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by Sabine
Fri Aug 07, 2020 10:35 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: My crushes insta is no longer to be found ... So what to I do now
Replies: 3
Views: 41

Re: My crushes insta is no longer to be found ... So what to I do now

Do you think she will come back on social media based on past interactions. I have gotten over that. But, also I have contacted that mutual friend, (which is a super bad idea I thought and I am super anxious that she is going to block me and unfollow me too, I am trembling so much). It makes super s...
by Sabine
Fri Aug 07, 2020 2:24 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: My crushes insta is no longer to be found ... So what to I do now
Replies: 3
Views: 41

My crushes insta is no longer to be found ... So what to I do now

Well, my crushes insta is not found. I feel I scared I scared her off even though I did not send her a message. I looked on my personal one, her Insta is not found too. I’m so scared, I don’t know what to do, I cried so much. I’m sad. Well, I do want to consul the friend she has been vibing (I think...
by Sabine
Thu Aug 06, 2020 11:02 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How can I tell if she likes me?
Replies: 8
Views: 126

Re: How can I tell if she likes me?

One of my therapists and I mainly talked about my therapy and what Corna has been like for me life wise btw.
by Sabine
Thu Aug 06, 2020 10:55 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How can I tell if she likes me?
Replies: 8
Views: 126

Re: How can I tell if she likes me?

Well, I feel like I am worried and I want to ask her, but I don’t want to intrude on her. She already is so busy and I don’t want to further stress her. I’m sure she likes me because the way she flirts like that comment “um and not me” and the comment her DMS offering her place to say when I wanted ...
by Sabine
Thu Aug 06, 2020 9:42 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How can I tell if she likes me?
Replies: 8
Views: 126

Re: How can I tell if she likes me?

Thats what I mainly want to know, so I can evaluate the situation. I really want to evaluate it as close as I can so that I know how to act appropriately and not worry about it so much.
by Sabine
Thu Aug 06, 2020 9:35 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How can I tell if she likes me?
Replies: 8
Views: 126

Re: How can I tell if she likes me?

Oh we talked about other stuff. But I mainly am distracting, but thats not enough.

But I want to address whether she likes me or not first probably.
by Sabine
Wed Aug 05, 2020 1:59 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How can I tell if she likes me?
Replies: 8
Views: 126

Re: How can I tell if she likes me?

I didn’t mean to repeat the same sentence sorry! I mean’t to say she asked me questions often. :)
by Sabine
Wed Aug 05, 2020 12:43 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How can I tell if she likes me?
Replies: 8
Views: 126

How can I tell if she likes me?

I met this girl at a Speed Dating event sponsored by a dating site I don’t go onto (this holding on that matchmaking event). And she was very friendly and very warm. She followed my instagram and I followed hers. She lives in Colorado and I am still debating about whether I can be in a relationship ...
by Sabine
Wed Jul 22, 2020 3:36 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: What does a future new relationship look like during COVID-19?
Replies: 6
Views: 296

Re: What does a future new relationship look like during COVID-19?

Thanks so much. Any good websites to help me to watch movies or play games with friends? Also with addresses that may be a good thing. This was a friend that was close with me and that I knew for years. She didn’t bother me after that. Should have checked in with her. Should have interacted with mor...
by Sabine
Sun Jul 19, 2020 7:58 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: What does a future new relationship look like during COVID-19?
Replies: 6
Views: 296

Re: What does a future new relationship look like during COVID-19?

Its been a hit or miss I have not done a phone call in a long time. Sometimes, I text with them and I don’t know how to play video games or watch movie long distance. I don’t know their addresses, but I want to send them letters. I don’t know whats up. I want to make an effort, but everytime I do, I...
by Sabine
Sat Jul 18, 2020 2:58 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: What does a future new relationship look like during COVID-19?
Replies: 6
Views: 296

Re: What does a future new relationship look like during COVID-19?

Also I have this other crush on this girl on my dating app, everything I want in a woman, long luscious (blonde dyed) hair, feminine, 22. I hope she at least accepts my friend request because she at least has a lot of friends on there!
by Sabine
Sat Jul 18, 2020 2:35 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: What does a future new relationship look like during COVID-19?
Replies: 6
Views: 296

What does a future new relationship look like during COVID-19?

So, I want to have a relationship so bad and I know what I want. But, the situation looks more bleak for me. I may have to stay in Austria for a little longer, maybe even for the rest of the year. Perhaps, I will have to have a long distance relationship or a relationship close to my country (in Eur...
by Sabine
Sun Jul 05, 2020 3:17 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to alleviate anxiety about and not mess up about a future relationship
Replies: 8
Views: 308

Re: How to alleviate anxiety about and not mess up about a future relationship

Thanks so much! So how do I fix that unhelpful coping mechanism, especially obsessing about topics where it becomes a spiral over and over? Their place is so far away! I’m in Austria and they are in it too. I’m also a little concern that I have to emotional distance once I get back, but you know wha...
by Sabine
Sun Jul 05, 2020 3:02 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?
Replies: 33
Views: 1165

Re: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?

How can I remember that it won’t last forever? Also, how can I keep those factors in mind yet still talk about/enforce the plan (to expand to other apps?) to my parents? How can I keep that in mind while still holding out hope for new interactions and talking to this girl I want to chat with? How ca...
by Sabine
Sat Jul 04, 2020 9:34 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?
Replies: 33
Views: 1165

Re: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?

We are going to discuss some techniques in the future meeting. Yes Jessie Paege is close to her gf in this case, but I am far away from people I want to date. I want to be close to them in that long distance way so we can date later, but I can’t seem to get close. I also seem to not get close quickl...
by Sabine
Sat Jul 04, 2020 8:15 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?
Replies: 33
Views: 1165

Re: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?

Also, I wouldn’t be so upset except that My friend and her girlfriend and I am rescheduling our plans in Austria. The COVID rate is going up and her girlfriend’s sister got COVID! I’m sad because I cannot seem (in my mind) to maintain well meaningful friendships. I really want to maintain some, espe...
by Sabine
Sat Jul 04, 2020 3:10 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to alleviate anxiety about and not mess up about a future relationship
Replies: 8
Views: 308

Re: How to alleviate anxiety about and not mess up about a future relationship

Also, what is making me a little more anxious is that my friend and her girlfriend and I am rescheduling our plans in Austria. The COVID rate is going up and her girlfriend’s sister got COVID! I’m sad because I cannot seem (in my mind) to maintain well meaningful friendships (as well as any interact...
by Sabine
Sat Jul 04, 2020 2:44 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to alleviate anxiety about and not mess up about a future relationship
Replies: 8
Views: 308

Re: How to alleviate anxiety about and not mess up about a future relationship

I have turned off notifications and tried to not check the app frequently. I am trying to focus on something else and if I do go on the apps, communicate with other people on there! I will try and do that for the next few weeks! I have a lot more activities to do such as play Mario Odessey, read, ma...
by Sabine
Sat Jul 04, 2020 1:48 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?
Replies: 33
Views: 1165

Re: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?

Yes, we have been talking about it and I want to talk about it more and how to maintain it. Yes, I will but sometimes they are busy with their summer classes. I also want to be respectful too, not to overwhelm them. You make a great point and I am kinda focused on this girl, but also other options t...
by Sabine
Fri Jul 03, 2020 2:39 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to alleviate anxiety about and not mess up about a future relationship
Replies: 8
Views: 308

Re: How to alleviate anxiety about and not mess up about a future relationship

It all makes sense. For instance, I am focusing on other things too, but I really want someone to connect with too. I know I heard people in real life would be better, but with COVID-19 and sometimes that “stranger in the supermarket mentality” can be no better too. Worse is that often men mostly fl...
by Sabine
Fri Jul 03, 2020 2:31 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?
Replies: 33
Views: 1165

Re: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?

I need to talk to her about it, but I have talked about due to my past relationships, this all or nothing thinking - either this person can overwhelm me or will completely ghost me. I cannot overwhelm them or push them, but obviously I choose to ghost them. I really want to, but I choose to focus on...
by Sabine
Fri Jul 03, 2020 10:05 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?
Replies: 33
Views: 1165

Re: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?

Yes I have. I feel like I need urgently friends and a relationship because of how hard COVID-19 is, bot that it is hard for me because I can go outside but because distance away from my actual home. I want to get emotionally invested, but I know it will sometimes hurt. But, I know I will be lonely i...
by Sabine
Fri Jul 03, 2020 5:11 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?
Replies: 33
Views: 1165

Re: Why can’t I find a girlfriend?

Well ... Turns out she wanted to find someone near me and I explained to her I just wanted to be friends. And then, she stopped talking to me frequently. I joined another event by the same company, except its the UK and EU and I had to clarify with them that I am staying in Austria, I live in the US...
by Sabine
Fri Jul 03, 2020 4:59 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to alleviate anxiety about and not mess up about a future relationship
Replies: 8
Views: 308

How to alleviate anxiety about and not mess up about a future relationship

I matched and got friend requested with an attractive/interesting girl who is 3 years older on the app. I want to take it slow with her but at the same time really want a solid foundation and a poteintial a relationship. How can I do that without her ghosting me or having me worrying about ghosting ...
by Sabine
Mon Jun 29, 2020 10:20 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I have a crush, but I don’t know whether I should have a relationship, but I want to videochat with her
Replies: 1
Views: 137

I have a crush, but I don’t know whether I should have a relationship, but I want to videochat with her

I kinda have this one crush on this Danish girl who I think lives in the UK or Denmark. We met through a speed dating event and we got eachothers Instagram numbers. How can I tell she likes me via text? Like interested in me? She was asking when I will be able to travel and when I will go to Copenha...

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