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Need to check out what your sexually transmitted disease or infection risk might be in a jiffy?
Using a condom is generally easier than it looks (especially if you can relax about it), but the first couple times, it can be tricky, especially if you're nervous about knowing how to use one.
What's a "boyfriend" or what's a "girlfriend?" It all depends on what you and yours decide it's going to mean and what works best for you.
I'm not gay, but I like my butt and anus played with. Can someone tell me why?
Need to know what the age of sexual consent is in your area?
I'm 17yrs old, not sexually active, never had a boyfriend (and I'm more than fine with it). Ever since my friend came out as bisexual, I've had this horrible feeling that I might be too. I've thought sexually about women for a few years now, and occasionally look at female porn. I just assumed this was normal, straight-girl activity, even though I don't think about guys as, um, graphically. Since my friend came out I've found myself attracted to certain women, not just sexually but romantically, as well as guys.
I just DON'T WANT to be lesbian or bi. I have no problems with them, but I don't want it to be part of my life. I'm terrified I'll have to acknowledge it - my family's loving but straight-laced and wouldn't accept it, for one thing, and it's just not the way I planned my life to run. I don't know how to explain it without sounding bigoted, but I don't want to deviate from the social "norm". I don't know what to do. Is there any way of...checking, some how? Is the Kinsey Scale accurate? Am I just imagining it since my friend came out?
Please tell me what to think, because I don't know what to do. Thanks in advance. I'm so glad for this website.
We've had a surge of late of users dealing with strongly homophobic family and friends: something that is incredibly hard, especially when you've no choice but to live at home, or when your social circle is very limited. So, here's a space to connect with others dealing with the same things you are at home, where you can get some support and community.
Homophobic Family & FriendsA user fell in love during her first year of college in NYC-- with someone of the same sex-- only to find her family's homophobia and bigotry make her question her relationship and her sexual orientation.
Parents, Girlfriend, and General ConfusionThe Audre Lorde Project is a Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Two Spirit and Transgender People of Color center for community organizing, focusing on the New York City area. Through mobilization, education and capacity-building, we work for community wellness and progressive social and economic justice. Committed to struggling across differences, we seek to responsibly reflect, represent and serve our various communities.
Thinking about coming out, but nervous about the reaction of your family?
A professional organization with a mission to provide opportunities for gay/lesbian Iranian healthcare providers to network and unite, promote mental and physical health within the Iranian GLBT Community and challenge homophobia in the Iranian community.
If I'm replused by male genitals, but not romantically attracted to women, where does that leave me? A user asks about feelings of aesthetic dislike about penises, and confusion about feeling sexual attraction to one sex, but emotional attraction to the other.
Genital Attraction & Sexual OrientationA dialogue on the fluidity of sexual orientation labels... from a different angle than "usual." (Or how it's possible for people who ID as queer to have opposite-sex crushes.)
Can a gay guy like a straight girl?!Are you wondering if it's ok to be Christian/Muslim/Jewish/Buddhist/Hindu/Wiccan/etc. and be GBLT? The answer is YES, absolutely! A recent conversation on an often posed question in the Orientation & Identity forum.
Christian and gay?Are bisexuals just confused, or are they opportunists? Do you have to have sex with people of both sexes to know you're bisexual? What do you really know about bisexuality? Think you've got all the answers? Check your bi-Q!