I'm 13 and I know that I'm totally ready to have sex. I no that everyone is ready at different ages and all my friends are surprised because half of them cant even talk about puberty without blushing. It's not like I'm seeing anyone so I'm not being pressured I'm just so ready and I want the first time over and done with. Is this such a big deal?
I'm a week late for my period, a little tired, but other than that I'm fine. I've been having sex for a little while but my period has always come between the 17-20. It's now the 28th. I already took a test a few days ago and it was negative. I'm really worried. Please does anyone have answers?
Where were you at? How did you feel? How did people around you react? Every story is different as each of us. Let's get positive about the "curse"!
MenarcheWomen and girls spend billions of dollars every year on cosmetics, fashion, magazines and diet aids. These industries can't use negative images to sell their products without our assistance. Together, we can fight back.
Want to know if your genitals REALLY are normal?
You or family or a friend experiencing chronic illness right now? Whether externally visable to others or not, having a chronic illness can really affect us inside and out. What's it been like for you?
Dealing with chronic illness?I am considering trying anal for the first time. My boyfriend of 2 years (we're both 17) and I have been tossing the idea around for a while, but first, I have a few questions!
C'mon, its my BUTT. Will anal smell nasty? Will my bf end up getting crap on his penis? (Ew.) I've also heard you can really mess yourself up like this... like... having the squirts for a while and such. Last question! why are guys so intrigued by this anal fad? It's my bum!! I'm trying to have an open mind, because maybe, just MAYBE this could be something I'll enjoy... but seriously - what is so appealing about being up my ass? I just dont want to get into something im not sure about! (Hence the reason im asking lots of questions.) Help!
P.S. We are not considering anal as an alternative to vaginal intercourse. neither of us are avoiding sex because we are virgins; we lost it to each other. (We're still planning on using a condom with anal though... yuckie...)
I can't have an orgasm: I have been sexually active for a year. Any suggestions?
I know how difficult it can be sometimes, what with school and work and relationships and just maturing and changing and growing in general, to remember that you need to put YOURSELF as one of your highest (if not THE highest) priority in your life, and take some time every day, week, month, year (and so forth) to do something for YOU and your mental and physical well being; so, I figured, why not make a topic for everyone to discuss the best things you do for yourself, or to get some ideas from other users about what you could be doing to make you feel the best you can!
The best things YOU do for your body and soul!Let's get a discussion going on how our internal and external self-images mesh or clash, and whether it matters, and all the attendant questions that come along with it. It's a bit of a big topic, but I think one worth having, so let's have at it!
Inside, Outside, Upside DownWrite a haiku or two to a body part you need to make peace with, or have made peace with, but once didn't feel so hot about. Celebrate your body (and creative writing prowess!)
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It's Love Your Body Day: Come Haiku!In light of all the questions concerning breasts, their size, what they feel like, "will mine EVER grow?", "they aren't the same size!", and "is this normal?", how about we take some time to look at the good?
Breasts are amazing things. Really, they are. They are of major importance in the first stages of life after birth, providing nourishment and comfort. Breasts are the constant showboat in art and media, both celebratory and a source of problems. They are the worry of most of the population of teenage girls (and, come to think of it, an obsession of men as well).
So think about it; breasts, bosoms, boobs, melons, hooters, headlights, whatever you want to call them, are incredible evolutionary feats. So why do women scorn their own so much? Use this thread as an outlet to talk about the good, the bad, and the just plain silly of a woman's best friends.
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I Love My Breasts, Yes I Do, I Love My Breasts, How About You?So you're out minding your own business, living your own life, and then someone makes a judgemental comment on your appearance. (About what you're wearing, your body, etc.) You don't owe them a response, but it can help to have a comeback prepared. Something simple like "I can't believe you said that!" to a response more situation specific. What have you said (or wish you had said)?
Snappy ComebacksDo you currently have or carry a sexually transmitted infection? You aren't a leper, you're just someone with an illness like any other. Find others dealing with what you are here, and work out your issues without shame or stigma.
Support thread for STI sufferersAdiosBarbie.com is a one-stop body shop, where women and men of all cultures and sizes can learn about their bodies; feel proud and comfortable in their natural shapes, sizes, and colors; speak out against impossible beauty standards; and share their experiences.