I'm worried!

So I finally started to somewhat touch myself, which I never usually felt like I needed to do, even when I felt somewhat aroused. One night, when I was on my period (so I was obviously more hormonal than usual) and looking at some lesbian content, I suddenly felt the urge to finally try somet. ing. ...
by A.Fiend1983
Mon Nov 30, 2020 10:47 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Shame
Replies: 5
Views: 2422

Re: Shame

It was mainly to see what was really out there, so out of curiosity I suppose, and after seeing the general idea of the videos that had been thrown in my face, I knew I didn't want to see it.
by A.Fiend1983
Sun Nov 29, 2020 9:14 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Shame
Replies: 5
Views: 2422

Re: Shame

Its mainly how my mother would feel, but also the fact that I've always been the one to never really be invested in sexual media, but over these past few months, usually at night, I wonder and have my various thoughts. I know that porn is totally fake and not a real representation of sex, so I'm not...
by A.Fiend1983
Sun Nov 29, 2020 12:23 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Shame
Replies: 5
Views: 2422

Shame

Whaddya know...it's me being confused again! Tonight, after seeing an image of a topless woman, and various gifs online of lesbian kisses, I wanted to go further. I've never considered watching actual porn, and I just visited a site for the stuff for some wild reason. After seeing the thumbnails/gif...
by A.Fiend1983
Fri Oct 16, 2020 7:48 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: How do I not feel like I suck?
Replies: 12
Views: 5522

Re: How do I not feel like I suck?

We were going to hang out today, but due to some stuff, he decided not to come over, and it really bummed me out. He's a good friend for sure, but he's not very good with being social or doing his own thing. That really told me I need to find more good friends than just him, but I don't really know ...
by A.Fiend1983
Fri Oct 16, 2020 4:49 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: How do I not feel like I suck?
Replies: 12
Views: 5522

Re: How do I not feel like I suck?

There's not much for me going on in my town right now, and I'm honestly sick of the whole mask/distancing thing. I'm just really sick of just going to school, working right after and, and staying inside all the other times.
by A.Fiend1983
Thu Oct 15, 2020 10:51 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: How do I not feel like I suck?
Replies: 12
Views: 5522

Re: How do I not feel like I suck?

I would want to learn new things, while also having something (anything really) in common with whoever I'm with.
by A.Fiend1983
Thu Oct 15, 2020 7:14 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: How do I not feel like I suck?
Replies: 12
Views: 5522

Re: How do I not feel like I suck?

I have found plenty of friends online that I love and appreciate, but I really want to find more in person friends that I can hang out with and talk with, that are also interested in some of the same things I am. I'm just not sure how to actually click with people who are very different than me.
by A.Fiend1983
Tue Sep 29, 2020 10:35 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: How do I not feel like I suck?
Replies: 12
Views: 5522

Re: How do I not feel like I suck?

I feel like it mainly comes from myself, and as for friends, I want ones who I can actually click with, who have at least some of my interests (like video games or music). Most of the friends who I really had clicked with in the past had problems or issues (depression, anxiety, etc.) they didnt want...
by A.Fiend1983
Tue Sep 29, 2020 9:05 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: How do I not feel like I suck?
Replies: 12
Views: 5522

How do I not feel like I suck?

Hello. During this entire year, I have not really been doing much, or anything productive, really. Usually, I wake up, play video games, draw, do schoolwork, and then go to work. I'm not very active outside, and I have not thought about college like I'm supposed to (I don't even want to think about ...
by A.Fiend1983
Sat Aug 08, 2020 10:00 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Feeling Ashamed/Unsure
Replies: 1
Views: 2237

Feeling Ashamed/Unsure

Hello. 17 year old girl whos obsessed with the 80s here again. I'm here to just get some thoughts out, and ask some questions. Sometimes, usually late at night, I seek out various gifs or short clips of lesbian couples, that are usually/most likely from television shows or adult films. I think that ...
by A.Fiend1983
Tue Jul 14, 2020 9:30 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sexuality Trouble
Replies: 1
Views: 2305

Sexuality Trouble

I know that there's probably a gazillion posts about this around here, but I just wanted to get my words out somewhere. So, I am a 17 year old girl, who has never dated, and has obviously never had sex before. I have plenty of guy friends, who have tried asking me out. I always said I was not intere...
by A.Fiend1983
Mon Jul 13, 2020 7:10 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I'm Terrified.
Replies: 1
Views: 1106

I'm Terrified.

This whole thing with certain recent events is crazy. I feel like there's no hope for anything anymore, for how stupid some people can be, and how horrible the government is. I get into these hopeless moods sometimes, and feel like nothing I do is going to do anything for the world at all while I'm ...
by A.Fiend1983
Mon Jul 06, 2020 2:11 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I Can't Use A Tampon
Replies: 5
Views: 2288

Re: I Can't Use A Tampon

I think that the thing is that I cannot get myself relaxed no matter what, even to put my finger inside. I get very panicked, and usually cry after a few attempts. All I really have to do is learn to relax, with both my finger and my tampon, so I don't know what to do.
by A.Fiend1983
Sun Jul 05, 2020 9:15 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I Can't Use A Tampon
Replies: 5
Views: 2288

Re: I Can't Use A Tampon

I have read that other thread before, and I've tried many different positions when it comes to it. I've never placed my finger in my vagina before (I've never masturbated before, and haven't really seen to do it, even when I am aroused. I've never had sex before either), and I think I'm just afraid ...
by A.Fiend1983
Sat Jul 04, 2020 9:37 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I Can't Use A Tampon
Replies: 5
Views: 2288

I Can't Use A Tampon

Alright so, I need help, big time. My 4th of July has been ruined, due to the fact that I can't insert a tampon. I keep being told to put my finger up there, but part of me is kinda freaked out to do so. When I try to normally insert a tampon, it seems to hit a wall, and it hurts a bit if I try to p...