Hello, I'm 21 years old and my significant other is 22 and we plan on getting married in a couple of years. We would love to get married sooner but considering our financial situation, it just doesn't seem possible...leading up to the problem of sex. We are both Christians striving to be as good as we can, but I find we often times slip. We have engaged in foreplay and intercourse a few times, but sometimes it turns out great and sometimes it doesn't. We are both also trying to discern whether this is part of what God wants for us but I feel damned if I do and damned if I don't. If we end up stopping and waiting 2 years, will this problem of feeling guilty during sex come back or will it 'magically' get better? I've heard of instances where sex is great after marriage and some instances where it just plain stinks. Have I ruined everything? I just wonder if I have no patience and making love to my future husband will be the way God intended it to be after we do get married. It's such a suffocating thing to think about, please help!