Boyfriend

It's not you, it's my sexual orientation

Ever fall for someone only to find out that she's not interested in dating men? One-sided crushes are nothing new, but adding sexual orientation to the pot can make the situation seem more sticky.

In love with a lesbian

Jealous girlfriend?

Jealousy isn't exclusively male or female, but it's bad for a relationship, regardless of gender.

Complicated relationship, jealous girlfriend

Hey, Boyfriend! Male Reproductive Choices

If you’re a guy, even though you're not the one who can become pregnant, you still get choices, and you still should participate in birth control use and responsibility just as much as a female partner. Have a look at how you can do your part.

Battle against bullying

Were (or are) you ever bullied and trying to comes to terms with it? A user shares his experiences with and gets support for childhood bullying and abuse.

Not sexual, but Abuse, nonetheless...

Video Games: Toys just for boys*?

*No way, they're for everyone! But they do seem to be marketed towards a more male-oriented audience and feature more staring heroes than leading heroines. However, the men in video games are usually quite unrealistically depicted; they have bulging muscles where the women have bulging... other things. A discussion for boys, girls, and everyone above, beyond and in-between, on the ideals of masculinity and femininity in gaming!

Video game hero(ine)s

Behind the ball?

Feel like you're behind the ball on being sexually active (which you aren't!) or don't understand why you passed on the sexual advance of someone attractive? It's often assumed that young men are ALWAYS ready for sex, but that's certainly not always the case and this double-standard can put a lot of pressure on men. Come read or join this topic rarely discussed in public.

When men aren't ready for sex

Being XY in Generation Y

As a young man, if and when you counter them, how do you deal with defining your own masculinity? How hard do stereotypes like this make it for you to find your own male identity? In that same vein, what HELPS you to be able to define your own gender identity positively; what helps you feel best able to counter these attitudes and find a "male" role that is healthy and feels good for you?

Who's the man?

Ready, steady, go...?

How ready were you for sex? Take our sexual readiness and consent poll, and find out what other Scarleteen men had to say about this subject. (We have a poll for women, too.)

Male sexual readiness and consent poll

What do other men think about orgasm and sexual pleasure?

Find out what male users of Scarleteen have experienced and feel about orgasm and sexual pleasure.

Orgasm/sexual pleasure poll: FOR MEN ONLY

So just what does "having blue balls" mean?

Find out both medical facts and personal experiences with "blue balls" (vasocongestion).

All you ever wanted to know about blue balls...

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