Hi hydrangea03, So there is no "wrong" position for any kind of masturbation - the main thing is that you are physically and emotionally comfortable. From what you're saying, you feel okay physically but emotionally you have a lot of big feelings around this! That's okay! Can you tell me ...

I’ve always wanted to try fingering. I often imagine it as something that will probably feel really good, but I’ve never actually done it because as soon as my fingertip enters my vagina, I get so scared and stop altogether. Last night I tried to finger myself. It’s been a long time since I last att...

I’m a lesbian. When I masturbate, I like to see pictures of or imagine nude (or semi-nude) women, which arouses me a lot and can bring me to orgasm. But when I think about having sex with a woman, it doesn’t really turn me on. It’s nice to think about, but it’s more of a ‘fluffy thought’ rather than...