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by theatreluvin
Tue Aug 11, 2020 11:01 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: friend problems
Replies: 1
Views: 218

friend problems

hiiii. it’s been a while, how are you all doing? so let me start out by saying I love my best friend and I only want the best for her. But the thing is, she keeps talking to her ex boyfriend who’s hurt her in the past. She had a pregnancy scare and he said he’d want nothing to do with her if she was...
by theatreluvin
Tue Jun 30, 2020 8:27 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Self Esteem Issues
Replies: 7
Views: 670

Re: Self Esteem Issues

He hasn’t blocked her everywhere cause he still thinks he’ll apologize for cheating on him. So he won’t block her anywhere else but snapchat. He doesn’t have an instagram or twitter.
by theatreluvin
Mon Jun 29, 2020 6:20 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Self Esteem Issues
Replies: 7
Views: 670

Re: Self Esteem Issues

Okay. I’ve been hesitant to say because I seem like I don’t have my sh*t together from some of the questions I ask up here haha but I really would like to volunteer. Some of the questions that are asked up here I totally feel like I can offer some good advice for. All of this insecurity had a valid ...
by theatreluvin
Sun Jun 28, 2020 1:49 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Self Esteem Issues
Replies: 7
Views: 670

Re: Self Esteem Issues

Thanks for your resources. I’ll look at it all. I actually deleted all my social medias in the beginning of quarantine. I found that it was feeding really negatively into my anxiety and it was a big source of stress for me. Also, TOTALLY off topic, but what does it take to become a Scarleteen volunt...
by theatreluvin
Sun Jun 28, 2020 7:16 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Self Esteem Issues
Replies: 7
Views: 670

Self Esteem Issues

Hi. So as you guys know, I’m really short. 4’10”. I’ve really started to resent my whole body lately. I’ve also been suffering a bit of anxiety(although that’s lessened slightly). The anxiety is not as a result of the way I feel about my body- it’s part of the spiral I get that I talked about before...
by theatreluvin
Mon Jun 22, 2020 4:36 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My dad’s overstepping... A LOT
Replies: 17
Views: 1141

Re: My dad’s overstepping... A LOT

I think that when I move out it’ll be gradual. I’ve been living with Anthony as you know, and every once in a while I go home, grab some clothes or things I need, say hi to my mom and go back to Tony’s. So I was thinking... maybe when I go back to school, on my longer breaks I can just say I’m going...
by theatreluvin
Sat Jun 20, 2020 4:38 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My dad’s overstepping... A LOT
Replies: 17
Views: 1141

Re: My dad’s overstepping... A LOT

Yeah I understand. Yeah I am really close with my mom. I do everything she does. I just don't want me moving out to hurt her or for her to feel like my dad drove me away from her, too. Cause this whole ordeal has damaged my relationship with my dad, but it didn't do a thing to my relationship with m...
by theatreluvin
Sat Jun 20, 2020 8:08 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My dad’s overstepping... A LOT
Replies: 17
Views: 1141

Re: My dad’s overstepping... A LOT

Yeah we all have each other’s phone numbers, but I deleted all my social media accounts cause it was consuming my life honestly. So, I can still talk to them. Some of them just live kinda far. I lived on my schools campus prior to the pandemic but like home is with my mom and dad. I could tolerate t...
by theatreluvin
Fri Jun 19, 2020 7:09 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My dad’s overstepping... A LOT
Replies: 17
Views: 1141

Re: My dad’s overstepping... A LOT

Honestly I was only like 9 when my sister was in her teens so I didn’t pay much attention to how she handled these things or how she was treated. I know she left the house reasonably late and when she started dating my brother in law my dad had no problem with it. I just know she and my dad were fai...
by theatreluvin
Thu Jun 18, 2020 6:34 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My dad’s overstepping... A LOT
Replies: 17
Views: 1141

Re: My dad’s overstepping... A LOT

Yeah. I don't know why I feel so awkward calling myself bisexual. It almost doesn't seem like it fits because of the lopsidedness I feel in attraction. I don't know if fluid fits either. It's been confusing for me. I read the article but if you could give me any more resources on my situation I woul...
by theatreluvin
Mon Jun 15, 2020 10:42 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My dad’s overstepping... A LOT
Replies: 17
Views: 1141

Re: My dad’s overstepping... A LOT

Well I don’t want to avoid him because I feel like some other people would catch on to the fact that something happened. They may start wondering and asking questions when I don’t really want to talk about it. Also like off topic but along the same lines, I get anxiety when we talk about those types...
by theatreluvin
Sun Jun 14, 2020 11:16 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My dad’s overstepping... A LOT
Replies: 17
Views: 1141

Re: My dad’s overstepping... A LOT

Heather’s answer was super helpful. Also quite comforting. I’m just worried that it won’t go over well when I try to talk to him. Actually my mom is not nearly as harsh as my dad is. In fact, she was the one who said, “you’re an adult, you make your sexual decisions and make them responsibly.”, and ...
by theatreluvin
Sun Jun 14, 2020 9:48 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Anxiety is affecting sex...
Replies: 18
Views: 1726

Re: Anxiety is affecting sex...

Hi Alexa, The self reflection question(s) portion of the article was actually quite helpful. Thank you. Also, another update. So he came to my house and we talked some more. It was the most normal things have felt in a while. I just listened without jumping to conclusions. Things are better. That wh...
by theatreluvin
Sat Jun 13, 2020 6:47 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Anxiety is affecting sex...
Replies: 18
Views: 1726

Re: Anxiety is affecting sex...

It honestly makes me sad to think about taking a break from Tony because I know we can work through it. We just don’t really get into arguments or have problems much, but this one I’m concerned about seems like a big issue. I don’t know.. he’s coming to my house tonight and we’re going to talk some ...
by theatreluvin
Sat Jun 13, 2020 5:13 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My dad’s overstepping... A LOT
Replies: 17
Views: 1141

Re: My dad’s overstepping... A LOT

I’ve always kept my dad at an arms length on things like this because he is HORRIBLE at processing information without being overdramatic. We’ve never talked about crushes or things like that honestly. When I went to a dance in high school, he flipped out when I told him I was going to eat with frie...
by theatreluvin
Fri Jun 12, 2020 9:27 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My dad’s overstepping... A LOT
Replies: 17
Views: 1141

My dad’s overstepping... A LOT

Hello again. So, my mom accidentally let it slip to my dad that I take birth control, and now all hell has broken loose. He wants to know all my business and is mad that my mom didn’t tell him I’m taking it. I started taking it because of a problem with ovarian cysts that birth control solved... Not...
by theatreluvin
Fri Jun 12, 2020 8:45 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Anxiety is affecting sex...
Replies: 18
Views: 1726

Re: Anxiety is affecting sex...

It’s been a while since I’ve been on, but I’ll give you some updates about what has happened between Tony and I since we last chatted. So the other night, we finally sat down and talked about things. I told him I felt like sex is very one sided and he’s using it as a way to cope with our problems in...
by theatreluvin
Tue Jun 09, 2020 5:16 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Anxiety is affecting sex...
Replies: 18
Views: 1726

Re: Anxiety is affecting sex...

I am going to talk to him about setting a boundary and that I should be enjoying it too. I definitely think that's worth talking about with him. I haven't realized that he's been kind of manipulating me into certain things sexually. Like. I never finish when we have sex. Only he does. And he never a...
by theatreluvin
Tue Jun 09, 2020 12:01 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Anxiety is affecting sex...
Replies: 18
Views: 1726

Re: Anxiety is affecting sex...

I want to try setting a boundary with him. But it gets difficult sometimes because he always knows just what to say to get me to change my mind and it’s like I get swept up all over again. Honestly before you told me that, I thought the more experienced person just knew what to do so they should lea...
by theatreluvin
Tue Jun 09, 2020 9:19 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Anxiety is affecting sex...
Replies: 18
Views: 1726

Re: Anxiety is affecting sex...

We’re fighting because he was offended by my question. He was like, “Why is that something you’d even ask me?” and I tried to explain my feelings. He’s frustrated because he says “I shouldn’t have to prove that I’m focused on you. That’s something you should believe and feel from me.” When I think h...
by theatreluvin
Mon Jun 08, 2020 11:16 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Anxiety is affecting sex...
Replies: 18
Views: 1726

Re: Anxiety is affecting sex...

Thanks for replying. A lot of nonsexual things feel good with anthony. Like when he cuddles with me or listens to me play piano or things like that. I only get anxiety when he wants to have sex. The thing is, tony is my first sexual partner and serious boyfriend. But i’m not his. So whenever I have ...
by theatreluvin
Sat Jun 06, 2020 2:37 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Anxiety is affecting sex...
Replies: 18
Views: 1726

Re: Anxiety is affecting sex...

I totally forgot to proofread that before I read it and I’m a typo fiend. My bad haha. About my mental health, it’s a bit hard at the moment. My mom is a psychiatrist and I’ve explicitly told her that I experience anxiety and that I believe I need help for it. Instead of her saying “okay, I understa...
by theatreluvin
Sat Jun 06, 2020 2:24 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Anxiety is affecting sex...
Replies: 18
Views: 1726

Re: Anxiety is affecting sex...

Well the thing is, Anthony’s trying to navigate everything in a different way, too. But he’s a straight white male... So I think he kind of feels guilty about him being privileged in that way. So whenever I try to tell him that it’s not his fault and he’s been a great advocate, he just says forget i...
by theatreluvin
Sat Jun 06, 2020 12:44 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Anxiety is affecting sex...
Replies: 18
Views: 1726

Anxiety is affecting sex...

Hi! I’m Dani. I had an account a while ago but I forgot the password :? So, my mental health has been the worst it’s been in a while. I’m a 19 year old black sexually fluid female in America.... it’s scary to be who I am right now. I still have pandemic anxiety, too. So... I know that much. I have a...

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