Who said that sex and pleasure was something that happened only in our genitals? There are a lot of other areas of our body which can give us sexual pleasure: what are yours?
An homage to overlooked and simple pleasuresHere is a thread where users discuss their barriers to orgasm and arousal, whatever it might be: lack of trust, lack of time or privacy, worries about pregnancy or STIs, what have you.
What do YOU think are..Does vagina vary in size? Is it possible that I have a too small vagina?
Vagina too smallAre you experiencing troubles when it comes to intercourse? Before thinking that your partner's penis size being above average is the problem, why not check this out?
Penis-Vagina compatibilityInterested in knowing how other people feel about sex? Why not check this out?
Opinions, views, thoughts on sexYou're a girl thinking about having intercourse but you are worried about pain. Read about other user's first time experiences here, and you'll see that first time sex often isn't a pain, and can be a positive experience.
Losing virginity- does it hurt that bad?Liking the idea of having sex under the water no matter whether it is a pool, lake, hot tub or shower? Read this out first.
Sex and waterOur users share their thoughts on the various ways in which parents should talk about sex with their children.
How should your parents talk to you about sex?My boyfriend and I have been going out for one year and have been sexually active for some time. Usually we have pretty good sex. But lately I've just been getting upset because I can never orgasm through intercourse. I know that's normal for girls but when I ask him to do other things, he usually doesn't want to. I almost always orgasm when he eats me out but he hardly ever does that and if he does it's never long enough. He wants to just move into having sex. I'm starting to feel like it's a chore for me and sex is just a way to get him off and then we're done. But I want to feel pleasure too. I already love him and love being with him sexually but is there a way we can try to make me orgasm through vaginal intercourse? Or is there a way I can make it more comfortable for him to eat me out?
A Scarleteen user's final project for her Feminist Theory class, these two student-made sex ed videos linked through the accompanying blog are informative and a lot of fun.
Does anal sex make your hips and bottom larger?
I'm seventeen years old and have been sexually active with my boyfriend for the year that we have been together. I have faked orgasm almost every time we have had intercourse. I have read your site and read the dialogue you have provided on how to come clean about this form of dishonesty. However, I feel that at this point I am not sure the best thing to do is come clean. I would like your thoughts on what sort of dialogue I should be having with my boyfriend concerning different things we can do so that I can achieve orgasm, without hurting his feelings. Do you think it's healthy to not tell him at all and move on towards a healthier relationship?
Hello, I have browsed your web page and didn't exactly find what I was looking for so I am wondering if you could answer my question. Yes, it is orgasm related. You see I have been sexually active for a long time. I am 17 and I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years. He was a virgin when he met me but I wasn't.
The problem with me is: I have never had an orgasm. I know what you are going to say. "Not all women have an orgasm during intercourse." I get that, but I never had an orgasm during masturbation, or foreplay. Nothing. And now I am kind of pressuring myself to go. Well, not exactly pressuring myself, but in my mind I go: "Yes, right there, omg I am gonna come." When in truth, I am nowhere close. My brain might have just been sexually turned on to the max at that point, but I just don't go.
Do all women orgasm from vaginal intercourse? Can masturbation make you blind? Do only men ejaculate? Scarleteen’s taking the time to debunk some of the most common misconceptions surrounding sex in one handy place.
I am 14 years old and my boyfriend is 18. We have not had vaginal intercourse yet but we have anal sex regularly. Recently he has told me that he wants to add another partner into our anal sex. I said that I was fine with it (assuming that he wanted another woman to join) but then he told me he wanted a man. I'm sort of uncomfortable about it. Does this mean he is gay? What should I tell him?
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