Being worried that someone might walk in can certainly make it harder to enjoy masturbation. Are you able to masturbate somewhere private? Or is there basically always a risk of someone walking in on you? Can you say a little more about what you fear people might feel if they knew you masturbated? ...

Sam W wrote:Hi Paul,

Rejection can definitely sting. Can I ask what, specifically, you're having a hard time processing?

I just was hurt that she turned me down because she said I had no experience.

Hi Paul, When you're masturbating does it generally feel pretty pleasurable? And when you're masturbating, is your brain engaged as well as your body? It does feel pleasurable but after I become erect the pleasure completely stops. getting it erect isn’t that pleasurable. But once it starts it real...

At what age should I start hooking up

When I masturbate I cannot cum

I messaged a girl and asked her if she wanted to hookup and she turned me down. I am having a hard processing this.